Want to eat a man? It's never been that easy. In addition to the equivalent exchange with his interests, it is the pinching of his hidden character defects, which must be pinched to death.
You are not the Virgin of Nature your mission is not to redeem Him.
After the real fried hair is smoothed, it can be considered to be really subdued.
If he has been "warm" in front of you, it only means that there is still some distance between him and you.
The average man is not difficult to understand. It was nothing more than his desire and confusion.
There is no man in the world who does not have illusions, that is his masculine trait. So it's not hard to find his weaknesses.
Men's inherent "rigid" qualities also make him more vulnerable, and sometimes this vulnerability is manifested as cowardice.
It didn't seem hard to wake him up and scold him.
Why do people like to eat spicy? First make you sweat and then make you cool...
Why do men like to drink? The wine is on the head, it is the blindfold stick that greets him, and after it is overturned, it will give him a dream... The same thing.
Scold the man, he may turn the other cheek with you.
At this time, don't be stubborn, don't be soft.
Today you are not willing to give a hard hand, tomorrow when you encounter something without a bottom line, there will be no slag left for you to eat.
Timing is important if you want to be tough.
先对自己诚实，再谋男人对你诚实。
Honestly calculate the chips in your own hands and never fight an uncertain battle.
A bait: cooked ducks may also fly;
A decoy: set up a game to let him sort out the losses and do a solid job.
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In short, you must have the "grasp" to launch a general attack.
Then "be reasonable and not be spared.".
Small fights can only be pleasant.
The man must really go through with him.
Basically, the first war situation roughly determined the framework for the two sides to get along in the future. The name "contest of life and death" is not an exaggeration.
As long as you can get along and press forward, seeing him disarm is the beginning of you and his enemies and friends.
尊重旗鼓相当的对手，本是人性，男人尤甚。
Opponents must be selected within your range.
Even if it is your provocation, he is willing to accept it. This is especially important.
What you can put down deserves to be lifted again.
What you can't put down, why do you get it?
Usually ask yourself more, where is your value in being each other's friends?
Be the opponent of the other side, where can you win?
If you can't understand it yourself, why did you start a "war"?
If there is no "battlefield" battle, you can only wait for the fate of being "absorbed" or "banished".
Life is like this: if you don't give a hard hand to yourself, you can only wait for the other side to give you a hard hand.
The first move is strong, the same for yourself and for men.