Recently, a father in Hangzhou, Bao Jianguo, has become an enviable "father of other people's families".
Bao Jianguo is a Marvel fan, handmade a lot of Marvel armor, and usually makes props with children.
His daughter told her classmates at school that "my dad is Iron Man," but was ridiculed by her classmates as a liar.
After Bao Jianguo knew, he domineeringly wore a homemade Iron Man armor to the school, causing a sensation, and the principal also suspended classes to let the children of each class take turns to take photos with "Iron Man".
His daughter stood proudly next to her father, took his hand, and said " This is my father " when she saw someone.
Bao Jianguo said in the video: "I want to be a superhero in their minds and grow up with them."
For children, the first superhero they see in their lives is their father.
Dad is the foundation of a child's life
Some time ago, a father of a cleaner in Australia became a world celebrity.
Videos of him accompanying his daughter to gymnastics were liked viral on social networks.
He had a lively and lovely daughter who was extremely athletically talented, so he sent her to a gymnastics training class.
However, slowly, the daughter became more and more reluctant to train from the beginning of the excitement.
One is because gymnastics training is boring; the other is that her daughter's movements are not standard, and the ridicule of her teammates makes her feel distressed inside.
If you are an ordinary parent, there are two ways: either you are distressed about your children and give up directly; or you are bitter and educate your children.
He chose to stand with the child. After communicating with the coach, inside and outside the classroom, he trained with his daughter.
His round body and bulky and stiff antics made his daughter and teammates happy.
Dad's support made the original boring gymnastics interesting, and also let the once lost daughter regain confidence.
Over the years of sparring, my daughter's performance has become better and better, the performance of the World Championships is good, and it is said that she has hit the goal of the Olympic Games.
To society, these fathers are just ordinary people, but for children, fathers support their whole world and are heroes in their lives.
Dad is the courage of a child to pursue his dreams
If you ask me, which movie has been watched the most times? I would say without hesitation: "When Happiness Comes Knocking."
Chris's father figure satisfies almost all of our desires for a good father.
What was his life like?
Destitute, poor sales, lost instruments, frozen accounts, divorced by his wife, living on the streets...
Nothing but a 5-year-old son and an optimistic and brave heart.
In the face of such a bumpy and difficult life, he always believes that tomorrow will be better, and he is knocked down by life again and again, and he is full of hope and rejuvenation again and again.
After being evicted by the landlord, his son asked why he didn't go home, but Chris smiled and played a game with his son: "We can reach ancient times through this time machine!" ”
Then, the father and son were chased by the "dinosaurs" and fled into the "cave", which was actually the men's toilet of the subway station.
His son fell asleep contentedly, and Chris leaned back against the cold wall, shedding tears of hardship in the real world.
They were forced to go to a shelter where he studied and sold instruments while interning hard at a securities company with no salary and little chance of regularization.
But he always firmly believes that the reality is no longer unbearable, as long as you work hard enough, happiness will knock at the door.
As he told his son: If you have a dream, defend it; don't let others tell you that you can't become talented!
In the end, Chris saved the whole world of father and son with optimism and tenacity.
The son told him: You are a good father.
Yes, he is a good father, a hero in the heart of the child, he personally taught the child how to laugh at life, how to stick to the dream.
Dad is the guardian of a child's childhood
At the beginning of this year, a primary school full score essay "Daddy, I want to tell you" went viral in the circle of friends.
In the composition, the child said: The mobile phone is the father's baby, in addition to eating and sleeping every day, almost all the time, it is used to look at the mobile phone.
Asking Dad to check his homework was also casually perfunctory, or simply thrown a mobile phone at him.
The most heartfelt thing is that the child wrote at the end that he very much hoped that his father could accompany him and was willing to exchange his life for his father's company.
In the "Wandering Earth" drama, Wu Jing, the actor of Liu Peiqiang, said in the special edition: "The role of Liu Peiqiang made me realize that I have missed too many moments of my son's growth over the years. ”
This kind of introspection is particularly valuable.
Wu Jing often takes his son to watch the set, explains his work to his son between film shootings, and strives to be a person who makes his son proud;
When you are at home, seize your free time to play games with your son, give your son a toy, take your son on a tour...
Wu Jing said: "I often wonder if I am a competent father, whether I can become the pride of my son's heart. ”
Cai Shaofen once said: "Zhang Jin is very busy, but he will take children, the role of dad is very important, the image of dad is very important, he will let the child know what is a sense of security, the children will see a role model, let them have a brave heart." ”
Father's love is like a mountain, representing the breadth and depth of the heavens and the earth, representing justice and strength, guarding the child's childhood, allowing the child to feel safe and learn to be brave.
Dad is the superhero in the child's heart
Psychologist Gerdy said: "The appearance of the father is a unique existence, which has a special power to cultivate children. ”
There is a fitness expert Michael abroad, full of muscles, sexy and handsome.
You simply can't imagine that he was once a big fat man plagued by obesity and high blood pressure, smoking and drinking.
After his son was born prematurely, he held this tenacious little life and vowed to be a good father.
He quit all bad habits and put away the wandering mentality, in addition to accompanying the children, is to cultivate himself.
Play games with children, fitness, outdoor activities, sell cute and funny...
As sung in "Superman Daddy": "Transforming into Iron Man also transforms into Ultraman, I am your own superhero, for you can do anything, give you all the happiness." 」 ”
Michael was reborn as a tough guy and a superhero who was more powerful than Iron Man in his son's eyes.
Michael said: "My greatest happiness is that my son has always regarded me as an idol until he grows up. ”
The companionship and positive energy of the father form the initial sense of security and belonging of the child in life, and lay the fertile soil for the child's perfect character.
Harvard University research shows that people have two kinds of developmental needs, one is intimacy, mainly from the mother; the other is independence, from the strength and security given by the father.
When I was a child, the closest place to the sky was my father's shoulder, which supported the first vast world in my child's life.
If the father is not the hero in his mind, the child will lack the most important guide in life, the most admired idol, and thus the courage, exploration and creativity.
Fathers,
Please take the time to brush your mobile phone and watch TV to enrich yourself, accompany your children, and become a role model and pride for your children.
Cherish your child's opportunity to treat you as a superhero, once in a lifetime, only once.