In real life, we often find such a phenomenon, that is, what you think, often will meet, just like the American engineer Murphy discovered Murphy's law - the more afraid of making mistakes, the easier it is to make mistakes.
Let's take some examples, you buy a car, and over time, you find that more and more people are buying the same model; if you like someone, you will find that you will meet her often.
And this is actually the principle of "being born from the heart" - what you think in your heart, you will often encounter.
Why is this happening?
In fact, the logic behind "phase from the heart" contains at least the following three aspects, namely:
First, inner activity will affect people's appearance
As the old saying goes: Phases are born from the heart.
In the view of the ancients, a person's inner activities will actually affect their appearance, or that a person's appearance, to some extent, presents the situation of people's inner activities.
Why?
People with good hearts often have a "blessed face", which can not only be seen by people, but also can be experienced. On the contrary, a person whose heart is full of evil thoughts or has an improper heart will mostly have a fierce and evil appearance, which makes people avoid it.
It can be seen that a person's inner activities, after years of subtlety, will often appear on people's faces, which is one of the logics behind "phase from the heart".
Second, inner activities will profoundly affect people's temperament
Some people say that people's temperament will be deeply affected by the external environment and constantly cultivated.
Although this statement is not wrong, in addition to being affected by the environment, human temperament will actually be affected by inner activities.
For example, a person who is full of calculations in his heart often makes people feel a false, flattering, exploiting loopholes and other auras; on the contrary, those who have deep moral virtues will mostly show a stable and solemn temperament.
It can be seen that people's inner activities will profoundly affect people's temperament.
This is the second logic behind "phases are born of the heart".
Inner activity determines what you will focus on – what you focus on will often be what you will meet
There is a saying that people only pay attention to what they want to pay attention to.
I think so.
Let's continue to give examples, if you are a senior old driver, then you will find that most of the acquaintances around you are old drivers.
Why?
Because people who really like to drive, they often only have cars and some people who also like to drive, so that they will only pay attention to people and things in this aspect, and other things, even if they happen around, they will not pay attention to, or even ignore.
This is actually the logic behind "what you focus on, often what you will meet".
Therefore, in summary, these contents are actually the truth that the ancients said that "phase is born from the heart" - what you think in your heart, you will often encounter something.
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The materials in this article are mainly quoted from the Analects, Zhuangzi, Tanjing, Tao Te Ching, Temporary Sitting, Dream of the Red Chamber, Wasted Capital, Walking Alone, Philosophical Thoughts on Life, Plato So To Say, History, The Complete Works of Wang Yangming, Huayan Jing, University, Li Ji, Tiandao, Sun Tzu's Art of War, Wang Biji's Interpretation, Zhou Yi, And The Book of Poetry