<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="1" > for ordinary people, many efforts are in vain</h1>
For ordinary people, many efforts and struggles are in vain. This is not self-abandonment, or self-evasion, it is not an inaction with two hands and one hand, but it is to go with the flow after doing its best, and it is the objectivity and rationality after seeing reality clearly.
Looking back at the period of enthusiastic youth, I always rejected the phrase "it is better to have a good father after 20 years of struggle.". At the time, it was thought to be the work of a coward, which was the embodiment of the parasite. Now, I have to admit the objectivity and reality of this sentence. Once self-absorbed, full of enthusiasm, dreaming of fighting the sword to go to the end of the world, seeing the prosperity of this world. But now it is smoothed out by the ruthless and cruel reality, and The Appointment of Lotte...
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="14" > knowledge may change fate, but it cannot change the fate of everyone</h1>
For people from ordinary families, even if they graduated from 985 or 211 universities? It is still the sweat and blood of 996 who lives "not seeing the sun, accompanying the moon". No matter how hard you try, at best, you are just a "white-collar worker", subject to the soul constraints of the phone that cannot be turned off for 24 hours; no matter how hard you fight, you still can't afford to buy a house in the city, and you can only bend into a cheap rental house; no matter how knowledgeable you are, you have to work for those "demolition households" who have no ink on their chests.
Especially in the current developed Internet environment, "intellectuals" seem to be becoming less and less popular, and even reduced to "mediocrity", more like "tool people" in the hands of capitalists. In terms of economic income, it is far less easy than a funny Internet celebrity or a clown who has made a lot of appearances.
Knowledge can really change fate, but it can't change the fate of all people. Not all knowledge is useful, and not all talents can be reused, which is an objective fact. Don't be naïve enough to think that as long as you study hard, you can escape the fate of the many, and you will not be able to escape in the end.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="17" > the essence of life is pain, and learning to "make fun in suffering" is the true meaning of most ordinary people</h1>
Fate is in your own hands, and effort can change your destiny. This sentence is familiar to many post-80s and post-90s. Yes, effort can really change destiny, but effort does not necessarily change destiny. In fact, the majority of people who change their destiny through hard work, most people just try to improve the quality of life a little, and there is no major reform in substance.
People can not believe in fate, but sometimes they have to learn to "confess their destiny." The so-called confession of life is not a manifestation of encouragement, but a rationality that recognizes reality. For the vast majority of ordinary people, there are many things that are difficult to change, or even impossible to change. But it does not represent the inaction of two hands and one stall, but the best efforts to go with nature.
Despite your efforts, the rest is left to fate. If fate is not very kind to you, you must also learn to comfort yourself and learn to "make fun in suffering", otherwise?