There is an angelic singer in the Chinese music scene, she has an innocent face, a pair of tender watery eyes, her voice is clear and gentle, her temperament is indifferent and elegant, young but sad and lonely, she is Meng Tingwei, she also has a very cute name called Yaya. Many people may not know who this sweet goddess is, today Xiaobian will take everyone to know and know...
one. Born in Taiwan, China, he has a musical talent since childhood
It has spread throughout the major media that "There is Zhou Huimin in Hong Kong, and Meng Tingwei in Taiwan." Meng Tingwei was born in an ordinary family in Taiwan, since she was a child, she liked to sing and play musical instruments, once, because her father did not give her money to buy tape recordings, so she saved money, from every pocket money her father gave her to save up for tapes and tape recorders.
Meng Tingwei, who has just entered the middle school, loves music as always, and there is an ethnic minority classmate in the class, who sings folk songs particularly well and has a particularly crisp voice. After Meng Tingwei learned about it, she formed a band with this classmate, and the two often went to the folk song restaurant on weekends and winter and summer vacations to sing. At that time, their literary and artistic purity, sweet and cheerful singing, were deeply loved by everyone.
After entering the third year of high school, Meng Tingwei's study pressure also became tense. Her father had always been very opposed to her singing, suggesting that she now focus on her studies and put singing aside. But Meng Tingwei, who loves to sing, can listen to her father's advice, which is not a star scout who took a fancy to her and asked her to shoot an advertisement for a motorcycle.
A beautiful look, and excellent singing skills, soon a brokerage company came to the door. After her father got this news, he was furious, afraid that his daughter would "learn badly" in the entertainment industry. It was not until her mother came to "assist" that Meng Tingwei's father agreed to sign a contract with the brokerage company.
two. People called "Moon Princess", "Weather Princess", "Nature Singer" and other reputations
When Meng Tingwei first debuted, she released two albums, namely "In fact, I am still a little in...", "Growing up", but the response was mediocre and did not sell well, until 1991, the 19-year-old Meng Tingwei released a third album
"You see the face of the moon", once betrayed, the fire spread all over the country, and the streets and alleys were singing:
Round round face of the moon
Flat bookmark of flat years
Sweet sweet sweet your smile
Is it time to break up
I can't bear to let you see my tearful eyes
I had to say to you, you see, you see
The moon's face was secretly changing
Her song can be said to be the memories of the young masters and young aunts after the 80s, when on the way home from school, listening to the neighbor's uncle and aunt playing the tape recorder, I can't help but sing along with it.
"You see, everything is like this, it will pass, it will be forgotten." I think it is the old songs that I can't get tired of listening to, and what makes people listen to the heartache is also the old songs, and it is still the old songs that make people calm down.
After that, After tasting the sweetness, Meng Tingwei continued to sing, and in May 1992, she released her fourth solo album "Winter to Taipei to See the Rain"
And "Winter to Taipei to see the rain", "silent rain", "you see the face of the moon" three songs at the same time shortlisted for the Hong Kong 1992 Annual Top Ten Golden Melody Awards Ceremony Chinese Jinge Golden Song and Top Ten Newcomer Award.
In February 1993, he released his fifth solo album "Whose Tears Are Flying"
In November of the same year, she released her sixth solo album "Clouds Made of Rain in the Wind", which earned her the title of nature singer and weather princess.
In 1995, Meng Tingwei was invited by the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, when she sang the song "A Cloud Made of Rain in the Wind", which became a song or two that countless girls would hum:
There is a cloud made of rain in the wind
A cloud made of rain
Cloud's heart is full of rain
Didi is all about you
The clouds broke my heart in the wind
I don't know where it will blow again
Blowing and blowing down flowers all over the ground
Can't find a trace of pity.....
At first I didn't know what the song liked, and then I sang it again. In Meng Tingwei's song list, it is cloud and rain, and it is the moon and winter, no wonder people call "moon princess", "weather princess", the natural things into their own songs, only Meng Tingwei.
Meng Tingwei's song has nothing to do with love, but just makes people feel inner peace. Quiet, simple and beautiful, but at the same time with a sense of regret that there is no way back.
three. After suffering the heavy blows of life, he chose to eat and pray to the Buddha
10 years after his debut, Meng Tingwei suffered a heavy blow in his life. His father had a stroke, his brother died in a car accident, and his friend suffered from cancer, which made Meng Tingwei very sad and fell into deep self-blame, feeling that he had been busy with work and had no time to accompany them.
