Text/Moran
We live in this world, we will meet a lot of people, see a lot of clouds, and walk a lot of roads.
Growing and metamorphosing unconsciously, experiencing it all the time in the first half of your life, may overlook a lot of things. But in the second half of your life, you have to really live for yourself, you have to understand some truths.
Life is constantly accumulating, practicing, and slowly cultivating yourself into the best form.
So, a lot of times, something to understand, don't let people who don't deserve it affect your life. The sooner you understand these truths, the easier it will be to be happy.
To be with a man is not to listen to what he says, but to see what he has done
In fact, dealing with people is more about the actual effort. No matter how good the mouth sounds, it is useless, it is all virtual, and what can be truly felt is the most practical.
Those who rely solely on the surface and do not look at reality are prone to suffer losses, and it is themselves who suffer in the end.
People have many faces, you never know what the other person looks like, don't just listen, you have to see.
You can talk at will, but you have to do things practically, and for those who use clever words and don't practice, you must see clearly.
Some people may flatter to their faces, but behind his back you don't know what he really looks like, don't overestimate your place in a person's heart.
At any time, we must learn to think calmly and look at the actual effort, rather than immersing ourselves in superficial sweet words.
Only what can actually be felt is the most real, from the heart.
If you don't get a response to the sincerity you give, don't continue
In this world, you can give for one person, but your effort must be given to someone who deserves it, otherwise it will be meaningless.
If you don't get a response to the sincerity you give, don't continue. You are really good to a person, and the other party can't respond to you, which means that your efforts are not worth it.
At any time, don't lower yourself to love someone, you will lose miserably.
Some people, do not feel that your efforts are of any use, but will get used to your efforts and take your sincerity for granted.
Only those who understand you, those who cherish you, your efforts are valuable.
In our lifetime, we may love many people, but don't always consume yourself, only know that the person who blindly takes, no matter how good you are to him, you will not be satisfied.
Therefore, your sincerity and dedication should be given to those who deserve it, so that you can be worthy of yourself.
At any time, you can be kind, but be a little sharp
I've always felt that in this world, a person can be kind, but your kindness should be a little sharp. Kindness is precious, but kindness does not grow teeth, it is weakness.
The result of being too kind is to be hurt by others. You know, not everyone will treat her like you, and not all sincerity can be responded to accordingly.
In order to avoid being hurt, then you should maintain a certain principle bottom line.
Don't be too kind in everything, tolerate everything, tolerate, sometimes your tolerance will only make the other party unscrupulous.
You still have to have some of your own principles for others, don't agree to everything, pay everything, so that you will only make the other party get used to it.
When one day you don't do it, someone else will overturn your previous good. Therefore, kindness should have a degree.
summary:
In fact, people living in this world always have to understand some truths, so as not to suffer losses and not take many detours.
If you don't understand anything and blindly consume yourself, you will only make yourself more and more aggrieved.
No matter when, we must strengthen ourselves, grasp the degree, maintain the principles that we should have, pay for those who deserve it, and do not always accommodate others and wronged ourselves.