Life can never be a smooth river.
On the way forward, there will always be many dark moments.
Occasionally, the body will be in pain, you will become more melancholy, occasionally, the career will encounter Waterloo, the body and mind will become very tired, occasionally, family and feelings will have problems, the whole person is deeply hit.
When the situation is good, or when we do not encounter how bad things are, it is natural that our mentality will be relatively good, we will love life more, and once we encounter something, our emotions will inevitably be deeply affected.
At the slightest, you will feel that the days in front of you are so difficult, everything seems to have no meaning, and even more, you will even have the idea of taking a light life, thinking that ending your life can only be a hundred.
It is inevitable that people will not be so strong when they are at a low point, but no matter what, they still cannot give up.
You must not give up your life, live well, give yourself a little time, and let everything slowly get better.
Life is crucial and we must know how to cherish it.
The inner breakdown, the moment when life seems to see no hope, the choice to end, everything seems to be able to return to peace.
However, when we choose to do that, people who don't care about us don't take it seriously, and those who love us will become particularly miserable and can't bear it at all.
Even if it's not for those who love us deeply, in fact, it is not worth giving up on ourselves easily for some small things.
You know, life is only once, and this life that cannot be repeated is very precious.
When we come to this world with great difficulty, and it is not easy to become our current self, we really have no reason, because of a momentary unhappiness, because of a little setback, we doubt the meaning of our existence.
Moreover, in our hearts, there is still so much beauty, there is still no time to see, there are so many dreams, have not yet been chased, there are so many ideas, not to be realized, no matter what, we should still love ourselves and cherish ourselves.
In a short life, no matter what happens, we don't have to give up on ourselves, we should just face it bravely and let ourselves come out.
Just release all the bad emotions, just tell yourself that it is not a big deal, as long as life is still there, everything still has a chance, and you can start again.
Hold on, and the bad things will pass.
When we encounter bad things, we always feel why we are so unfortunate.
However, while we encounter these things, we must not forget that in the past years, we actually had many lucky moments, we were treated kindly, loved by people, and avoided many tribulations.
Everyone is actually like this, it is impossible to meet all lucky, and it is impossible to share all bad things.
For those bad things, we don't have to think so much, and when we meet them, we can solve them well.
Don't think too desperately, no matter what we encounter, whether it is love loss, unemployment, or a little problem in the body, these problems will not always exist, they will gradually disappear with the passage of time.
Don't doubt, think about it, in the past experience, we have actually encountered some obstacles, each time, we thought we could not pass, but later, we also successfully passed.
Time rolls forward, every present moment will become yesterday, and all the unhappiness will become the past.
When we are in a low place, the more we look unsatisfactory, the more we have to stabilize, calm our minds, grit our teeth and persevere, and survive this period of time and let a new tomorrow slowly come.
Take your time and everything will be fine.
The germination of a seed, the flowering, the fruit, that takes time. Many things also need to wait.
Wait for an opportunity, wait for yourself to sort out your mind, wait for the mood to calm down, wait for everything to become clear.
We must wait, but we can't just wait and do nothing, according to our actual situation, after seeing everything as it really is, we still have to take action and try to make changes.
There is no need to be in too much of a hurry, just do something you can do, silently accumulate strength, and keep taking a few more steps forward.
Walking along, a lot of pain, it will not be so obvious, many situations, will become different.
Losing a person, in the days to come, we will meet other people, even meet a better one, have suffered some injuries, and after that, those injuries will also become the toughest place in our bodies, so that we can stand higher and go farther.
On the road of life, a momentary frustration is really nothing, it is just some small episodes in the years.
If we look at life in a slow motion, just staring at those bad places, we will feel that life seems to be a tragedy, but if we know how to look at it with a long lens, we will also find that there is bitterness and pleasure in this, and the result will be very good after all.
No matter what situation we face and what problems we encounter, we must hold on.
Don't always think about these things, to get caught up in sadness, just how to live, how to live.
Always regard life as the most important thing in life, and always fear life and live well.
In addition, have a good heart, strive to fight for what you want, and be responsible for your own life.
Throughout our lives, we are just a very ordinary person, but only a very ordinary existence, even so, to be able to feel every moment of the moment, to be content with the ordinary, to enjoy the ordinary, to live every day, it will actually seem very extraordinary.
In life, there will never be only good things happening, and everyone will have some confusion and pain.
Instead of refusing, learn to accept and turn suffering into strength. In fact, it is precisely because there are so many bad people, those who are good to us, so cute, those good days, will also appear so sparkling, unforgettable.
Text/Tan Meng
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