Introduction: No matter what era, there is never a shortage of scumbags. Therefore, I hope that the man you meet for the rest of your life, such as plum blossoms, frost and snow, blooming lonely, even if the world is rugged, cold as the beginning of chaos, not afraid, standing tall in the sky.
The TV series "The Head of the House" tells the story of several women working together in order to inherit the brocade culture, and such a plot summary is indeed quite attractive, so I went to see how they relied on their own hands and unyielding faith to guard the lifeblood of a family.
Halfway through the plot, you will find that this drama may be to set off the greatness and beauty of several major female characters in it, so it vigorously pushes the personality of the male characters to the other extreme, and the word of mouth in the audience's heart can be described as indescribable, and almost no man is exaggerated.
If you open the barrage, you can see that the audience is scolding the men in unison, calling them to escape from reality, calling them irresponsible, and calling them irresponsible.
However, they really deserve to be scolded! The harder you scold, the better.
I rarely send bullet screens, but when I watch it, I can't help but send a message: These men are really not as good as one!
In the face of the rise and fall of the family, in the face of internal and external oppression, in the face of the demands of wives and concubines, these men, they are always looking for excuses, they have not stepped forward to solve all difficulties, everything is counted on women, let women help them hold up the whole sky, as soon as there is something, instant scrap, as long as the fire has not yet burned on the body, it will drag on for a while, wait for a moment is a moment.
In their eyes, when the housewife is on the line, she can do anything, she can solve anything, she can eat any suffering, and she is not afraid of any sin.
These men, they are all enjoying everything in peace and honor, of course, selfishly.
Therefore, several female characters in the play, Shen Cuixi, Zeng Baoqin, and Shu Fang, met such men in that era background and lived really hard, which was very unfortunate.
If you really pick a few such men in the play to analyze it, I am afraid that the following few must not be able to escape.
Ren Xuetang should be the most scolded man in the play, he is the heir of the Ren family, because of the arrangement of the mother in the family, the heroine Shen Cuixi was set to be his wife, but he has had a lover Zeng Baoqin since he was a child, and in his heart he is absolutely unwilling to give up her.
Shen Cuixi, because Zeng Baoqin had been a courtyard woman in the past, was worried about affecting the family's reputation and her husband's future, and at first refused to allow Zeng Baoqin to enter the ren family.
And Zeng Baoqin was originally an arrogant woman, and she was not particularly willing to be a concubine for Ren Xuetang like that. In that era, women who were concubines would be looked down upon and even hurt to varying degrees.
Both have their own reasons for refusing to bow their heads, if it were not for Zeng Baoqin's later child, Shen Cuixi would have agreed to her enter the door, and Zeng Baoqin could only marry into the Ren family with tears.
Originally, he thought that Ren Xuetang would treat them well when he saw such a result, but he did not think so, but felt that the two women would be more troublesome together in the future, so he said a word: "I really want to disappear like this." ”
Really as he wished, on the way to chase the water bandits, he was framed and disappeared, and this disappearance was for seven years, and everyone thought he was dead.
In fact, according to the characters in the play, I really hope that he is better off dead than alive.
In seven years, if he hadn't died or lost his memory, it would have been really difficult to explain where he had gone, what he had done, what he was thinking, why not come back and bear what he should bear, and how to bear it when he left a big son?
The answer he gave was a bit ridiculous, which was the fear of facing two women. At that time, he was very confused, thinking that his existence would cause them greater misfortune, so he gave up coming back to continue such a tragedy.
Well said, once gone, there is no news, alive and without amnesia, find a quiet place to hide, do not ask about the world, leave the rest of the troubles and pains to these two women to digest, out of sight for purity, it is really scum.
There is a saying that goes like this: Some people are alive, but he is dead.
If he hadn't heard that Shen Cuixi was about to be beheaded, he wouldn't have rushed back to save him, and maybe he wouldn't have come back for the rest of his life. But what about coming back, the two women are dead to him, cold, and the family is also disappointed in him, isn't this ending ten thousand times worse than when he was in the past?
Escaping can never solve the problem, ren xuetang is simply not worthy of those two women who were born and died for the Ren family.
