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I am a smiling sister, a planning sister, life is a marathon, the most important thing is to beat myself, this is the 2058th article I wrote. Click "Follow" at the top right to share case dismantling and self-media operation dry goods for you every day. (Note: Some of the images are from the Internet.) ）
"Sister Smile, Y said that the examination has liver cancer, usually it is fine...", L said quietly on the phone. I think it was probably a misdiagnosis.
Love yourself
"You haven't eaten, I haven't seen you for a long time, I've had a lot of trouble." The hospital near the airport is quiet, the small buildings in the townhouse are exquisitely repaired, the aircraft light spots in the sky are flashing, and the air is fresh. We sat on the grass and L and I went to see Y. "This is my dad, 72 years old, he took care of me these two days, recently can't eat, has been infusion, confirmed, the doctor said it has been transferred ..."
Write yourself a letter, he deserves your pampering
I turned my head and saw the old man, his eyes full of his son. This older brother is in his early fifties and we have often eaten together over the years. Without smoking, without drinking, without staying up late, we wouldn't believe he would get what he called cancer. "My eldest daughter has just gone to the third year of high school, and the younger son is only three years old, and at this juncture, he has a good attitude, but he can only comfort himself. The basic cultivation of adults is to recognize the truth of the facts and learn to accept them.
The spark of life
Living and loving yourself well is greater than anything else. Time is good to go back to 3 years ago, the moonlight in that place, think of it cautiously panicked. "J's gone, lymphoma, you guys, come and give him one last ride..." Receiving this information, I took a car from Guiyang to Zunyi. J is my age, my colleague from a few years ago, and is a very nice, kind and honest person. I was in Guangzhou in 2016 and learned from the Internet that he had this disease, and at that time I knew an old Chinese medicine doctor who had a lot of say in the early stages of cancer, and there were several cases I witnessed. "If you believe me, I'll go back to Guizhou and show you..."
There are not so many persimmons in life, only to ride the wind and waves
He didn't believe me, he was busy healing, he was busy making money, a vicious circle, and his health was deteriorating. At the end of 2017, he and his wife came to my office, and people have become very poor, and there is no light in his wife's eyes. "Sister Wei, you take us to see the old Chinese medicine doctor, we really can't do it...", I took them to the old Chinese medicine doctor, that is the big brother I have known for several years, and their family has been practicing medicine for generations. Prescribed some Chinese medicine, and when asked later, he said it eased up a bit.
Chinese medicine shop
"Life is a farewell, and when you see one side, you have one less side." I used to think of those ordinary party pictures, and then I never saw him again. This friend, who was about my age, left this world forever. "I'm in Zunyi, Q and Z, they're here, you're coming to dinner!" J is a person of great affection, this group of old colleagues as long as they go to the ground, he also cooks and cooks, we all call him the god of cooking.
In his memory, he was still cooking for his friends
"I'll wash you some fruit to eat," the hospital on the 2nd floor was silent, and Y's father got up and said to us. "No, so, go to the hospital in Beijing and Shanghai to see again, maybe it's a misdiagnosis." I pulled away from the memories.
Eat well, sleep well, and love your neighbor well
Life is a practice. Eat well, sleep well, work well, love people well, these 4 small things, but enough for us to exercise for a lifetime. A small Internet celebrity who made clothing, ate irregularly, brushed the video yesterday and got bowel cancer, and the female anchor in Sichuan was killed by her husband to hide the corpse refrigerator, which is said to be because of the ambiguity with the big brother on the list and was found by her husband. Staying up the useless night can not extricate themselves, playing chicken blood and saying "fight to move yourself".
Love is hidden in the details
"Have you eaten?" Remember to eat well, you have a bad stomach and are obedient. ", the university has a sweet boyfriend, 3 phone calls a day, the meal comes on time. I don't take much care of myself, and now eating is a hasty thing. You see, love is hidden in the details, accumulating over time, and bad habits can easily kill us. Someone reminds you that maybe it's a lot better.
Live your little life well, it is beautiful
Love yourself well, good habits are the focus. An uncle in his sixties, drinking and bleeding in his thirties, the doctor let him eat some three seven powder, this eating is more than twenty years, the disease is mostly caused by bruising, he later quit smoking, drank less, and now looks like fifty, radiant.
A little bit of progress every day, just fine
Living a superior life, this attitude of life is also unconsciously destroying us. Love yourself well, don't compare, love life, pursue your dreams, but I hope you love yourself well, this is the premise.