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When I was watching Guo Keyu's "Ultimate Thirty-Six Questions", when I saw the bullet screen saying that Guo Keyu was dressed, fake, and old green tea, I couldn't help but want to scare those who attacked Guo Keyu: "Are you blind?" Or is it the water army that Zhang He bought, whose problem is greater in the broken marriage between the two of them, don't you see? What kind of person Zhang He is, can't you see? ”
Zhang He was held so high, but in fact, Zhang He was the most selfish and arrogant one.
At the end of the 18-day trip, Wang Qiuyu and KK both grew and reflected, but Zhang He was the one who felt good about himself and did not grow. When the ultimate thirty-six questions were asked, he was still complaining, what do you have to be wronged, and the one who should be wronged the most is Guo Keyu, okay?
Sincerely feel worthless for Guo Keyu's past ten years, what did marriage give her? After paying so much and not being seen, the result is to be blamed. I finally understood why Guo Keyu did not dare to say that he loved Zhang He, because it was so painful to be hurt, he simply set up an atrium and did not dare to report any hope anymore.
What kind of man is Zhang He? We can see it in one detail he said.
Note that Akira describes one of the things that happened to them in the parking lot:
"It's like a few times we charge parking fees, when we go out of the parking lot, and then the person who collects the parking fee has a very bad attitude, what's the matter, and then you are good to tell people, several times we quarreled because of this." 」 My idea is why should I talk to him well, he is obviously looking for something, I tell him that I need to talk for half an hour, I treat his body in the way of a human being, I will solve it in five minutes. He instigated it, it was such a simple thing. So every time I feel that I have done something right, you are still picking my reason, and you still make me perfect, which I cannot accept. In fact, the point I want is that after you finish the matter, you say to me, 'Zhanghe is too cattle'. ”
Zhang He is a particularly irritable person, he is easy to clash with people, but he also feels that he is right, he should clash with others. Zhanghe's language gives me a sense of disrespect for the administrator of people's parking fees, just because people's attitude may be a little bad, Zhanghe can treat people with their own way and be eager to quarrel with others.
When you are about to quarrel with people, a good partner is to turn off the fire rather than add fuel to the fire. As a result, Zhang He was good, and he did not thank Guo Keyu but because Guo Keyu did not support her and quarreled with her.
Zhang He is like a naïve child, obviously he is not right and should not argue with others, after the quarrel, he still feels that he is very powerful, this is not enough, but also let the woman praise him a "hello cow."
What a superficial and vulgar man!
From this point, you can see that Zhang He has no connotation and cultivation, he is completely unworthy of Guo Keyu, and the two people are not on the same level at all.
After I listened to Zhang He take the initiative to say this, I was happy that Guo Keyu left him, and finally left this arrogant and selfish scumbag, with this kind of man, you will only consume yourself internally, and will not get any substantial warmth.
I agree with what KK and Tong Chenjie said: We're going to find someone hot, and if your partner isn't warm, then your marriage is very cold.
In the ten-year marriage between Zhang He and Guo Keyu, even if Zhang He has performed well in these 18 days, I still want to say that it is good that Zhang He and Guo Keyu do not remarry, and he is not worthy of Guo Keyu's good.
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Have you found that Zhang He is very impatient, he is easy to be lit, Guo Keyu sometimes jokes in fact, he is afraid of him, Guo Keyu is very good at using laughter to cover up his inner panic and discomfort, I just think she is too sensible, which led to her being so miserable in the marriage, in the marriage of the two of them, Guo Keyu is the weaker party, paid a lot of not understood and respected, but was complained and blamed.
Guo Keyu did not love Zhang He, but loved Zhang He very much, but she was hurt, hit a wall, and only then did she block herself, Guo Keyu's denial was not that she did not love, but that she saw through Zhang He as a person, and felt that she did not need to report any hope.
In the question of "what do you think you cherish most in marriage", Zhang He said that what he cherished most was mutual understanding, he said, "I think I have done a very thoughtful job, but you will still come to tell me, you don't want this, you don't want that, you don't want this", Guo Keyu subconsciously replied to him: "Then isn't this love?" Isn't that worrying? ”
Does Guo Keyu really not love Zhang He?
Rather, Zhang He felt that what Guo Keyu gave him was not the kind of love he wanted.
What kind of love Zhang He needs is very superficial, he hopes to do anything himself, the partner next to him can support him without reservation, even if he does it wrong, the partner can't say him, and then the partner has to praise him "You are really a cow, you are really powerful." If that's the case, then Zhanghe you shouldn't find someone to marry, you should go find a little girl who pleases you, but please remember, the girl who pleases you will not really love you, and her pandering to you is just trying to make your money.
In the plus version of "Goodbye Lover", Guo Keyu said what kind of psychology Zhang He is:
"When you set up, a logic, a presentation, and the other party does not give it to you according to this presentation, you lose the patience to listen." In the future, if you find the other half, what is her need for each woman, she also hopes to be pampered, and she also needs to have a lot of heart, to be comforted by the other party, if she has always been the key, blindly let her open you, blindly let her burn herself, she will also be tired. You also have to open yourself up. ”
Guo Keyu is a very emotional person, she hopes that Zhang He can let herself share joy and sorrow, but is Zhang He that person?
