At the end of the year, male and female celebrities divorced the inner volume, anxious to complete the annual KPI, a pair of pairs, going forward and leaving. The big melon was overwhelmed, and the secret of the noble circle with the vivid fragrance, and the landslide and tsunami of the people collapsed.
In this world, what else is impossible? The melon-eating masses finally woke up to the fact that morality is a special offer at the bottom, and for the stars at the top of the high-class chain, it is just a cover suit to help make it easier to find gold.
On the morning of December 15, Taiwan media broke the news that Wang Lihong, the straight man of "the world's first perfect", was divorced, and the whole network was in an uproar.
In the afternoon of the same day, Wang Lihong responded positively, and has filed a divorce application with his wife Li Lianglei, saying that "I have done too much in the marriage in these years, and I feel sorry." Now we have different ideas and plans for the future way of life so we decided to live separately. And made it clear that "Lianglei and my private life is very simple and simple, so I will not respond to any media again." ”
On the 16th after a day's absence, Wang Lihong appeared in Guangzhou to participate in the offline activities of a signed car brand. The 45-year-old "Affectionate Prince" seems to be in a mood, as if he has not been affected by any divorce, and is as exquisite and perfect as ever. Interestingly, the piano was also played live, which was the famous "The Only One". The title of the song sounds quite heartfelt now.
From the explosion of divorce, to the entire day on the 16th, the heroine of the incident, Li Lianglei, has remained silent. High IQ high education beautiful women, 8 years of marriage 5 years 3 children, social platforms were once sweet as fairy tales, just so light and fluttering end, are not rare to come out of a bubble?
Some netizens speculated that it must be more satisfactory to the division of property. After all, Wang Lihong is not short of money, after all, he is not willing to lose his perfect body, after all, Li Lianglei is the mother of his three babies.
Women spend 8 years to get old, men add two wrinkles but more flavorful, time is not kind to women, Wang Lihong should not treat Li Lianglei badly. The problems that can be solved with money are not problems. Celebrity divorce, the usual routine is to throw money to create a beautiful ending of "good union and good dispersion", even if you want to kill each other directly from the heart.
In marriage, Wang Lihong must have been accustomed to being strong. Therefore, in the face of divorce, it is natural to think that no matter what kind of ending, Li Lianglei will obediently accept. But this time, Wang Lihong was too confident, Li Lianglei could endure humiliation for 8 years to make a background board in marriage, and she was not an ordinary woman.
Li Lianglei does not speak because she is concentrating on writing long essays.
From being called to sleep with a child at the age of 16, to being used as a tool for reproduction at the age of 27, and a shield for competing with his mother for money and power, to bringing up the youngest male baby to the age of 3, being secretly calculated to get out of the house... In the long river of 19 years, there is the sweetness of love, and there is more humiliation in being betrayed for many years, and a little bit of collation into words must be bothersome, and it must be bloody in the heart.
The marriage between a celebrity and a celebrity is rarely favored. Because, at all, people in two worlds are not easy to open up the circle and understand each other. Celebrities hold hands with ordinary people, considering whether it is beneficial to improve their own personality and whether they have excellent genes for future generations.
Ordinary people will be blinded by the aura of stars, smashed by the wealth of stars, people hand over a look, they feel that it is a noble love, they are willing or active or passive to submit to accommodation, or even completely lose themselves.
For example, Li Lianglei has a good appearance, a family lineage, and a high IQ. Once a famous school bully, once served in the world's top big names, should have become a female elite in the financial business industry, but because of the infatuation with Wang Lihong's aura, 8 years of marriage has been preparing for pregnancy, pregnancy, childbirth, with a baby, the cycle repeats. At the same time, it is also necessary to endure her husband's perennial YP and cheating without a bottom line, and she also has to cooperate with acting with a smile on her face, pretending to be quiet for years.
I have always felt that if the marriage can go for 8 years, there must be true love. But after understanding the reality of Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei's 8-year marriage, I feel that he has never really loved her, but she once loved him very much.
