These two days, I was talking to my classmates about "The Wisdom of Wealth".
This lesson is about how 25 kinds of multiple thinking are laid out in the brain, and I want to talk to you today about the importance of thinking for a person's growth.
First of all, I will find that more and more people are beginning to pay attention to their own thinking, and here I would like to share with you a small theme in one of the directions of this year's New Year's Eve class.
A lot of people are starting to make predictions for 2022. If you say that in the forecast for 2022, I think some things have changed, and some things will never change.
Many people are asking me: How does Sister Meng go from poverty to wealth? At this point, I think there is a way.
Start by changing one's thinking/thinking, or changing the way the brain thinks.
You see some people think that the leader assigns me a new task, that is, to rectify me, and some people think that this is the leader to give me a new opportunity, I may be able to achieve great things in the future. A person's different ideas will eventually produce different results.
Just like when I started a business, I found that I would encounter a lot of things in my life that made people collapse, the whole person's heart was very collapsed, and there were often all kinds of urgent things, that is, emergencies.
If the heart is not strong enough, then the result is different at this time.
Every time I encountered such problems before, I suffered in silence, and I felt that how I was so unlucky as a boss, how I had to manage everything, and what happened had to be responsible for me.
At that time, I complained about others, and often felt that my subordinates especially did not understand me. You dare to be responsible for only one piece, and I am responsible for the whole thing. If something goes wrong, I have to carry it.
I used to think this way, but after the age of 30, that is, after 3-4 years of starting a business, I began to think deeply, and I found that things were not like this.
The same thing different people do, the practices, ideas are different, why is the powerful character his ideas different from ordinary people? I think one of the most critical things is that these people have a master mindset.
What is the thinking of ordinary people? I've always thought that he is an animalistic mind, essentially the same as kittens and puppies, and when you encounter unhappiness, you must scratch each other.
This is a kind of animalistic thinking based on physiology.
However, if a person wants to become a more powerful self, the first thing he must cultivate is his own rational thinking, so that his thinking becomes very cattle.
That is to turn your thinking into a framework model, then this thing is actually a technique, not a Tao. How many framework models are there in the mind?
I have been doing the work of summarizing over the years, I think there are four categories, a total of 25 kinds of thinking, the basic structure of these four categories is actually closely related to our daily production and life.
In these four major thinking structures, I think about how to lay out these four categories every day. In fact, any kind of thinking, its entire category/division, actually has its basic laws.
These four categories are the ️ goal system that a person wants to build 1⃣, that is, a person lives in this world, and he wants to achieve his goals.
You see pigs and cows have no goals, eat and drink Lasa every day, but why is the first major system a target system? It is because people in this society, especially after the refined division of labor, you must achieve your corresponding goals, in order to be able to be feedback by the evaluation mechanism, and then make your life better.
So the first point is undoubtedly a person's target system. However, there is also a point that 2⃣️ a person's cognitive system. What is the cognitive system? It's your mental structure and your basic ability to learn.
You find that some children who don't have to learn much will have good academic performance; some people will study every day and end up with poor academic performance. In fact, this is because everyone's cognitive system is built differently.
For example, the way of thinking of cognition, including how to build input thinking, how to build closed-loop thinking, how to build monetization thinking, how to do system thinking, how to do review thinking, how to do master thinking, how to do cross-border thinking?
With so many thought structures, will it be confusing? Not really. Whether it's a person's goal or the second point of cognitive system I'm talking about, both of these two major parts are private, that is, they belong to us personally as long as we upgrade.
However, a person who is constantly working hard in this society not only has a relationship with himself, but also has a relationship with others.
Then first of all, he must understand the rules of society, and know what the operating rules and laws in this society are.
At the same time, he also has to deal with the three circles and six relationships that are closely related to him: the relationship with himself, the relationship with the family, and a relationship with the things he can come into contact with in society.
So the big system 3⃣is the system of social rules. It will tell you how to build the second curve and how to break from 0 to 1.
Speaking of social rule systems, it's like how you make money in this society, so the model is essentially a system of social rules.
You see the survival of the fittest, and the unwell cannot realize the plan, which is a kind of enlightening wisdom given to us by the great biological world. Therefore, the powerful people in this society must first know what the rules of this society are.