In fact, after women have children, they will take care of men a little less, because the family and children alone have already consumed women almost.
I have a very deep feeling about this, I live in Xiamen, some time ago xiamen had an epidemic, and then the children also stopped classes, this month I was almost driven crazy. The child is four years old and is in a grinding age, and then many of his actions you have to guide, you will become very impatient, very big head. I would often be tossed around by children who didn't look like myself. As far as I know, Guo Keyu personally taught the children, and then the boys were very naughty in the process of growing up, and you can imagine how much effort she had to spend.
But Zhang He did not understand Guo Keyu's dedication to the family to the child, he felt that he was supporting the family, otherwise he would not have said that sentence, "Our family Teacher Guo is an artist", he felt that Guo Keyu was pampered at home, please, you are out all year round, who brought up your son? Your son is not giving food to eat and clothing, but Guo Keyu is doing it himself.
I really can't stand the thoughts of some traditional men, in their eyes, children seem to grow up in a jump, which is so easy.
Guo Keyu's dedication to the family is a lot in the details, and Zhang He is the person who can't see the details, he can't see Guo Keyu's pay, at first Guo Keyu was still a virtuous wife, but later she was unwilling, because what you did was not understood and misunderstood, please ask what do you do with him?
Zhang He also knew that Guo Keyu was very strong, and when Guo Keyu gave birth to a child, he hit oxytocin for a day, so painful, she did not scream from beginning to end. Zhang He said it was particularly plain, even if he said "Ke Yu, at that time I really hurt you, it is not easy for a woman to have a child", even if it is a sentence, Guo Keyu will not be so uncomfortable.
What does Zhanghe's reaction feel like? Anyway, women have to have children, and isn't it right to have children?
Guo Keyu's efforts in marriage, there are too many without feedback and are taken for granted, so she will be cold and close the door of her heart.
Guo Keyu's love words such as "What time to fly, go home early, drink less wine" are regarded by Zhang He as strange, because Zhang He feels that you don't have to cook, and there is nothing to arrange. Zhang He can't see the real good, he likes girls to praise him a sentence "you are really cattle, you are awesome", please, is this not a hobby? The person pandering to you doesn't love you at all, but because they get what they want.
Zhanghe, how can you be so superficial!
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Why couldn't Guo Keyu stop crying as soon as he looked at Zhang He? Because at that time she had no way to hide herself, when the emotions she released were real, she cried for herself, for the past ten years that were not worth it. Isn't it ridiculous that you have paid so much for this marriage and that the man is still accusing and complaining about you?
Zhang He and Guo Keyu they lived in a villa, after the divorce, it was Guo Keyu who moved out with the child, Zhang He did not move them, and even the transfer of the child was Guo Keyu's own Zhang Luo. Guo Keyu said that he had the idea of remarriage after the divorce, it should be that he worked alone with the child, it was too difficult, or when the child was very eager for his father, she wanted to remarry or simply remarry. I don't know what's hidden in this, but I think if a man really loves children, he should move out on his own, rather than his ex-wife and children.
Please pay attention to Guo Keyu's request to Zhang Heti and let him accompany his son more, which shows that in the education of children, Zhang He's accompaniment to children is always small.
Zhang He is a very egotistical person, and he does not mention his son on the question of "how to live a perfect day". And that sentence, dare to love that the two of us have made a son out in the past ten years, saying such a thing if you let the child see what he will think. Does Zhang He really love his son? Anyway, Guo Keyu was very painful, and as for Zhang He, not necessarily, not necessarily.
How wronged is Guo Keyu's marriage? There was no wedding and no ring, so I was in such a hurry to marry myself. In ten years of marriage, Zhang He did not buy her cosmetics, nor did he buy a bag, because Zhang He felt that she had low materialism and did not need it, but people did not take the initiative to ask for it, wouldn't you take the initiative to give? So a man who cuts, buys a vegetable and is deducted from searching, parking a car can argue with people because of a little parking fee, do you think Zhang He is still a good man?
That is to say, Guo Keyu's upbringing is too good, and he does not complain about anything.
A man like Zhang He, who marries no one, is not good, because he only wants others to give himself but gives very little emotionally. Don't be too self-centered, no one can do it your way, you have to respect people. What is Zhanghe? You don't come as I mean, you don't say the answer I want to hear, it's your fault. Who the hell is being aggressive?
In addition, in the three years when Guo Keyu was ill, she did not mention a word on the show, what happened?
Guo Keyu, you are too sensible, and it is painful to be sensible, but you are so sensible, or you are groundlessly accused by netizens.
I am very sorry for you, and I hope that Guo Keyu can live his day well in the future.
As for Zhang He, your disguised affection is only a disguise after all, and everyone will see through it sooner or later.
Today's topic: What kind of person do you think Zhang He is? Welcome to leave a message.
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★ Author: Yibao; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.