As a student' first task is to learn, and the learning situation is reflected in the test results, regular tests do make many students more afraid, worried that they will not be able to test well. And some parents are more important to academic performance, as long as there is a slight decline, they will criticize their children fiercely, resulting in some students in the face of exams, psychological pressure is very large.
Recently, in Weinan, Shaanxi, some netizens shared a video, a boy because the test results are not ideal, so hiding in the arms of his mother crying, the mother's approach let many netizens like.
On the day of the incident, Ms. Zhao's family sat around the dinner table as usual, and she did not notice her son's abnormality, and after a while, her son suddenly fell on top of her and cried. Boys don't like girls who love to cry their noses, and their sons are already the eldest children in the second year of junior high school, so why do they cry?
While comforting her son, Ms. Zhao asked him what had happened to him? Was he bullied at school? The son cried and replied no, and then asked his mother if he was very stupid. Ms. Zhao did not expect her son to suddenly ask such a question, and immediately asked her son with concern why he said this.
The son lay in Ms. Zhao's arms, crying and preaching, the school's test results have come out, the politics subject is 80 points, he only scored 56 points. Looking at her son's sad look, Ms. Zhao did not accuse her son of having a low score on the test, but stood up and gave her son a hug and gently comforted him: "You are already great, you have worked very hard." ”
From the video shared by Ms. Zhao, it can be seen that the child's academic performance is not very bad, English can reach 107 points, mathematics 94 points, the handwriting of each sheet is very neat, and the annotation next to the wrong question is enough to see the boy's serious study attitude.
Ms. Zhao said that she does not pursue her son to become a dragon and a phoenix, but only needs to grow up safely and healthily. Ms. Zhao's approach has won the praise of many netizens, and her words have also spoken out the voices of many parents. Some netizens said that it is really so, as long as the child is healthy and safe, as for the results, it is good to work hard and have a clear conscience!
Some netizens also believe that most of the children who can talk to their parents in this way are very healthy in their hearts, indicating that their parents' concern is also very in place, otherwise the children will not seek comfort in this way. Some netizens said that children need comfort, parents are also difficult, too tight can not be, too open can not be.
Children's academic performance is important, but parents should also pay more attention to their children, when the child achieves good results, praise and encouragement, but also remind the child not to be complacent, to maintain good results is the focus. When the child's grades are not good, do not blindly blame, put forward more suggestions for improvement, and encourage the child more, do not let the child lose interest in learning.
In the growth of children, parents play an important role, listen to children's voices, care about their emotions. It is not only the children who need to grow, but also the parents, who must learn how to become a good parent, rather than self-exclusive and domineering, so that the children can only listen to their own commands.
For the matter of learning, parents should give their children appropriate pressure, not too much, not without. Many children in the face of the exam, the pressure is too large, easy to be anxious, if the parents put pressure again, it is tantamount to destroying the child, I hope that all children can grow up healthily.