The naked child is lonely, will create a world, create many friends of the heart. - Fu Lei
The road to growth is full of surprises and joys, and it is inevitable that there will be troubles and confusions. When you are confused, if you have parents from the side to point out, I believe you will soon come out of the fog and start again. Because parents are the people who know us best and are the ones who care about us the most, in the gallery of modern literature in our country, there is such a work, which is full of parents' love for their children, and pins on the parents' concern and concern for their children. Embodying the golden and jade good words of parents to their children, but also embedded with artistic disputes, this work is "Fu Lei's Family Book", which is a famous work full of fatherly love.
According to the accounts of Fu Lei and his wife, there should be 347 family letters to Fu Cong, of which 92 in English and French still have 308. Let's take a look.
January 18, 1954. Really, child, this time you really smile all day long, teach people how to give up! When I think about the first month of 53 years, I reproach in my conscience, and I can't get rid of it. Child, I abused you, I will never be sorry for you, I will never make up for this sin. ......
This is the more important question of which of the Beethoven Violin Sonatas of the first month of 1953 was. Fu Cong and his father Fu Lei had a fierce argument, and the father and son held their own opinions and the dispute was not strong. In the case of his father's anger, stubborn obedience, resolutely ran away from home, and then because of the death of Fu Lei's uncle, Fu Lei felt that life was short and felt the preciousness of family affection. Father and son could not be too serious, so they asked their parents to accompany their mother to take Fu Cong home, and the two sides reconciled.
A father who is deeply influenced by traditional Chinese culture can say such sincere words to his son, which is rare. The letter also shows the self-reflective attitude of his father, Fu Lei, and finally he quotes Barzat in the letter that some sins can only be atonened, not washed away. From this, we can see that Fu Lei is also a good father who is seriously reflective and self-reflective. There is also a kind of fatherly love in the majesty.
On the evening of January 13, 1954. Dear child, after you are gone, you want to write a letter the next day, lest you be annoyed. But there is not a day that I don't think about you, I wake up at six or seven o'clock in the morning every morning, and I can't sleep over and over again. I don't know why, but it seems that Christophe's mother is alone in the house. Remembering the scenes of a child's childhood, your mother and I always think about the little story of you between the ages of two or three and six or seven...
Here is the father's thoughts and concerns about his son. Two years after his son had passed, he wrote this letter to his own son. Some of them are very worried and worried. Later, Fu Lei also added his own lessons: she said that I learned patience from the process of getting along with you, learned the art of speaking, and learned to sublimate emotions.
February 10, 1954. ...... Don't read Russian too fast, too fast, can't remember well, in the future you have to start all over again, you can't make a mistake, the beginning must be calm, and the bit and character need to be remembered. Just like the user exam version, temporary strength is useless, now read Russian only have to seek a concept, do not be too ambitious, the main still need to work hard, in terms of music theory, foreign languages always have to go abroad to read, progress faster. At present, greedy and multi-tasking, in fact, how to benefit, remember to take the initiative to explain to the teacher, at least after two or three months to speed up...
Although this sentence is chattering, it also reflects Fu Lei's sincere love for the child
Many of the above letters are collected in the Book of Fu Lei. If you have time, you can warm up the father-son relationship