We often say that hearing is false, seeing is believing, but we don't know that sometimes what we see with our own eyes may not be true, because there are also "deceptions" that can hide the truth, if you do not understand this, you can easily be blinded by appearances.
It is said that since Liu Bei met Dong Cheng, after signing the name of "Left General Liu Bei" on the blood edict of Emperor Xian of Han, he was worried in his heart, and when Dong Cheng put away the edict and prepared to leave, Liu Bei also specially explained to Dong Cheng, "It is advisable to implement it slowly, and it should not be leaked lightly", the name signed on the edict is ironclad evidence, in case Dong Cheng accidentally leaks the heavenly opportunity in any link, with Liu Bei's current strength, he will only be able to tie his hands and become a dead ghost under Cao Cao's sword.
Moreover, cao Cao did not let Liu Bei stay in Xuzhou, but to bring him back to Xuchang and put him under strict supervision, that is, to prevent Liu Bei's power from expanding and taking advantage of the opportunity to cause trouble, and he had a defensive heart for Liu Bei, and with this signed edict, he confirmed Liu Bei's intention to plot against Cao Cao, and there was no escape from death.
Liu Bei was now under house arrest at Cao Cao's side, surrounded by Cao Cao's eyes and ears, and it was impossible to carry out a conspiracy, not only could not plot, but also could not reveal half a motive. In order to better protect himself and his team, Liu Bei lived a pastoral life of Taoguang and obscurity, going to the field every day to plan, sow, fertilize, and weed, and was very busy, raising the vegetables in the field to be green, but his two brothers were also confused.
Guan Yu and Zhang Fei, the two acute sons, were full of question marks for Liu Bei's behavior, this was not just an agreement with Dong Cheng to save Cao Cao to save Han, how did he not move at all, but planted vegetables here without doing anything, is this still the big brother who is full of ambition and plotting for the world in their hearts, is it difficult to sign the "letter of responsibility" but is afraid of it, and they all have to run to ask Liu Bei what is going on? Liu Bei didn't say much, but only replied: "This is not something you can understand." ”
Taoyuan Three Knots of Righteousness this matter is clear to everyone, with the feelings of their three brothers, before it was a big difficulty, no matter how big the problem was solved together, faced together, this time How did Liu Bei play hide-and-seek with them, and also did so frankly, even the brothers could not see the problem?
Liu Bei actually had no intention of hiding Guan Yu and the two of them, but he was responsible for the whole team and the safety of his brothers, and he could not let Cao Cao see that he had the heart to support the Han Room and plot a great cause, otherwise Cao Cao would regard them more closely and more strictly, and they would completely lose the opportunity to really plot, and they might soon bring the disaster of killing.
Although Guan Yu Zhang Fei would not reveal Liu Bei's true intentions, both of them had straightforward personalities and were acute, and if they were not careful, they might expose their ambitions on some occasion.
On the other hand, without telling Guan Yu zhang fei the real situation, let them make some real emotions, Cao Cao's eyeliner saw, and he could also deduce that Liu Bei was "real" and had given up his career and lived with peace of mind, Cao Cao would be completely assured of Liu Bei, in fact, Liu Bei's "white lies" also achieved this effect.
When Cao Cao invited Liu Bei Qingmei to cook wine and talk about heroes to meet, Cao Cao questioned Liu Bei and said, "You did a big thing at home, think I don't know" scared Liu Bei to death, and the result was "You learn to grow vegetables at home."
It's not easy. It shows that Cao Cao has some confidence in Liu Bei, and feels that under his supervision, Liu Bei has gradually lost his "fighting spirit", so he is very happy. Later, in order to prevent Yuan Shao from joining forces with Yuan Shu, Cao Cao agreed to liu bei to ambush Yuan Shu halfway to Xuzhou, which also fully showed that Cao Cao relaxed his vigilance against Liu Bei, and Liu Bei's pastoral vegetable cultivation had achieved the purpose of paralyzing Cao Cao.
Liu Bei's white lie, almost everyone has used, for example, children want to swim in the river, adults often say "there are water monsters in the river will catch people, do not go down to swim", when adults say these words, and Liu Bei's face is not red heartbeat, because adults are from the heart for the safety of children, the purpose is very strong and the purpose is positive energy.
For example, if a very old man is diagnosed with a serious illness, the family will enjoy his old age and be happy and happy, and may only tell the old man that he has a serious cold, secretly giving him medicine and treatment, at this time the whole family is united to lie, but no one is weak-minded, because the starting point of the whole family is for the old man to be happier, and they can tell the lie as the same as the real thing.
Like Liu Bei, controlling white lies within a certain range can also form an illusion of falsehood, making false things more real, so as to achieve real purposes and effects, and make lies a tool to achieve goals. This kind of white lie will not be condemned on the day it is made public, but will be understood by everyone, and all things with positive energy will be embraced.
But lies are lies after all, not a last resort, we still don't use, use more, others will not be able to understand which of your sentences is true, which sentence is false, and finally will really lose the trust of others. Even if you understand that your starting point is good, others will think that you are unfathomable, gradually alienated from you, and dare not communicate with you, and it is not worth the loss.
What lies have you ever told? Kind or careless? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.