Cai Kangyong said a word about "forgiveness" in "Strange Story"
Ma Dong said: "Over time, we will eventually forgive those who have hurt us."
Cai Kangyong said: "That's not forgiveness, that's forgettable."
Under the healing of time, what was once attached to it has become worthless
But even so, the scars left behind remain on the heart
And truly being able to face the pain and finally come out of the pain is the meaning of forgiveness
Reading Wilde's "From the Depths", you can feel the courage to face the pain
Wilde was originally a happy family, falling in love with Constance Lloyd and marrying
He had two sons after marriage
At the same time, his famous works "The Happy Prince and Other Stories" and the novel "The Portrait of Dowling Gray"
Successive appearances have laid the foundation for the status of decadent aesthetic artists
The limelight is unparalleled and hot in the country
Until I met Douglas
A beautiful teenager with a lot of affection
Four years later, Douglas's father took Wilde to court
Wilde was eventually convicted of bad manners
Two years of hard labor at Reading and Bentonville prisons
Since then, Wilde has been discredited
Three years after his release, in 1900, a generation of literary heroes fell
In prison, Wilde, with shame and pain, recalls his relationship with Douglas
Write the confession of the soul of "From the Depths"
Douglas's selfishness, willfulness, and romance invited gossip
Perhaps for Wilde, the pain was far greater than the love
But in the end, Wilde chose to forgive in the words with blood and tears
Peace and salvation of the soul is obtained
In the book, he expresses endless remorse
"Whether great or small, apart from destroying themselves with their own hands, Nothing else could destroy him. “
There are also complaints against Douglas
"We are hurting each other's lives, you are definitely destroying my life, and I am clearly not making you happy, and the only inevitable and sensible choice we can make is to separate, to separate completely." 」
He knows
"Where there is sorrow is the place of holiness"
Know
We all live in the gutters, but there are still people in them looking up at the stars
In the end, he chose to forgive
As the book says, "For my own sake, I must forgive you." A man cannot always have a poisonous snake in his chest; he cannot get up at night and plant thorns in the garden of the soul."
Even though the world is full of sorrow
But the world is still beautiful
Perhaps, only forgive others
In order to let go of themselves