Pleasure in suffering is a positive attitude towards life

I have heard people say that you cry to the world, only you cry, you laugh at the world, the world is laughing. It's an attitude, whether successful or unsuccessful, maintaining a positive attitude, for life, you are successful.

There is a friend named Xiao Qiang, who does grassroots work in the company, is a relatively small enterprise, to work more than 10 hours a day, sometimes overtime until very late. Colleagues sometimes inevitably complain that the work is so hard, the money is not very much, it is better to stay at home. But Xiao Qiang has never complained, a colleague asked him, Xiao Qiang, don't you think it is boring to work like this every day, the key is not to make money, or how about we change jobs together? Xiao Qiang smiled and said, "My family is from the countryside, it is not easy to get a job, although I am a little tired, I can also learn something." The colleague said disapprovingly, what can be learned, is nothing more than assembling the parts, taking a little effort and no brains. It is better to send express or takeaway, or let's go to deliver takeaway, I heard that it is thousands a month. Xiao Qiang shook his head and said to his colleagues seriously, you see, although our line is manual work, a little hard, but when assembling parts, you must know the structure and quality of each part, if because of the negligence in assembly is likely to cause problems in the test, if you want to become a leader, you must know your own products well in order to persuade each other to cooperate in business communication, just like I cultivate at home, I want to understand the soft soil of my own land, and understand the quality of the seeds. Then it is possible to have a good harvest after sowing. If the seeds are not good, if the white seeds are planted, if the land is not good, the seeds will not grow well, so this work seems simple but it is not easy to do well. This conclusion said that the colleagues were dumb, did not expect that Xiao Qiang usually did not talk much, but also very tired of this job, did not expect to have such an insight into such a boring and tedious job. However, it was not long before the colleague resigned to deliver the takeaway.

Xiao Qiang in the work will not encounter problems in time to consult, not busy when will follow the quality inspection part of the people to test the product, sometimes it is not easy to rest a day if the company if there are colleagues to run the business he will also follow, only to lay hands do not participate, a long time, the boss also knows this matter will call Xiao Qiang to the office to simply ask him about the characteristics and performance of the product, Xiao Qiang answers such as flow can also add their own insights to make the boss overjoyed, Immediately decided to let Xiao Qiang as the deputy director of the company follow his colleagues in the business to negotiate business and expand the market. Unexpectedly, in less than two years, the company's performance increased by fifty percent, more than half of which was negotiated by Xiao Qiang, and the boss not only promoted him and raised his salary, but also privately regarded him as a friend. This is like a dream for Xiao Qiang two years ago.

Colleagues who delivered takeaways before were still delivering takeaways, and had nothing but an income of a few thousand yuan, and Xiao Qiang not only became a leader but also bought a house in the city. In the first half of my life, Luo Zijun's attitude to life before divorce was to buy, buy, buy, and be a full-time wife, but he did not contribute much to the family, only staring at whether her husband would be hooked up with other women. Completely lived into an idle and suspicious person, people are emotional animals, and when they are advanced, they will have some emotional needs when they are not worried about food, clothing, housing, and transportation, such as caring, comforting, and sharing. And these Luo Zijun didn't ask much. After the divorce, when facing the child being taken away, as a mother, she realized her original deficiencies, but in order to get the custody of the child, she began to study from scratch, went to the interview, did the coolie, sold shoes to slowly find herself, and found the proper state of life. Even without marriage, you can still live a very dashing life, which is undoubtedly a great progress compared to the previous nostrils to see people can now stand in each other's perspective to see the problem.

When I was in college, the teacher said that most of the things I learned in school were useless, the real school is in society, the real teacher is life. But why go to school, going to school is to learn the basic qualities of human beings, increase knowledge and acquire the ability to face society at the same time, and it is not excluded that people who can still live well in school. These people will take a relatively tortuous path but may also be rewarded faster. No matter what kind of a result, we should face life positively, life is short, we must learn to be happy in suffering, if you often put yourself in a negative state, then your life will not be much better. On the contrary, in a positive attitude, even if we will experience suffering, then after the storm, what greets us must be a rainbow.