Romain Rolland wrote in Michelangelo's biography: "There is only one true heroism in the world, that is, to love life after recognizing the truth of life. ”
This sentence has appeared countless times on major social platforms, and most people try to declare their love for life through this sentence, but when the chickens and dogs of life hit one by one, we seem to have left the "being a hero" thing behind.
However, there is such a group of people, in a special program, in a different way, to tell us how to slow down, how to love this beautiful but occasionally unpleasant life.
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Since you can't get around the challenge, face it head-on
In the eleventh episode of the second season of "Hello Life", the program team arranged for guests to cross the Ili Guozigou Bridge and go to Sailim Lake to prepare for a concert at Sailim Lake.
In everyone's beautiful fantasy, this concert should be set on a crisp autumn day, the guests gathered by the beautiful lake, while enjoying the beauty of the sunset, while using beautiful songs to confess to life.
But the reality is that the wind is accompanied by a fierce wind, the cold wind is in the bone, and what is worse, because of the roaring wind, the guests can't hear the sound of the return, some people propose to transfer the indoors, but all around are pieces of grassland, where is the indoor and outdoor division?
So is it just to give up?
Of course not! Such a good scenery, even if there are obstacles, we must overcome the obstacles and persevere to the end.
Host Nigmat wrote on Weibo: "The beauty is difficult to cash in, so I have to compromise and accept." ”
So, a different kind of concert began.
Everyone was wearing down jackets, and even if they were freezing and rubbing their hands, they still didn't complain.
Everyone was singing and dancing, so busy enjoying themselves that even I couldn't help but dance to the front of the screen.
In that moment, there is no better confession to life than this total devotion.
If at that time, they had chosen the transfer room after much thought, then this concert full of infinite beauty by the shores of Sailim Lake would not have existed.
And our lives are exactly like that.
We always want to have a smooth life, encounter any difficulties, the first thing that comes to mind may be withdrawal, but when we choose to withdraw, we lose the opportunity to feel that life has infinite possibilities.
If we face it bravely, we may always find that behind each difficulty is the gift that life gives us.
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Those who are content, those who know gratitude, are the most likely to attain happiness
In one episode, several CCTV hosts sat together and talked about the feelings they had gained in life and work, and the host Nigmati said a sentence, he said: "There is a word, which is a very important wealth in my life, called 'xukri'. ”
The word xukri has a wide meaning: content with what you have; blessed with what has not happened.
This is an attitude of gratitude for all the gifts of fate.
I once read a short story about a beggar who came home every night and sat at the dinner table and had to say thank you. Family members asked him: "You are begging on the side of the road every day, and you are barely able to make ends meet, what is there to be thankful for?" ”
He replied seriously, "Because I'm still sitting here, because I'm having food in front of me." ”
There is a saying in the "Miscellaneous Sayings of Peace of Mind": "Those who are content, poor and happy; those who are not satisfied, rich and poor are also worried." ”
During last year's pandemic, many people had to buy food and household items only through community members. At that time, in the community group, the most common speakers were two kinds of people.
The first is the person who is grateful for everything; the other is the person who picks and chooses.
As a result, the first type of people enjoy living at home happily, making food with what they have only food, sharing it with others online, and posting funny videos on the Internet by the way.
The second type of person, always frowning, still exudes negative energy on the Internet.
Many times, what kind of attitude we have towards life, life will give us feedback accordingly.
It is also a home life, because of gratitude, so everything I feel is still beautiful.
Life is not easy, only contented people, the easiest to get happy.
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Slowing down is a rhythm, a state of mind
The original intention of this variety show is: so that today's young people can slow down and feel life with their hearts in a hurry.
It seems that from the beginning of entering the elementary school campus, we are no longer the people who can be free, and every step we take has its established route, and our parents and teachers push us forward constantly.
As we get older, it is no longer our parents and teachers who push us forward, but life.
We are always in a hurry, and it seems that if we take a slow step, we will be swallowed up by life.
Because the pace was so fast, we didn't even know which scenery we were missing.
There was a time before and I was having a terrible time. Because there are so many good people online, I try to catch up with them.
During that time, in addition to going to work every day, I also arranged a lot of content for myself, learning to write, draw, foreign languages, etc.
So my state is often to read an article in a hurry, practice two spoken words, then pick up a paintbrush, and hurriedly draw according to the content of the teacher's explanation, but I have no understanding of the basic points of these skills.
After this kind of life lasted for a while, not only did I not make progress, but even my work status was affected.
I became anxious and didn't feel happy at all.
Later, I began to adjust my mentality, no longer in a hurry, no longer with other people's preferences, but found what I really loved - writing.
When the choice slowed down, I no longer felt anxious and uneasy, but moved forward on the road to becoming better.
Many people feel that life now does not allow slowness, and if you are slow, you will not be able to keep up with the pace of society.
However, we have to admit that if it is too fast, it will be counterproductive.
In fact, slowing down does not mean that we are no longer moving forward.
As the show says: "'Slow' is not to give up, 'slow' is not to stop, but to adjust your mindset, don't worry, and face life calmly." ”
We always use a "difficult" word to describe life, but have you ever thought that the reason why we find it difficult is because we are too fast and desperately dragging ourselves.
And when we slow down, in addition to being able to move forward with a better mentality, more importantly, we will not miss out on any small happiness in life.
The face of life is roughly the same, but it is like being magically cast, and different people have different feelings. I hope that one day, you will have enough courage to slow down, laugh and say: "Hello, life!" ”