What is it that I have learned many times after chasing a girl?

Hello everyone, I am a strict and gentle, dedicated to the truth of the morning brother. As the saying goes, "Don't hit the south wall and don't turn back, don't die until you reach the Yellow River." Some people are "not rejected and do not die"

Today's topic, my little brothers have a lot of say, what is the matter that chased girls failed many times to know?

Let's get to the point.

#1 Can't care too much

A lot of little brothers, in front of the girls they don't like, it is really magical, the export is a chapter, and there is much commotion, but when you meet a girl you like, you can't open your mouth.

I don't know if you have found such a thing Ha, the more you like the girl, the more you can't catch up, and the girl you have a little bit of a good feeling will easily agree to you.

This, in fact, is called a negative interaction cycle in psychology, which means: the more you try to do a thing, the more the other party wants to escape, and the resistance psychology is generated.

In the same way, the more you desire to be recognized by a girl, the more she will have a rebellious psychology.

#2 Not too long

The longer you chase the girls, the harder it is for you to chase, but you have a good chat with the girls you just met.

This is the marginal effect.

For example, when you are hungry, I give you a piece of cake, you will feel very happy and satisfied, then when I give you a second and third, you may feel average, but when I let you eat a dozen in a row, you may be sick to your stomach.

So, the longer you chase her, the less mysterious and attractive you are to her, and slowly you become reduced...

Of course, this is not the whole case, but I still have to remind you that when you keep giving and get no response, you should think about whether you have encountered green tea.

You say, your next small movie encountered 55% of the immobility is directly deleted, there is no progress bar you are still entangled?

In the face of green tea, be tough, don't care about the sunk cost, lick it for too long, you can also get up and move your body.

Anyway, people who don't like you, it doesn't matter how long you chase, even if you reluctantly agree to you, then it is also an uncertain risk, you don't know when it will break out.

#3 High-value ≠ have money

Some little brothers, once they fail to chase girls, they always attribute the reason to their own poverty, and then they think of making money, to have this idea of deducting 1.

I want to say ah, we can still think about it, get rich? We may not have a chance in this life.

Most girls do worship and like a high-value boy, but this high value does not equal having money.

Her reasons for rejecting you may indeed have something to do with money, but it must not be simply because we don't have any money.

For example, this girl herself is very motivated, the national top 500 996, people want to find a similar partner is not too much.

But if you happen to be a person who plays games every day and doesn't want to make progress, can you still complain that people think you are poor?

Therefore, even if you accidentally hit a few million, people may not be able to see you.

#4 Appropriateness is most important

I know you guys, young and vigorous, just hungry for those good-looking little sisters.

But you don't have to be my age to know how important it is to talk like your three views.

How uncomfortable it is for people with different views to get along, only those who have experienced it understand.

You share your new shoes with her, and she says you stink; you confide in her sad things, and she says you're being flirtatious; she dismisses all your thoughts and thinks you're talking about something.

Can't think differently, in the end both sides are tired, why bother?

I know that she obviously did not intend to wear the wind, but she caused the torrent in your heart.

However, in the matter of fate, we have worked hard to fight for it. If you can grow in every failure, then the feelings you give are worth it.