Everyone has an unforgettable first love in their hearts, whether it is sweet or sad, it is difficult to forget. First love is a wonderful distance experience. When a person enters puberty, there will be a germination of sexual consciousness and a love for the opposite sex. At this time, young men and women are relatively simple and relatively simple, their love is limited to holding hands, and this sense of distance is difficult to meet again in future love, so the general first love is deeply remembered.
It's like if you have to answer 5 questions in the exam, and 4 of them are answered well, that is, the remaining one is not completed. After class, the bell rings, you hand in your papers and walk out of the exam room to answer the questions with your classmates, and the 4 questions are correct. From now on, the unfinished question will be remembered by you and will not be forgotten for a long time, but the correct 4 questions will be completely forgotten by you. And the first love is because it is often fruitless, that is, a "unfinished thing". So it is easy to be remembered for a long time.
The famous psychologist Hans Chrystra once said that in people's minds, what they don't get is often the best.
In real life, we always hear people complaining that they missed a good boy or girl before, and the other party is so beautiful, and now we often think about it.
Imagine if they had accepted the lover, would they have been separated in the future because they found some shortcomings of the other party? We don't know the answer, but at the beginning of every relationship, do you also think that your lover is the most beautiful lover in the world? And when you were separated for some reason, do you remember what you said about each other when you were just in love? People say that distance produces beauty, for lovers who can't get it, because there is an unbridgeable distance, so under the influence of this distance, you will gradually see the other party as the most perfect person in your heart, and gradually see the other party as the person who can never be replaced in your heart.
In fact, because of the distance, the first love object is always idolized, because we idolize what we can't get, so we overestimate the value of the first love, and many years later, even if that person has been very different from the image we imagined in our hearts, we will still remember the little emotions of the beginning, because it is the memory that we have experienced and cherished in our hearts.