So in 2000, Meng Tingwei announced that he "quit the music scene", everyone felt very surprised, in fact, this is not surprising, after all, in those two years Meng Tingwei experienced a lot of life and death.
She also began to look back on her life, she suddenly understood that the most important thing in life is not to follow the path arranged by others, but to follow her own heart, with this determination Meng Tingwei began to embark on a path of faith.
When Meng Tingwei heard about the Dharma, she instantly felt that she was related to the Buddha, and she began to devoutly turn to the Buddha, also follow the faith, and mold herself into a vegetarian, and this decision also accompanied her for more than 20 years.
shop. The emotional road is very bumpy, and even the "husband" suspects that he has a problem with his sexual orientation
There is always a relationship, invested a lot of energy enough or think about it, you are patient with life. The fate of Meng Tingwei's relationship is back to when Meng Tingwei was in high school, when she secretly fell in love with a boy, who was talented.
The male god she has a crush on is her high school classmate Zhang Zhipeng.
Zhang Zhipeng's handsome appearance, humorous conversation, and gentle personality made Meng Tingwei deeply attracted by the big boy in front of him, which can be described as love at first sight. But at that time, Meng Tingwei did not express his love.
Until 2004, at a class reunion, Meng Tingwei met Zhang Zhipeng, after the two chatted, found that the other party had not yet talked about the object, so Zhang Zhipeng began to pursue her madly, the two quickly fell in love, shopping together, eating kebabs together, playing with the tram... Everything that was not realized on campus at the beginning, now Zhang Zhipeng gave her this wish.
After that, the two decided to get married, and the wedding scene was also held at their alma mater.
After all, the source of love comes from here, so they also want to continue their love from here. After marriage, the two were pregnant with a son, and the happy and happy life of the family of three began.
The naïve Meng Tingwei thought that the family of three would continue to be so happy.
But contrary to expectations, what is unexpected is that her husband is actually a "masked man". Joint actress Zhang Nunya broke the news that Meng Tingwei was "cheating in marriage, or a woman", trying to destroy Meng Tingwei.
In 2013, Meng Tingwei and Zhang Zhipeng announced a "peaceful breakup."
For a time, the two people talked a lot. What is even more hateful is that Zhang Zhipeng is very firm in saying that he divorced because of Meng Tingwei's "lily" relationship with the female assistant, and Meng Tingwei posted a lot of evidence, and the divorce tragedy between the two became more and more noisy, until the son released a statement.
In the face of gossip from the outside world, Meng Tingwei, who has a meek personality, can no longer bear it. Meng Tingwei stood up,
Posted chat records to prove that her ex-husband Zhang Zhipeng regarded her as a "money-making machine" and filled her with work when she was pregnant, not letting her rest.
In addition, Zhang Zhipeng also repeatedly abused Meng Tingwei and his son, and even his son stood up to speak for his mother: "From the time you often beat me and my mother, I grew up, and you forced me to be precocious." And the various evidences posted by Meng Tingwei also shocked many netizens. It is really difficult to imagine how such a weak Meng Tingwei can withstand her husband's domestic violence again and again.
And how did you take your children through the days of being blackmailed by your husband? Not only that, 6 years after the divorce, Zhang Zhipeng often intimidated, threatened, pleased, and begged Meng Tingwei, hoping to remarry her, and pestered Meng Tingwei for 6 years. Fortunately, Meng Tingwei bravely stood up, took out the evidence, calmly faced it, and protected herself and the child.
five. epilogue
Meng Tingwei is the goddess of that era, countless people are moved by it, every time you listen to her songs, you feel a little bit of scalp tightness, there is a feeling of wanting to cry, she sings a lot of people do not like, into a niche music, in fact, when your taste is more niche, it means that the things you appreciate, feelings will not go with the flow, the more you know about yourself, the less people who resonate with you, the loneliness is inevitable, and now 52-year-old Meng Tingwei is still a moon beauty, insisting on being yourself, not disturbed by the outside world, this is how many people can't do it. What do you think?
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