Recently, celebrities have divorced one by one, and they thought that the melon-eating masses were used to it. Unexpectedly, the "perfect male god" Wang Lihong officially announced his divorce, ending the 8-year marriage.
The Internet age can amplify many details, their ins has long ceased to interact, and Taiwan media have also exposed that there is a contradiction in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in this marriage, and Wang Lihong is very "filial piety". Seeing this conclusion, everything seems to be the truth.
But psychologist Wu Zhihong has said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a false proposition. Wang Lihong, who is both a son and a husband, may be the last straw that crushes the marriage.
As we all know, Wang Lihong is the proud son of heaven, the family background is in the red, and he is extremely talented in music, this "perfection" is awe-inspiring, and he does not even dare to climb high.
Such a family lineage is bound to have many requirements for his other half. Perhaps, this is the reason why Wang Lihong had a scandal with the actress in the circle, but he has never been able to cultivate the right results.
Li Lianglei, a white rich aesthetic, dominated their eyes, saying that it was a green plum bamboo horse, but at the moment when the official announced the marriage, Wang Lihong's friend was very shocked and bluntly said that he did not know Li Lianglei.
It can be seen that Wang Lihong's flash marriage is also a hasty move, the two people have not yet run into a good relationship, how can they get along with love?
In a program, from Li Lianglei's narration, we can hear that Wang Lihong lacks response, and is indifferent to his wife's efforts, and even takes the way of escape, which is very unfavorable to the development of feelings.
Wang Lihong's dedication to music makes Jackie Chan sigh "if only my son was good", which shows that he is a workaholic and often ignores the needs of people around him. Li Lianglei even "complained" about Wang Lihong's lack of response in a show, and was indifferent to her own efforts.
Work is important, but the family also needs companionship and dedication, and the home is the flow of love and warmth, which needs to be interceded.
Li Lianglei's excellence is beyond doubt, and she should have shown her skills in her career after receiving a Western education, but Wang Lihong advised her to give up her studies. In order to cherish this relationship, Li Lianglei did so.
After that, he was out of control, and completed the task of raising three children in five years, which was a double test of body and mind.
In order to be a full-time mother, she devotes herself to the family, but Wang Lihong lacks empathy and does not know how to respect and be grateful. In the face of the pain of giving birth to a child, he bluntly said that he could not understand it. It can be seen that women cannot give in without a bottom line, degenerate into full-time mothers, and even if they are perfect, they will be provoked.
See that? No matter how prosperous Wang Lihong is in his career, in his feelings, he is self-centered machismo.
When divorced, Wang Lihong said that the two people did not have the same idea of the future, according to his personality, it is impossible to accommodate each other, Li Lianglei is an independent person, she also has her own future, but the other party does not support and does not understand, she had to leave disappointed.
More media broke the news that Li Lianglei intervened in Wang Lihong's work, but was disliked by her mother-in-law, which led to an intensification of contradictions.
Perhaps the woman did want to be a good wife at first and take serious care of the man's career, but she violated the interests of the mother-in-law. Wang Lihong, on the other hand, did not coordinate the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Filial piety to parents is always right, but starting a family means maintaining certain boundaries with the original family, and excessive relationship entanglement will only lead to unhappiness for all.
Obviously, it was a widowed marriage. Li Lianglei's sense of existence in this marriage is very low, even like a "tool man". Sleeping in the same bed and dreaming is the most painful state, and marriage should not be consumed in indifference.
Zhu Deyong said that if you don't pick on marriage, marriage will pick you up.
Many people lack rational thinking before marriage, resulting in misfortune after marriage, although divorce can start over, but what is wasted during this period is in addition to the beautiful youth, as well as their own vision of love.
Marriage is not a child's play, two people love each other is not enough, the attitude of the other family will also affect the direction of marriage.
In China, nearly half of all marriages end because of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Men's attitude is on the one hand, smart women can guide men to deal with it properly, they can also have the best of both worlds. A perfect marriage also needs to be tested.
But most of the time, marriage brings strong support, so there's no need to be afraid of marriage.
Marriage is a subject full of unknowns that requires working together to get every step right. It seems difficult, but in fact, as long as you know how to compromise a part of each other, you can be sweet to old age.
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