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The storm of Wang Lihong's divorce has passed, but many people have not yet figured out the losses that Wang Lihong has suffered.
Wang Lihong's divorce incident, at the beginning, was only his unilateral official announcement of divorce, originally thought that it was just an ordinary star divorce, no tearing each other, no cheating, just because the two sides had different ideas about the future, and naturally went to divorce.
But later, after Li Lianglei posted a few small essays on social platforms, the real reason for their divorce gradually surfaced.
In Li Lianglei's essay, she recounts that in marriage, Wang Lihong treated herself as a fertility machine, cheated in marriage, transferred property during marriage, and the cold violence and humiliation of Wang Lihong and her family.
In addition, Wang Lihong also signed an unequal prenuptial agreement when marrying Li Lianglei.
Li Lianglei's small essay shows that she has been stoic for the sake of her children in marriage.
Even so, Wang Lihong still insisted on divorcing her after giving birth to three children.
Some people say that Li Lianglei's counterattack is for Wang Lihong's property.
After all, she has been stoic since she was married for 8 years, why is she no longer tolerant after the divorce?
This conjecture, Li Lianglei also gave the answer, she did not fight back for Wang Lihong's house.
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So why did Li Lianglei fight back at this time?
Most likely because she has repeatedly tolerated in marriage, just to have a harmonious family, she takes care of the family full-time, raises 3 children, and pays all her energy, but she has not been able to get the gratitude of the Wang family, and she has to continue to bear the betrayal of her husband.
These bad feelings have been accumulating in the heart for a long time, and in view of Wang Lihong's status as a star, Li Lianglei is unable to confide in others about her inner feelings.
Finally, when Wang Lihong filed for divorce, she was also treated unfairly, which completely broke her heart, which caused this storm.
Some people say that Li Lianglei is too cruel and will be destroyed if she does not get it.
Indeed, this storm is likely to ruin Wang Lihong's acting career, but what good is it for Li Lianglei to destroy Wang Lihong?
Even if divorced, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong are still the parents of three children, Wang Lihong still has to pay child support, ruining his career is not good for Li Lianglei, but will make their children suffer criticism.
In this marriage, Li Lianglei endured for too long, and only by being intolerable could she do reckless things.
We take a step back and see that in fact, it was not Li Lianglei who caused this storm, but Wang Lihong.
If Wang Lihong had given Li Lianglei enough material compensation when she was divorced, she would not have set off this storm.
For a woman, in a marriage, it is nothing more than wanting to get two things, the same feelings, the same money.
Yi Shu's novel Xi Bao said: "If there is no lot of love, then it will cost a lot of money." ”
Li Lianglei is running for feelings, she has endured for so many years, we should know that she loves Wang Lihong, but in the end she did not get love, nor did she get money, but was used by others.
She had failed utterly in this marriage, and this maddening outcome was enough to infuriate her.
Wang Lihong did not think about what kind of pain she had to endure, but only considered from his own standpoint, and let her protect his high-quality image.
His indifference and desperation are the important reasons for Li Lianglei's counterattack.
The story of "Little Monkey Down the Mountain" we have all heard, the greedy little monkey saw the corn, saw the peach throw away the corn, saw the watermelon and threw away the peach, saw the cute little rabbit and threw away the watermelon in his hand, and the result was that the little rabbit ran away, and it also went home empty-handed.
The little monkey in the story has never thought about what he wants, so he doesn't know how to choose.
Wang Lihong's thing is that the upgraded version of the little monkey goes down the mountain, he wants too many things, children, houses, reputations, careers, these he wants, but does not know how to choose.
If money can solve things, why pay for career prospects?
Wang Lihong did not want to pay love, nor did he want to pay money, and finally paid for his career, which was not worth the loss.
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A few days ago, Via was recovered and fined more than 1.3 billion yuan for tax evasion.
Wei Ya, whose real name is Huang Wei, evaded taxes of 643 million yuan and other underpaid taxes of 0.6 billion yuan between 2019 and 2020, and was eventually recovered and fined a total of 1.341 billion yuan.
Some people joked: the last time I heard this figure was when the national census was taken.
Because of this matter, Via's live broadcast career also pressed the pause button, and her live broadcast rooms on various platforms were also banned.
There are many people on the Internet who estimate that Via's annual live broadcast revenue is about a few billion, of course, this figure is not necessarily accurate.
But Via's annual income is definitely worth a big business.
Why does she make so much money on live streaming and evade taxes? This makes many people puzzled.
There is a word in psychology called loss aversion.
Simply put, a person's happiness of 100 yuan is far less than the pain of losing 100 yuan.
This is also why many rich people take huge risks to evade taxes.
However, on the other hand, it also shows that being too greedy and not knowing how to make trade-offs will eventually pay a huge price.
From this point of view, Wang Lihong and Wei Ya have suffered losses that they do not understand trade-offs, and things that can be settled with a small amount of money have to pay a huge price, so that they have destroyed the root.
As the saying goes, willing to give, willing to give, there is a sacrifice to get.
Plum blossoms give up comfort and comfort, in order to laugh proudly in the cold wind, the earth gives up the intoxicating dusk, in order to usher in the rising sun.
If you want to have eternal applause, you have to give up the vanity in front of you.
A person can't have all the good things, know how to give up some, in order to harvest what they like.
But often many people in life know this truth, but when encountering things, they often forget to make trade-offs, Wang Lihong is like this, Wei Ya is also like this.
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