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There are many parents who attach great importance to their children's family education and have high expectations for them, hoping that they can become useful people in society in the future. It is precisely because of this psychology of hoping for children to become dragons and women to become phoenixes, so parents are often very attentive to their children's education.
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Education is not only learning education, but also includes children's family education, parents should teach their children knowledge outside of books, such as how to behave in the world, communication skills, etc., and this is what emotional intelligence involves.
Many parents always care about their children's grades and want their children to get full marks, but a highly intelligent child may take the test, but cannot speak; will work, but will not be "smooth".
A person with high emotional intelligence may have a smoother future path.
Bai Yansong once said in an interview: Emotional intelligence is more important than IQ.
Although IQ is very important for a person's learning, what is more important than IQ is emotional intelligence, which makes sense. IQ may determine whether a person can enter the workplace, and emotional intelligence can determine whether a person can stand in the workplace for a longer time.
Many parents also realize the role of emotional intelligence in their careers from their work for so many years, so they want their children to have high emotional intelligence and take fewer detours.
And parents often put these few words on their lips, and the emotional intelligence of children growing up is often not low.
"Believe in yourself, you can!"
★ Parents should believe that their children can do it and do it well
In fact, children are the same as us adults, and we will also encounter the ups and downs of their lives and encounter their own problems. At this time, parents must believe in their children and believe that they can do this well.
When they are not in high spirits, parents should give them more encouragement, and if they do not receive support, they are likely to collapse. opposite:
● Parental encouragement will push them to continue to move forward, pulling them out of the "abyss".
Parents' trust in their children is also the greatest motivation for their children, and with the support and support of parents, it is easier for children to persevere. This kind of not giving up, that is, their hope for the future, is the opportunity to succeed. As long as the child does not give up, there is a possibility of getting back up.
"You are the pride of your parents"
★ Parents' praise for their children is conducive to the cultivation of children's emotional intelligence
There are infinite possibilities in each child, and for the shining points of these children, parents should find out in time, and point them out to tell them that they are the best.
● Parents' affirmation of their children will stimulate their motivation to move forward, and will also give children a better opportunity to play their potential.
When parents affirm their children, children will be more confident, more optimistic, more willing to communicate with others, explore the outside world, and invisibly exercise their abilities.
"What do you think to do about this?"
★ Give your child the right to make a choice
If parents give their children enough trust, they will be given a certain amount of space to make their own choices about their own things.
● Many people with high emotional intelligence have their own unique opinions and judgments on things, and then take action.
If children can also cultivate such qualities in life, it will be a very good help for their emotional intelligence.
They can see their own lives, can make plans for their own lives, and have their own unique insights and ideas. When parents are willing to let their children have the opportunity to make choices, that is, to truly recognize the children and give the children freedom, this is what they most desire after going to school.
▼ Cultivating children's emotional intelligence is a very important thing
For a child, only by improving their emotional intelligence will they understand interpersonal communication, can they skillfully solve things, and make things easier to carry out.
A high IQ does not mean that all problems can be solved, but if the emotional intelligence is high, it is possible to solve more problems.
High emotional intelligence means that it is outstanding in comprehensive ability and means that it is possible to seize more opportunities. Especially after entering the society, the child's IQ can not help themselves invisibly, but children with high emotional intelligence are more likely to be welcomed by the group.
Therefore, parents should not pay too much attention to the child's IQ, but should focus on cultivating the child's emotional intelligence, IQ and head forward, only by improving the child's comprehensive ability, can they cultivate their love of life and the enthusiasm for learning.
Spicy Mom Quotes:
If parents know how to praise their children and know how to grasp the details of life to guide their children, they can improve their children's emotional intelligence. Seize the opportunity to educate children, you can get the opportunity for children to stimulate unlimited potential, great power, but also to let children's lives have more opportunities.
Only when parents believe in their children from the bottom of their hearts, affirm their children, and speak out their affirmation of them and support their actions, the children's abilities are exercised, improved, and strengthened in these behaviors.
Parents, have you ever said these words to your child?
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