Some time ago, someone asked me a question: why girls have been actively looking for objects until they are twenty-eight years old, that is, when they are younger. However, after twenty-eight years of age, slowly stepped into the ranks of "leftover women", but did not rush to find a partner? Because it is reasonable to say that girls should be more and more worried about not having a partner as they age. Why are girls now older and less anxious to find a partner? In fact, it is not surprising that someone asked such a question. Because the average person feels that the older the girl, the "less valuable", so the older she is, the more anxious to find a partner, if not in a hurry, it is very strange. On why this phenomenon occurs. I think the old man in the neighborhood is very thoroughly analyzed.
The older the girls are now, the less eager they are for marriage, and the reason why some people feel that the older the girl is, the more anxious they should be to find a partner, that is because they feel that girls' desire for marriage increases with age. However, an old man in my neighbor's house did not see it that way. He said: Now if you ask a girl, why is there no partner and no rush to get married? Most of them will say," "I'm doing well alone, I don't need a man at all." Don't think they are talking big, there are indeed many girls now, with their own efforts, to work to earn money to support themselves. And as they get older, they get better and better. This means that the older they get, the less they desire marriage. Therefore, the older the girl, the less anxious she is to find a partner, and this is the reason.
The older the girl, the more afraid she is of failing emotionally, so she will not rush to find a partner
The old man also said: Girls look for a partner, the older they are, the more afraid they are of emotional failure. Because, girls talk about the object when they are young, although the road is doomed to be tortuous and bumpy. However, fortunately, when girls are young, they will feel that they have time to start over, and the failed emotional experience is only part of growing up. Therefore, it is also bolder to find a partner. However, as they grow older, their youth years are getting less and less, and they have to be more and more cautious about their feelings. Because they are afraid of failing again emotionally, they will not say anything about their sadness when the time comes, and they will delay too much time. It is precisely because girls are older and more emotionally afraid of failure, so they are less anxious to find a partner.
The older the girl, the calmer she is about her feelings, and she won't go with the flow to find someone
Some people may just think that a woman's good time is in the first thirty years, and once this time has passed, she has missed the so-called "most beautiful age". So, they will pressure young women to "you must get married and have children before the age of thirty". Of course, when women are young, they may treat feelings irrationally and go with the flow. So, as soon as the brain is hot, I get married. However, the older the girls are, the more calm they will be about feelings, and the more they know that feelings are not urgent. So, the less likely it is to find an object.