Love is the weakness of the mortal flesh. In love and marriage, love is never reciprocal, one party always loves less and the other side loves more. Love less to keep peace, love more and lose more, and it is easy to cling to it. I had to be hit on the head and bleed, so I reluctantly tried to wake up.
When she was young, Li Lianglei believed in the beauty of love and believed that stepping into marriage was a family for a lifetime. Her tragedy is that she can understand herself and understand the other party, but she is unwilling to admit reality, always thinking that as long as she is tolerant enough, men will one day get better, will be loyal to marriage, and will respect their wives.
Wang Lihong's blatant betrayal for many years, it is difficult to say that Li Lianglei is not responsible. It can even be said that she is a competent and conscientious accompaniment, whether on variety shows or on social platforms, always showing grace and love happiness, so that the whole network feels that they are gods and immortals.
Intimacy is like dancing, there is retreat and progress. As long as the woman steps back, the man must be inched forward. When you stand in the corner of the wall and have no way to retreat, being ruthlessly thrown out of the wall is the only ending.
Just like the reason for divorce, Wang Lihong said that it is because the two have different future life plans, and in Li Lianglei's long essay, "the reason is that if you meet a girl you like, you don't want her to be wronged and said to be a little third, so you are determined to divorce." ”
Having been in love and married, having children and daughters, and having proved that they are not the same, marriage has no longer any meaning of continuation. What is even more annoying is that in case YP is slapped squarely by paparazzi one day, there is no reason to borrow even the guise of love, and marriage has become a tie that needs to be eradicated urgently.
Guess what, if it wasn't for Wang Lihong's resolute divorce, would Li Lianglei have filed for divorce? The answer is that it is estimated that 80% will not. Knowing that men are disloyal and disrespectful, but still have babies with him one after another, her life, economy and spirit must have a dependence and dependence on marriage that is not willing to give up.
When the Weibo platform posted a long essay, Li Lianglei lamented, "Life is really not easy", brave and frank to face, there is a chance to be reborn. Appeared in the public eye all these years, only this time sober, worthy of her highly educated rationality and IQ.
You can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, only wait for her to wake up on her own. She didn't want to wake up, maybe because she was still in love, maybe because she didn't have the courage to face it.
When the remaining love is gone, when she is determined to bear it, she would rather die and break the net, and she must let herself go. No woman is willing to live a lifelong life in a marriage that should be the blessing of life.
Looking back more than a year ago, The wife of the president of Tmall, Dong Huahua, broke the cauldron and openly tore up the three children. Some netizens said that she was not calm enough, not smart enough, disregarded the overall situation, stirred up chicken feathers, and made all three parties lose, which was really the next policy. But I believe that Dong Huahua and decide the moment when Weibo shouts, it must be a comfort that has not been seen for many years, from the inside to the outside.
For the scumbag who betrayed the marriage, he no longer loves, and the old woman loves it. No longer have to deliberately decorate marriage, no longer have to entrust people who are not worthy, "life is really not easy", do not want to die completely, but try to be born again.
Men are rational animals and women are emotional animals. Men live the ego, women live with love. Love is a woman's weakness, because with love, women are easy to be pinched by men and easy to compromise for marriage. Many times, no matter how high the IQ is, it is useless.
In Li Lianglei's long essay, there are many topics and sentences that are worth pondering for women. Take a paragraph and take it as a warning.
"From now on, I will be kind to myself, I will be born again, and I will be the strongest reliance and the best example for my children, so that they know that even if life falls to the bottom, they can rely on their own strength to get up again." 」
Walk to the end of the water and sit and watch the clouds rise. Life is like this, every day after falling into the abyss, it will only get better and better.
Wang Lihong, who has collapsed, it is difficult to have another highlight moment. Li Lianglei, who woke up from a big dream and wanted to be reborn, believes that her future life will be more exciting than before the age of 35.