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The older we get, the more we find that each of our lives is a world of difference, and the trajectory of this life, what kind of work to do, and what kind of person to become are basically doomed as soon as we are born, which is what we often call the impact of the original family.
Some people have been born smoothly all their lives, born with a golden spoon, from a young age, without worry, going to the best schools, studying abroad, returning to their home countries if they want to return to their home countries, not wanting to return to their home countries, working when they want to work, not wanting to work, and there is no shortage of money at home, and they can provide for him for a lifetime.
Although some people may not have a very good family background, their parents are Kochi, who know how to cultivate him from childhood, cultivate him into an elite, from childhood to adulthood are excellent students, directly enter the top enterprises after graduation, and do the work that many people envy.
Some people have a very ordinary family, their parents have not given any education, from childhood to adulthood, they rely on their own efforts, and they can barely work hard to the middle class, and their lives are still good.
More people, born ordinary, do ordinary work, receive ordinary salaries, live ordinary lives, work hard for life every day, without the slightest personal time, all of them are used to work hard. Nor is it as delicate as others.
There are also some people who simply give up hard work, directly lie flat, go back to their hometown to guard an acre and three points of land, rely on spring planting and autumn harvest, live a general life, barely make ends meet, and do not pursue any better life, so they have been living the second half of their lives.
You see, everyone's life is so different, some people live in high-rise buildings, some people live in deep ditches, some people are bare, some people are ordinary, a thousand people have a thousand kinds of lives.
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What leads to such a difference is actually a person's original family, it can be said that what kind of original family a person was born in, what kind of fate he has, which means that a person's life is actually destined to be what it looks like as soon as he is born.
The influence of the original family here on a person is from many aspects, not to say that money, not to say that if he has money, his life is superior, or better than others, money is only one aspect.
But from the family wealth, parents' knowledge, insight, parents' three views, the environment of growth, etc., to determine a person's life, some people although the parents have no money, but the parents are very knowledgeable, understand a lot, then teach the child more, the child will grow into a very good person.
Although some parents are poor, but very positive and hard working, then the children born, although there is no good growth environment, under the ears of their parents, will also become a positive and upward person, generally speaking, will also have a good life.
Some people, although their parents are very rich, real estate, and countless amounts of money, but from an early age neglect to cultivate their children, then they may also grow into a loser, squandering the wealth of the family in three or two, "rich but three generations" is not casually said.
What a person's life looks like, really has a very, very close relationship with the original family, and this is a very difficult fate to change, only a small number of people eventually succeed in changing their fate, living a life that is different from their destiny.
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The starting point of each of our lives is determined by the original family, and some people are born from a high starting point, which can be said to be the end point that many people cannot reach as soon as they are born.
Some people start from an ordinary point and have to work very, very hard to get a little better, and raise the starting point a little for their next generation so that they don't have to work like us.
For us ordinary people, the most important thing in this life is to first understand what kind of life we want to live, and what kind of life we ultimately want to pursue.
Then work hard according to your own goals, to pursue the life you want, to achieve your own goals one after another, although you may not reach the height of others, but at least, we all have the ability to make ourselves better and better.
In the life of ordinary people, as long as we don't take too many wrong roads, make every choice, and take every step of the road, we can basically live our own little life well, and we can all not let ourselves live such a bad life.
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