If he had returned early, the Ren family would not have been bullied and framed so badly by outsiders later, and almost engulfed by a catastrophe, it can be said that his credit in addition to appearing in time to save Shen Cuixi, other really did not see any use, but added a lot of sadness and sadness to the family.
Ren Rufeng is much better than his eldest brother Ren Xuetang, although at the beginning there were some hanging children and lang dang, not doing the right thing, but at the critical moment he will still shoulder his responsibilities, to maintain the entire family, to protect the people he wants to protect.
When he heard that the eldest sister-in-law would be arrested by the officers and soldiers of the county court and stripped of her clothes and tortured in public, Ren Rufeng himself first went to take this punishment for the eldest sister-in-law, the purpose was not to let the sister-in-law's reputation be damaged, and when facing the disaster of imprisonment, he was not afraid of torture, not afraid of corrupt officials, and suffered silently...
Such a second grandfather, very popular with people, felt that he had a straightforward personality, dared to do daring, and once became a "good mr." in the play.
When his eldest brother returned, because of a few gossip, he began to completely return to himself, laissez-faire, and returned to his previous appearance of not doing business properly.
Ren Rufeng's wife Shu Fang is a woman who has quite ambitions and wants to be a big treasurer, but Ren Rufeng hopes that she can let go of all the things at hand, accompany herself every day, and make a little money to live a small life.
In the final analysis, Ren Rufeng is not mature enough, because to see whether a man is mature, it is not to see how old he is, but to see how much responsibility he can take.
Shu Fang is not willing to give up, he is not willing to understand Shu Fang, the two always quarrel, the most important thing is that Ren Rufeng himself does not argue, but also wants to pull the positive Shu Fang into the water, holding unrealistic fantasies that he is for the good of everyone.
At this point, the image of a good man like the wind collapsed in an instant, and he was easily crushed by words, and he did not want to work hard, make some achievements for people to see, he wanted to escape, and did not pay attention to the affairs of the family, which was really enough.
The ren family elders all have one common trait: cowardice, incompetence, and trouble.
The most superfluous and annoying thing in the whole drama is the three uncles who appear in the Ren family, their existence really does not know what the meaning is, and every time they appear, people feel quite disgusted.
Maybe they existed to write from the side how pedantic and disgusting some of the so-called old men with a certain status were at that time.
Shen Cuixi, the head of the family, has been working hard and complaining since she married into their ren family, and has taken care of the whole family, thus ensuring that those "moth rice worms" have no worries about food and clothing, so that they have a status, and they can also enjoy matching wealth.
However, they felt that it was a woman's duty to do so, and since she had the right to be the head of the family, she had to give everything and even her life to keep the Ren family.
Hearing that Shen Cuixi's husband was missing, they couldn't wait to force Shen Cuixi to hand over the owner token and return it to the ren family man, and then they found a small courtyard and locked her up like a concubine, only providing three meals a day, not allowed to go out, not allowed to contact other people, just like breaking into the "cold palace".
After hearing the rumors of neighbors on the street that Shen Cuixi had an affair with Mr. Teaching, he did not ask the reason, investigated the truth, and directly ran to Shen Cuixi to question her and insult her.
In short, when there was any disturbance that threatened the reputation of these stinky men, they all looked like they were asking questions, and they came to the trouble of the master and mother again and again in the capacity of the elders.
Using the standards of saints to demand of others, using the standards of laymen to demand themselves, this is their criterion for being human, they can do anything without feeling guilty, but others cannot sin at all.
When the officers and men came to the house to desperately search for things, they hid in the house like shrunken-headed turtles, and only dared to look through the crack in the door and say a few angry words, but they did nothing.
Instead, it is women who go out to face the wind and rain outside, a group of women who have no power to tie chickens, and such a contrast is really ironic enough.
The irony is that the dilemma that should be faced by men is that in the end it is the woman who grits her teeth, tears, and bleeds to break free, and these men have not yet realized how their responsibilities and responsibilities as a man should be taken on.
What is a man? What is a man who stands tall in the sky?
The so-called man, no matter how many storms and frosts he has experienced, how many ups and downs he has tried, as long as he can still straighten his back, he will definitely let people feel the strength of the broken boat and the strength to stand up to the sky.
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