I remember that some time ago I was studying at the Guanghua School of Management of Peking University, where a group of entrepreneurs were studying history, and everyone's awareness of this social rule system and social rules was very powerful.
When we do some team pk matches, everyone will spend a lot of time to understand the rules of pk matches, that is to say, how to prove that we have won, how to prove that we have lost, rather than rushing to get the coach's task and going directly to do it.
You see, most people in this society do not hear the basic social rules clearly, and they desperately put their efforts into return, but in the end there is no result, why?
It's not that this person is not hard enough and not lucky enough, it's just that he doesn't have a good grasp of social rules at all, so the social rule system in the thinking system is very good.
In addition, there is a system of close relationships related to oneself, which we call three circles and six relationships.
Dunbar is a sociologist, and he has studied the Dunbar coefficient, which is about the 150 people who are most important to a person who have a social relationship with him, but in fact, the number of people in his family and the number of people who can help him achieve his goals, I call it the "10, 20, 150 principles".
That is to say, the 10 people at your core, usually it is generally your family members, divided into three categories: elders who are older than you, relatives of your generation, and your descendants.
The thinking structure of these three relationships is not the same, why some people are busy and do not have time to invest in the family, but the husband and wife relationship is very good, and there is a method behind it.
It's not that you're busy with couple relationships that will necessarily collapse, but managing each other's expectations is often the most important way to deal with the three-circle and six-relationship rules, especially the family-related laws.
In addition, there is also a correlation relationship in the social relationship system that is generally easy to be ignored by people, that is, a thinking system with oneself, that is, one's own ability to handle oneself.
You will find that many people in this society, people on the outside can handle it, they can't get it done by themselves. You see there are some people who often self-deny, self-doubt, full of self-confidence during the day, and feel that their lives collapse at night, and the fundamental reason lies in how they see themselves.
I said that everyone should be their own teacher, and that there are two you living in you, one is a weak you and the other is a strong you. If you can't let the strong you prevail, then you will choose to retreat when you encounter many difficulties and setbacks at this time.
So they are their own best teacher, through self-teaching, self-reflection, learning to be alone is very critical, many people have no way to be alone, you must follow other people's teachers every day, follow other people's colleagues to feel safe in life.
In fact, everyone's sense of security is given by themselves, only when you become stronger, you can give yourself a solid sense of security, in order to become your own arm, can become your own harbor.
So how to give yourself a secure mind, this is an important part of self-thinking.
In addition, when it comes to relationship with the world, it is nothing more than two types: low-potential thinking and high-potential thinking.
What is low-potential thinking? If you are lower than other people's social rank or lower than other people's social status, when you communicate with him at this time, you must use the so-called high intelligence thinking to communicate with him.
Because there is often a huge disparity in status between two people, there is also a gap in cognition, why should others help you? Why others will think of you as his network, it must be that you use the corresponding method.
Often some classmates ask me: That cute sister I don't have any resources, unlike you.
I don't have any resources, so why do I have a place in this society?
Haven't you noticed that a lot of Internet bigwigs are fighting back from the grassroots? As long as you can master your own hard skills, you can break a fixed situation in high-potential thinking.
I can't help but think of what Confucius said in his Analects: Don't be afraid that others won't know you, as long as you have the hard ability to stand up.
There is also a saying that is also very good, and it also comes from the Analects: If a worker wants to do a good thing, he must first use it. It's about if you want to do something great, you must have your own core standing hard skills. If you don't have any hard skills, it is simply impossible to get someone else.
Therefore, the three circles and six relationship system and the social rule system have become the third and fourth points, the secondary sub-directory of the 25 kinds of thinking in "The Wisdom of Wealth".
So if you look at these 25 types of thinking, there are four major components:
1. Individuals with target systems and cognitive systems;
2. The social rule system and the three circles and six relationship systems are the relationship between people.
Everyone may not be able to say that the 25 kinds of thinking are very proficient, but when encountering any problems, if you can recount the knowledge points I told you today, I believe that your certain degree of thinking system will be better opened, and you can better transmit the light and heat around you.
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