The art of letters gradually declined, especially love letters, especially those written by men.
The function of epistles seems to be decreasing. This is partly due to the availability of more convenient means of communication, but also because it is impossible to accomplish anything with a letter or a few letters alone – thanks to the craftsmanship of celebrity chefs, the smiles of famous flowers, the power of celebrities and the value of famous products. Epistles, the end also. All the epistles have lost their original grandeur. In this big situation, love letters are not easy to maintain a good standard.
Looking at it from the recipient's side, people seem to be increasingly disrespectful of words and less and less distrustful of words. A letter can impress a high-ranking official, making him happy and eliminating the disadvantages; a letter can impress a beautiful woman and make her secretly agree; a letter can make herself an official; a letter can make others serve their lives... These seem to be ancient myths. Letters, long and well-written letters, have been used by many as id cards for nerds. The amount of letters written, the length of the letters, and the good writing may be enough to show that he has no other ability. Another reason for the decline of epistolary art may be the lack of good works of love letters.
When it comes to the patience and habit of reading, that is what many ladies lack, especially young, beautiful, and lively ladies, who dislike reading dense words the most. When men's love letters reach their hands, they are bound to have a terrible fate. I know of a suitor who is good at writing long letters, and the recipient often gives the letter to her sister-in-law to read, who explains the main points to her. Another young lady was sought after by a colleague who received a letter every day and threw it into an old box at the head of the bed, never to open it, so that the letter was almost filled with the box. A few years later, her family helped her clean up her things and opened the letters one by one, in addition to many long letters, there were tickets for the premiere movie, tickets for the Miss China Audition, landscape paintings, variation stamps, copies of famous paintings, heart-shaped ornaments, and a lot of others.
The worst thing is the following story: a young lady chooses a partner among several suitors and gets engaged. On the day of the engagement, she took out the letters written by other suitors and enjoyed them with her fiancé, laughing. This kind of story seriously discourages men's enthusiasm for writing love letters.
I have always suspected that some men with a little experience have more places like politicians and fewer places like artists when writing love letters. He will inevitably think about: First, whether the letter is useful or not, and how useful it is. Second, if the relationship fails, what kind of records will be left by these letters, and how others will treat these records. With this in mind, long letters are mostly turned into text messages, and some letters may become no letters. The shortcomings born of the lack of literary talent of love letters, he knows to fill them well with something else.
If the silver man is roundabout and it is not easy to meet, the degree to which men rely on love letters will be greatly increased. The fear of lost love overwhelms other fears, and they have to fight for themselves and pay their hearts and minds. That said, there is another reason why love letters are not developed: our space is small, the traffic is developed, and it is too easy to meet