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Tang Ruoxin learns original works, and those who violate them will be investigated
Everyone's life will not always be smooth and smooth, when encountering setbacks, there will always be a feeling of living like a year, but the mentality of suffering cannot change the reality, what we need more is to correct our mentality and find our own advantages in it.
Because there can be no one hundred points of people in this world, there can be no zero points of people, everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages, as long as we find our own strengths, and make efforts from them, in the process of getting better, how to do hard work, this is where we need to learn.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="39" > suffering is the norm in life </h1>
I have seen a movie with such a sentence: "If there is only one kind of heroism in life, it is to love life after recognizing the truth of life!" "
In fact, with the slow growth of age, we can gradually feel mixed feelings, is the normal state of life, everyone is spitting on life, while fighting for life. When people walk in the world, there is no one who is not hard, only people who do not complain.
In front of others, perhaps we will all disguise ourselves as indestructible strong, and behind the scenes, only the closest people can see the fragile self, and the wisdom of life is to learn to make fun in suffering.
Many people's pain is due to insomnia in the middle of the night, bad mood, headaches, etc., in fact, these are only a very small part of life, more people are experiencing life and death, big ups and downs, and the critical blows in life have made him unable to get up and cry.
Life is sometimes difficult for us, there is no lower limit, in fact, the family is alive, the body is healthy, there is a job that can eat, there are months of non-work savings, it is already the envy of many people.
Such a life is at most unsatisfactory, not called suffering, go out to see when resting, talk to enterprising and friendly friends, read books and watch movies, this unsatisfactory mood will be soothed. Learning to have fun in suffering is the norm of life.
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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="38" > learning to make fun in suffering is the highest way to live </h1>
Nine times out of ten, there is a law in life called active choice. This means that we can make the most positive choices in any situation.
Positive choices often allow us to come out of pain, no longer be angry, but choose the best mentality and the most positive state to deal with.
Learning to take pleasure in suffering is, in a way, to regard suffering and difficulty as the norm of life, and when you understand that suffering is the gift of each of our lives, you may understand that rejecting suffering is also rejecting the gift that life gives us.
The more you know how to embrace suffering and accept suffering is an important issue in our lives, the more we can do what we should do with a peaceful mindset.
In recent years, Xiaomei has been in a relatively low state of life, and has thought about giving up her life several times, until one day she has a baby, a new life, and the appearance of this child has given her the courage to face life again.
At that time, after giving birth to a child, Xiaomei suffered from postpartum depression, and after pregnancy, Xiaomei's job was lost, and she often felt that her husband did not love herself enough, giving herself a lot of psychological pressure, often insomnia and nightmares, and excessive anxiety.
When Xiaomei just gave birth to a child, her husband was busy with business and could not take care of Xiaomei, resulting in Xiaomei not being able to get a good rest at all when she was confined, often crying during the confinement, and finally doing the confinement body was also very poor, and during that time, whether it was body or soul Xiaomei was unprecedentedly bad.
Fortunately, Xiaomei's mother has been enlightening and encouraging Xiaomei, helping her with the child when Xiaomei can't persist, and the days have passed day by day.
Xiaomei's mother repeatedly told her daughter to learn to look forward, not to live in the past, but to use a good attitude to live out the best of themselves, others love you or not, it does not matter, but you have to love yourself well, so that your children will be happier and happier. Xiaomei was touched by her mother's words, and slowly her mentality gradually balanced.
Now in addition to the usual children, she has signed up for English training classes to improve herself, and when life is gradually enriched, it is obvious that she can find less time to think wildly, less and less anxiety, and the degree of natural happiness.
When we no longer give up our initiative, when we know how to embrace the choice of life, often we can slowly control the initiative, so even if life is bitter, we can learn to make fun in suffering.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="28" > choose happiness and make life sweeter and sweeter </h1>
Life is a feeling, in fact, a lot of times, we forget that we have a choice. A lot of people say that happiness is a feeling, and happiness is an ability.
If you want to be happy, the first thing is to learn to reconcile with yourself, not to embarrass yourself, to do a good job of what you can think of, not to think more and ask more, to pursue things that you can't reach excessively, to do your best in everything, and then to go with the flow, life will be much simpler.
Many of the sufferings of life are caused by our inner complaints, and if we can always see the sunshine of life, often life will not be too bad for you.
When you have a pair of eyes that are good at finding beauty, you will find that there are many kinds of happiness.
Insist on learning to have fun in your suffering, life will slowly get better in your happy mentality, believe me, everyone's life has a lot of troubles, and happiness is actually just your own choice.
Choosing a happy mindset, rather than blindly immersing yourself in suffering and losing your own choices, will always be the source of happiness and happiness in our lives, the happier you are, the less suffering will be, will you?
Today's topic: Will you be happy in pain, welcome to discuss and communicate.