He Zhizhang had read Li Bai's poems very early, extremely admired, a chance encounter, at dusk, He Zhizhang invited Li Bai to drink, just sat down in the hotel, only to remember that there was no money around. He thought about it for a moment, and then he untied the gold ornament turtle bag around his waist and used it as wine money. Li Bai stopped and said, "No, this is an ornament given to you by the royal family according to the grade, how can you exchange it for wine?" He Zhizhang laughed on his back and said, "What is this?" Today I have the honor of making friends with the immortals, but I want to drink a lot! How can a mere golden turtle prevent us from having fun together?
Wine culture has a long history in China, and can even be traced back to the origin of Chinese civilization, the Eastern Han Dynasty Xu Shen's "Explanation of Words" Yun: "The ancient Shao kang first made a broom and a wine. ShaoKang, Du Kang also. The Song Dynasty Zhang Biaochen said in the "Coral Hook Poetry": "In the Middle Ages, the unknown tiller, Du Kang Zhaozuo, the wine liquor, can be drunk, the name of the wine is also." "Du Kang, as the ancestor of Chinese wine, has been admired by people for generations. Cao Cao once said: How to relieve worries, only Du Kang.
Wine is a kind of Chinese culture, the ancients left a lot of verses also form, wine has different meanings. For example, "There is wine in this dynasty and drunkenness in this dynasty, and tomorrow there is more sorrow in sorrow -- Luo Yin"; "Persuade the jun not to refuse the cup, and the spring equinox laughs at people -- Li Bai"; "Qiushan monk is cold and sick, talk about sending three or five cups - Wei Yingwu" and so on to form wine with different meanings.
Wine - the way to communicate the purpose
I remember that at that time, I was also a young man who had just graduated, and my cognition of society was still a blank piece of paper, and I naively thought that the company dinner was not a meal together! Drink some wine, in fact, it is not, for employees is like this, but for the leader may be more than these, the leader wants to listen to everyone's drunken words, listen to everyone's opinions, everyone's dissatisfaction, and even whether there is another way to go to the idea, in case of follow-up to make new arrangements, before just heard of the "drunken spit truth", has not seen, this time is really seen. One of the colleagues talked about it, but it was not that the company was not good, but that it was a big talk about their future planning, goals, and what benefits they could have for the company, and the result was that the later leaders took special care of this colleague, and what good opportunities they had, they would be provided to him. This wine is not a love.
Wine - the sprinkling of lovers in the family
Every New Year's Festival, it is inevitable that family gatherings will be held, and wine will be even more rare. The so-called no wine is not a banquet, but the wine in the family is not so exquisite, often a small wine slow drink, a chat about home, to the parents to report on the situation outside this year, so that parents can rest assured, rest assured. This wine is not much to drink, but to drink feelings, affection.
I remember once when I was drinking with my father, I poured wine for my father and did not pour it full, at this time my father said to me, our father and son are not related, but if it is a guest, this is full, the old saying is "tea is full of deception, wine is full of respect", I understand this truth. This is affection, love whenever and wherever it is.
Wine - a mood between husband and wife
Some people say that couples get along, and love preservation needs to be often surprised. Maybe it's right, but in my opinion, husband and wife need to be emotional, at home I and my dear she like to drink, so wine is a habit in life, but also a way of emotional communication, raise a glass together, respect and love each other, let life look like wine like a glass of white water, after drinking into the belly is as enthusiastic as fire
On the anniversary of the husband and wife acquaintance, my dear her and I fried a few delicious small dishes together, and then sat at the table, praised each other's craftsmanship, respected each other with a glass of wine, expressed our hard work for each other for a year, and supported each other. Add love to the warm family, sublimation.
Wine - brotherhood between friends
Drinking between friends, just like Zhou Huajian's friends said "a glass of wine, a lifetime of love", dry this cup of wine, a lifetime of friends, once this year when they were young, did not understand what wine culture, only know the "feelings are deep and stuffy, feeling shallow licking a lick" of the exhortation words, not drunk is not a brother, slowly grow up, friends drink again, wine is no longer the same, just the right amount is good, more is to talk about the recent situation, recall the past, talk about the future development, because they all have a home, the heart has a responsibility, no longer willful. Wine is more of a feud between sustenance.
In addition, there are some vices that must be quit when drinking, such as: running the train with a full mouth, talking and not opening the door, endlessly persuading others, asking others with their own alcohol, causing trouble after getting drunk, and looking at everything, as if he is the second eldest of the heavens. Lost both wine and character. At the same time, the meaning of drinking and the original intention of drinking are lost.
So before drinking, you must clearly understand why you drink this? With whom and drink? How much did you drink? What do you want to do after drinking? Whenever and wherever you drink, you must have a clear understanding of yourself, wine is a concoction to convey emotions.
When it comes to wine, the number of seats at the wine table is also exquisite
Family gathering seating arrangements
The number of seats on the family party wine is generally sorted according to the level of generation and age. That is, no matter who invites guests, the highest base or the oldest person should sit in the innermost prominent position facing the door: then you can arrange one left and one right in order of share or age, and sometimes arrange a child that the elderly like next to the elders, generally in the next generation, if it is an elderly guest, it may be assigned a person to sit near the door and be responsible for doing all the waiting work; If it is a junior guest, the guest will naturally sit near the door.
Seating arrangements for friends' gatherings
Friends, classmates, comrades-in-arms and other gatherings of wine, generally speaking, who invites guests who sits in the position facing the door, also called "sitting east" or "owner", sometimes the owner may also give this position to the higher position or the person with high moral standing, the rest can be arranged in turn according to the age of one left and one right, because they are enough friends, so sometimes do not care about these, who sits where it does not matter, but the position of the owner of the house others will not sit.
Seating arrangements for guests
Receiving guests is diplomatic, and the number of seats at the wine table may be more exquisite. Generally speaking, the reception of guests is divided into two parties. If it is a sitting in a room, the seat facing the door is the main companion, that is, the main house, that is, the host of the guest.
All the guests are seated, and the right hand side of the main escort is the chief guest, which is the protagonist of tonight's banquet, and the left hand side is the deputy guest. If the host is not very familiar with the party of the banquet, there must be a person who is familiar with the main escort, and he will ask this person to arrange the position of the chief guest and deputy guest. Generally, the chief guest is seated, and the position of other guests who come with him will be arranged. The deputy escort is on the opposite side of the main escort, and the deputy companion sitting on the right side is called three bins, and the left side is called si bin.
The charm of China's wine culture has been passed down for thousands of years, and it is still intoxicating, whether it is drinking and having fun, or borrowing wine to dispel sorrows; whether it is drinking together, or drinking alone under the moon; whether it is drinking lyricism, or drinking complaints have a unique flavor and different feelings. At the same time, I also hope that China's wine culture can be passed on from generation to generation, but do not lose the emotions in wine.