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Restoration office, in operation
Reading "PushIng Open the Door of the Psychological Clinic" is particularly not like the feeling of reading social science books, it is particularly like the feeling of picking up stories in the human world. The author uses the shell of storytelling to package the psychological problems in his eyes, and treats the psychological clinic as a high-end supermarket, which displays not diagnostic books and drugs, but the solutions of each counselor. To be honest, this description of his attracted me instantly, and I thought it would be good to walk in and take a look and feel it.
With such a very casual mentality, reading this book "Pushing Open the Door of the Psychiatric Clinic" is the right way to open.
If each of us, when we encounter psychological problems, at a very mild time, can walk into the repair center, be early intervention, open the psychological knot, and guide to a better thinking direction, it will be easier to be cured.
I have seriously thought about it, for the people around me, whether people will face up to psychological problems, whether they will take the initiative to go out for help, and make the addresses of psychological clinics and psychiatric hospitals less sensitive, it is very good. But obviously, everyone is not in this state, nor is it such a perception. Prejudice and argument are everywhere, and we still have layers of obstacles and spiritual shackles.
Including myself, even if I read "Push Open the Door of the Psychiatric Clinic", I still can't completely let go of the baggage I have in my heart, and many psychological problems still can't be taken out to talk to, and it is impossible to face the psychologist. On the road to self-regulation and self-repair, although tortuous, I still hope to read more, meditate more, decompress more, and slowly release my emotions and stress. But really, those deep darknesses are so hard to dispel.
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Interpersonal emotions
People are very different in cognition. So I understand the conflict between the wife who sold insurance and the veteran. He thought it was incredible that the veteran had been out of the army for more than a decade and had never worked, that he was sick. Moreover, he was cold and violent to her and refused to communicate with her. She took the veteran to see a psychologist and felt that this matter had nothing to do with her at all, and that the veteran had psychological problems.
The author told her a story, a particularly profound sentence. "Imagine you both are marathon runners, but you're a full horse, he's a half horse. Although the starting point is the same, you always have the illusion that he stopped halfway through, and in fact he finished his own game...".
The veteran finished the half marathon and wanted to relax, lying on his finish line and cooling off. And the all-horse runner who led the way, after running his own race, turned back to spur this half-horse runner, as if it was quite unfair.
After some explanation, it felt as if the problem had something to do with this tough wife. She herself is in the insurance business, and there is no shortage of money at home, she only hopes that veterans should also be positive and work the career path. However, veterans retired from the army in their forties, received their own pension every month, took care of their young daughters at home in the first few years, slowly got used to this slow life, did not pay much attention to work, and enjoyed their current situation. In fact, there is nothing wrong with it, he has fought, just started the rest mode in advance.
The reason why I can understand this is because I have such a friend by my side. During his ten years from 27 to 36 years old, he was overloaded with work, working hard in a business, busy from 7 a.m. to 10:30 p.m. every day, exceptionally hard, although the income was considerable. At that time, all he wanted was to be busy until he was forty years old, retire early, live the life he wanted, write and write, and travel. But when he came to his forties, closed his company, and really wanted to relax, his family began to give him a cold look, thinking that he was a man who was idle at home and did not work, even if he still had an income.
He later came out to work, and his talents and dreams were thrown away.
Originally did not want to be an ordinary person, but still a person who is tired of running for life.
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Elders greet and answer the raiders
The author Nian Song, handsome, has an idol temperament.
In fact, it is quite naughty. The path map of the elderly greeting type he drew, from schoolwork, feelings, family, career and other aspects of the problem, eventually all went to the end of "receiving teachings". But it was clear that in his heart there was never the slightest desire to "receive the teachings." At this point, he's the same as us.
Tell 22 psychological stories that happen in the psychiatric clinic. There are not only consultations and treatments, but also care and connection, refracting the changes in people's life needs under the change of the times with difficulties, and using connections to help people develop a richer personality.
The author hopes to use life scenarios to convey the understanding of psychological knowledge, no longer reject mental illness due to understanding, and accept psychological counseling because of understanding.