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May you meet the most beautiful in the most beautiful scenery
As the saying goes: people are divided into groups by clusters, and maybe what kind of person you are, what kind of friends you will meet.
But life in the world for decades, a lifetime of half a life, half a life of floating, the people you know, the things you contact, where there is any law to speak of, some people when they are young, like the mountains and rivers are far away, carry their bags, come to a trip that says go.
While seeing the great rivers and mountains in the world, I have also made a lot of friends, but it is difficult to draw a tiger and paint a skin, and in many cases, these friends not only cannot become the best friends, but also drag themselves down and become a burden to themselves.
After middle age, people are basically married, the first task at this time should be to put all their energy into the aspect of supporting the family, for some unnecessary friends, it is best to break contact with them, after all, they can not ignore the family's life to help each other, so it is not worth it.
1. Friends you know at the dinner table
Some people are hospitable when they are young, always love to make all kinds of friends, there are many superficial "confidants" through the dinner table to know, the two because of a casual chat at the dinner table, they will recognize each other as their confidants, only to blame each other for meeting very late.
But after that, the connection between the two was limited to the dinner table, and it was okay to eat, but if he talked about something substantive, he suddenly lost his words.
For such friends, if you can break the contact, you can break the contact, because the feelings between you and him are not so deep, on the contrary, if you continue to promote the feelings between each other at the dinner table, then it is too cheap after all.
People who do not have the same life experience, just a few meals, can not produce emotional resonance, nor can the feelings between the two be further sublimated.
Therefore, for this kind of friend, if you can break contact, you can break contact.
2. Hypocritical people
It is precisely because of the purpose that there will be action, some friends, the reason why they are willing to make friends with you, and it seems that the other party is also very kind, but as everyone knows, he himself is a false feeling, inflammatory person.
He will say something very beautiful, and he will give you some praise, but none of the things he promised can be accomplished, and on the contrary, he uses this as an excuse to hope that you can help him accomplish something to achieve his goal.
In the end, he is a hypocritical person himself, and he has never given his heart to you.
After people reach middle age, they do not have so much time and energy to maintain this "hypocritical" feeling, the most important thing is to maintain the harmony of the family, so for such friends, if you can break the contact, you can break the contact.
3. People who are good at flattery and pulling high and low
As the saying goes, people go to a high place, the water flows to a low place, this sentence itself is no problem, but if in order to achieve their own ends, unscrupulous means, flattery, pull high and low, no matter when, such people can not get the respect and understanding of the people around them.
Xiao Zhang has a colleague who is such a person, in the company, he always excludes some colleagues who are not pleasing to his eyes, and often makes some reports to the leader, and is good at sneaking and patting horses and flattering.
Xiao Zhang originally had a very good relationship with him, but since he was pit once and recognized his true face, he had no contact with him anymore.
After all, a large family of people count on Xiao Zhang to have a job to make a living, and Xiao Zhang does not want to lose this job because of careless dating.
For those who like flattery and low, middle-aged men must leave their relationship with them, because in their hearts, there is never a "friendship" term, and if they get too close to them, they may eventually suffer.
Conclusion: After people reach middle age, regardless of whether their family situation is good or bad, in short, these three types of people can break contact and break contact, if they continue to contact them, the final result, their families will even be affected, it is indeed not worth continuing to pay for them.