Wang Mou is not talented, born in 81, belongs to the chicken. Humble Jing was born in 82 years and belongs to the dog. The eldest son is 14 years old and is in his second year of junior high school. In the final exam, the total score is 640 points, and my eldest son has 448 points.
Children's grades are not good, the key is not to love learning, unwilling to write homework. In order to help the children write homework, our husband and wife are really chicken dogs restless, or chicken flying dog jumping. Children do not love to learn, parents are helpless. In desperation, the author wrote this post to talk about self-deprecation.
There are many famous cultural people in history, who are talented and taught sons, but they make people laugh and be generous. For example, the famous Lingyange hero Yu Shinan and his son Yu Chang are the talented people of Lao Tzu, but the son is a representative of the unlearned and unskilled.
As everyone knows, Yu Shinan was one of the four masters of the early Tang Dynasty. Yu Shinan's cultural level can be said to be the highest among the heroes of Ling Yan Pavilion. Yu Shinan can become a hero of Ling Yange, not because of his great merits, but because of his high level of education. As a representative figure in the cultural world, he became a hero of Ling Yange. Li Shimin selected Yu Shinan to enter the Ling Yan Pavilion in order to show the achievements of the cultural construction of the Zhenguan Dynasty.
Li Shimin stills, pictures from the network, thanks to the original author.
Yu Shinan is most famous for his calligraphy. The four great calligraphers of the early Tang Dynasty, except for Ouyang Qian, Chu Suiliang and Xue Ji were all mentioned by Yu Shinan. Chu Suiliang's father, Chu Liang, was a vassal of Yu Shinan, and Chu Suiliang was thus able to get Yu Shinan's advice.
Xue Ji was the grandson of Wei Zheng, and Wei Zheng was good friends with Yu Shinan. Wei Zheng's family collected many of Yu Shinan's ink treasures, and Xue Ji often went to his grandfather's house to copy Yu Shinan's calligraphy. When the New Book of Tang mentions Xue Ji's calligraphy achievements, it specifically mentions Yu Shinan's influence on Xue Ji. The original text is like this: "The ancestor Wei Zhengjia of Ji hid many Yu and Chu books, so the sharp essence was imitated, and the body was beautiful, so the name of the book was the world." ”
Yu Shinan's calligraphy is powerful, and his poetry level is also first-class. The New Book of Tang records that Li Shimin wrote poems and asked Yu Shinan to comment. Yu Shinan and Chu Suiliang were both one of the four great masters of the early Tang Dynasty, but their sons, their cultural level became a historical joke recorded in the New Book of Tang: "In the beginning, Zhenguan and Yonghuijian, Yu Shinan and Chu Suiliang used books to write to the family, and they could not succeed later." ”
Chu Suiliang stills, picture from the network, thanks to the original author.
Chu Suiliang only got Yu Shinan's suggestion and was able to achieve such a high level of achievement. Xue Ji had never seen Yu Shinan, just by copying his ink treasure, he could achieve such a high achievement. As the son of Yu Shinan, Yu Chang could not learn the fur of his father, and became a representative figure who did not learn and did not learn any skills, and was ridiculed by Zhengshi. The reason is because of talent. It is easy to understand that Yu Chang is not the material for reading.
Talent is something that cannot be sought. Some people are born smart and can be taught casually, such as Chu Suiliang and Xue Ji. Some people can't learn how to teach, such as the son of Yu Chang and Chu Suiliang. It's not that they don't want to learn, but they don't have talent. Talent is not necessarily inherited. For example, Michael. Jordan plays basketball so well that his son can't play basketball. As another example, Maradona played football so well that his son played football in the dark.
In history, there are many examples of Lao Tzu being bullish and his sons being sparse. For example, Zhao Yun is so powerful, his two sons Zhao Tong and Zhao Guang, are general. For example, Li Shimin is so powerful, and the son he taught is disappointing. Li Shimin worked hard in his early years, and as a result, he taught a prince Li Chengqian who was not a tool.
Li Chengqian disappointed Li Shimin too much, and Li Shimin had to change to the crown prince. After Li Zhi became the crown prince, Li Shimin spent a lot of effort to write "Di Fan" and teach Li Zhi how to become an emperor. Li Shimin said to Li Zhi in a serious tone: "We must divide our relatives and seal them in various places and let them become the barriers of the Tang Dynasty." Only in this way can they stand in solidarity with Datang. Once the country changes, relatives can defend the Tang Dynasty. “
In "Emperor Fan", Li Shimin also took Cao Cao as a negative example, saying to Li Zhi: "Cao Cao was not a feudal relative in those years, and when Sima Yi seized power, Cao Wei's imperial office would have no power to fight back. You must learn this lesson and not let the Tang Dynasty repeat the mistakes of the Cao Wei Sect. “
Li Shimin earnestly taught Li Zhi, but unfortunately, Li Zhi could not listen to his father's teachings. After Li Zhi came to power, he turned the Tang Dynasty Imperial Chamber into a mascot. When Wu Zetian usurped the throne, the Tang Dynasty became a lamb to be slaughtered. Li Shimin's education of Li Zhi can be said to be the epitome of the education of heroes to their descendants. Lao Tzu taught with his heart, but his son may not be willing to learn.
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