Yesterday, Wang Lihong announced his divorce, and many people were shocked to drop their jaws, how could he get a divorce if he spoiled his wife?
In fact, if you think about Wang Lihong's divorce, there are early warnings, and the last interaction between Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei was on 2019 Youth Day and Father's Day, respectively.
In the past, every holiday, Wang Lihong would post photos to sprinkle dog food, and even do pull-ups at concerts to kiss Li Lianglei in the audience.
Next to the big S and Wang Xiaofei showed their aunt smiles, and also kissed Xiu En'ai in public, and the audience ate dog food and ate enough.
Who would have thought that these two loving couples would announce their divorce in 2021? One of the reasons for the divorce is that the two places are separated, and the other pair is the contradiction between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law.
So will love disappear? Otherwise, for Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is only the fuse, and the biggest problem in their marriage is not communication.
Once, Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei were guests on an interview program, and Li Lianglei complained that Wang Lihong was always absent-minded.
Li Lianglei talked to him, Wang Lihong couldn't hear him at all, and then he would react and perfunctorily answer well.
Although Li Lianglei said with a smile, she still had dissatisfaction with Wang Lihong in her heart, communication is a bridge between people's feelings, and marriage without communication is like a one-man one-man show.
Li Lianglei loved Wang Lihong so much that after marriage, she was passed on to her husband's surname and bore him three children in four years.
According to the time reasoning, the time when their feelings have problems is after the birth of Li Lianglei's third child, that is, in 2019.
When Wang Lihong complained about the conference, Tao Zhe asked him to take off his socks, but he did not expect that he was wearing ripped socks, indicating that Wang Lihong did not value the details of life, and all his thoughts were on the music career.
Li Lianglei lived in a widowed marriage, the children were brought by themselves, and all the sufferings were not listened to, and they could only bear it alone.
Wang Lihong's mother is a strong woman, Wang Lihong has talked about two celebrities in his past love history, all because Wang Lihong's mother dislikes people's low education.
Li Lianglei's academic qualifications are quite high, a master's degree from Columbia University, plus having done the operation of big-name luxury goods, such a highly educated elite scholar, should always match Wang Lihong, right?
But the mother-in-law still doesn't like Li Lianglei very much, but I think even if the mother-in-law likes her, it is useless.
The days are for themselves, two people do not communicate for a long time, chickens and ducks talk, and the sense of loneliness is quite suffocating.
Wang Lihong is an artist, he needs inspiration to write songs, he is often immersed in his own world, he is not suitable for marriage.
You see Jay Chou gave birth to two children after marriage, enjoyed the family life of his wife and children, less inspiration for writing songs, and did not produce an album for several years.
Why is it said that anger comes out of poets, those talents are only thinking in adversity, and the center of the favorable situation is happy, how can they create something that strikes the soul?
The harmony of a family must require someone to make sacrifices, and Li Lianglei took the initiative to give up her career after marriage to assist Wang Lihong's career.
In recent years, Wang Lihong's career has not improved, rarely holding concerts, and less and less business.
Wang Lihong was too focused on programming and writing code to develop music apps, and even his beard and hair were too lazy to take care of it, and the former handsome man became a middle-aged uncle.
Even if Li Lianglei does not divorce, it is difficult to get happiness, no communication and no interaction of marriage, and widowhood marriage, what is the difference?
Wang Lihong is definitely a good man, not smoking or drinking is a gossip insulator, but he is not necessarily a qualified husband.
To pick up a child is to put down the career, and if you are bent on doing a career, you can't take care of the family, which is such a contradiction.
Wang Lihong, as a veteran high-quality idol, is fully committed to his career, every time he opens a concert and sings with tens of thousands of people, after the performance, his mood falls to the bottom like a roller coaster.
Therefore, Wang Lihong needs a soul mate who understands him, who can make him open his heart, willing to listen to his voice, willing to share everything about him.
To judge whether the two couples can go to the end, it depends on whether they have a common language, if a small thing can be talked for half a day, then the couple can not be separated.
The fatal wound in marriage is not the mother-in-law, not the quarrel, but the lack of communication and the cold war.
If the hearts of the two sons are connected, no external force can be separated, and the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is only the last straw that crushes the marriage, and non-communication is the root cause of their divorce.