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All their lives, people want to realize their own value. So, what is the embodiment of value? Naturally, there is success in the career, or there is a learning achievement.
The road to success has not been so smooth, nor has it been so easy to achieve.
Wang Guowei summed up in his "Words and Sayings on Earth" that success in life requires going through three realms in order to be able to make a difference. These three realms are very graphic and poetic.
The first realm: Last night the west wind withered the green trees, went up to the tall building alone, and looked at the end of the world
The first realm of success mentioned by Wang Guowei comes from the Northern Song Dynasty poet Yan Shu's "Butterfly Love Flower". Translation: Last night, the autumn wind blew down the leaves of the bi tree, and I climbed the tall building alone to watch the road disappear into the end of the world.
After all, this sentence is a little sad, but also full of loneliness.
But isn't that the way to success?
On the road of struggle, no one will be with you, and no one can understand your loneliness. Fighting alone has always been the characteristic of everyone who moves toward success.
This loneliness is normal and bitter. There is no one to accompany the road, and the tears can only be swallowed by themselves.
Even if the "wind" of the outside world is so strong, even if the road to the end of the world is so far away, as long as there is a "peak" of the building, you can climb up without complaint or regret.
Success is never casual, there is no wind and rain, and there is no rainbow.
Therefore, do not be afraid of loneliness, do not have to be sad, life is self-suffering and suffering, only through hardships, to show the true character of heroes.
The second realm: the belt gradually widens and there is no regret, and the people are haggard for is gone
"The belt gradually widens and there is no regret, and the people are haggard for Yi Que" comes from the Song Dynasty lyricist Liu Yong's "Butterfly Love Flower Leaning on the Dangerous Building Wind", the original meaning is: I gradually lose weight and the belt is loose and I do not regret it, for her I am willing to be haggard.
In this second realm, the original word is to write emotions. But expanding, in fact, has the same magic as life and successful struggle.
"For her sake, I would rather be haggard, willing to lose weight than regret it."
Isn't that true of people's pursuit of success? People with lofty ideals, even if they suffer more and experience more hardships, they must persist and move forward.
This is the perseverance and perseverance required for success. If people do not have such determination and courage, they will easily give up halfway and get nothing.
Success requires set goals, but also persistence and strength. Only an unrepentant heart can be consistent.
The third realm: the multitudes look for him a thousand hundred degrees, and suddenly look back, but the man is in the middle of the light
Wang Guowei used "the crowd looked for him a thousand hundred degrees, and suddenly looked back, but the man was in the middle of the lights" to represent the third realm of success, which was really exquisite.
We all know that this sentence comes from the Southern Song Dynasty poet Xin Shuyi's "Qingyu Case • New Year's Eve". Who is the man in the dim light? No one can say for sure. Or, it was Xin Ren's crush; or himself; or the emperor Song Xiaozong at the time; or the northern Song Dynasty's hometown in Xin Ren's mind. In short, "the man" is just an image.
And Wang Guowei compares it to the third realm of success, which actually alludes to people's mentality. That is to say, on the road to success, you can be persistent, you can persist, but everything must go with the flow.
People are naturally hard to pursue success, but this does not mean that you have paid and insisted on it, you will be able to succeed, which has the phrase "the crowd is looking for him for a thousand hundred degrees".
This "thousand hundred degrees" is also the hardship and sweat paid by people on the road to success. Because no one can succeed casually, it is impossible to find "that person" at once.
But often, the more you bother to ask for something, the more you don't get it. The same goes for success. When people are too utilitarian, or too purposeful, they are often even less able to get what they want. Even if you "look for him a thousand times"? Giving doesn't necessarily mean getting paid, it's always been the case.
Have you worked hard, struggled, and felt ashamed, and the result is left to heaven to decide whether it is good?
We often have a saying that "there is a heart to plant flowers and flowers, and no heart to plant willows to shade". How could success not be like that?
Don't be too anxious, don't be too gained. When your effort reaches a certain level, it will come after all.
"Suddenly looking back, the man was in the middle of the light." When the water comes to fruition, you may inadvertently see the hope of success.
Heaven will not treat everyone who works hard. The better your mindset, the more success may surprise you.
Therefore, the three successful realms summarized by Wang Guowei are indeed exquisite!