What is the Seven Year Itch?

When I first knew about the seven-year itch, I was still in college, I didn't even have a first love, and I was so virgin that I knew about getting married and marrying a wife. It's all because of one of the many magazines I love to read, Family. Later, when I joined the work force, the unit assigned tasks and required everyone to have a magazine, and I did not hesitate to register for Family. A day later, the leader came to me and admonished me, saying that I wanted to order a professional magazine, which must be consistent with the discipline i was teaching, and asked for changes. Finally, he was also murdered by a sentence of "Xiong Qing gang egg, not even a daughter-in-law, watch what "Family"! "At that moment, if you have a seam in the ground, you can really drill into it."

The enlightenment of my married and family life came from the "Family" in those years of college. Now that I think about it, it's really a strange thing, and I don't know how I liked watching "Family" at that time.

After two years of work, I got married, and I have been here for more than twenty years, and when I think back, I really don't feel the boredom, tiredness and fatigue that the seven-year itch said. The seven-year itch is someone else's child, which is too against the laws of science for me.

At that time, the unit where I worked was more than twenty miles from home. Saying that it is a home is actually renting someone's house, and the place where the wife and son are located is home. I eat and live in the unit day and night, I can only stay at home for one day a week, and if I want to go back to get ten o'clock in the evening after the students finish school, riding a jingle-dong broken bicycle is not safe, not to mention, when I get home, my wife and son are already asleep, and it is not appropriate to go back to disturb. So I can only wait for the time to rest. I set up my family like this, and I was so busy all day that I was tired and tired of becoming a black bear.

The wife and son rent two bungalows in someone else's house. The wife goes to work during the day, washes and shabu, and has to pick up her son to kindergarten, go to bed early and get up early, and she is also busy all day. When I met my son, I had an illness and a calamity that I was all responsible for, a hand inside and out, a small head of less than one meter and six meters, and almost became a woman, and the beautiful lady who used to be green and tender has also become a yellow-faced woman, but she is still the beautiful woman I live with.

At that time, I really thought that distance produced beauty, and small farewell was better than new marriage. Two people really stay together for a day a week, cherish each other's time together, enjoy the warmth and warmth of the family together, kiss or kiss it, where is the idle kung fu Ai Ai complains, accuses, complains and quarrels. Occasionally, emotions and dissatisfaction can also tolerate and give in to each other, turning the dry into a jade veil. No, I don't think there have been any events that can be called "gango". A family of three, holding hands and holding hands, shopping, walking, eating snacks, is also warmly envied by everyone. In fact, I am quite grateful for the distance of more than twenty miles, and I think the seven-year itch belongs to those who are tired of being together every day.

At that time, my wife and I did not seem to have any beautiful desires for life, which should be what is now called a small family of men and women. The salary income is not high, it is still paid in cash, and every time the salary is paid, when you get home, you will put it directly in the drawer, and the wife is the same. Relatives and friends, the elderly on both sides, marriages and funerals, and various daily uses are self-use, never calculating, and there is no quarrel over who uses it inappropriately. There is nothing wrong with the lives of two people, as long as they think it is available, they are available, and they never churn those chickens and pieces. Maybe that's what people often call inclusion. Leaving enough living space for the other party is also maintaining their self-esteem. Why let your marriage and family suffer from trivialities.

Due to my job changes, we moved five times, and in 2005 we had our own house, and in 2008, the family of three lived together stably. Life is still like that, my son goes to school, my wife and I are busy with their own work, and the time together during the day is three meals a day. At night, my wife loves to nest in the sofa to chase the drama, my favorite is the American blockbuster, always can not fight the wife's small temper, can only silently watch the computer; there are fox friends to push the cup to change the cup, always can not hear the wife's "where to die" beckoning; the wife prefers to eat snacks, as long as a command, at ten o'clock at night also have to obediently go downstairs, people in the store closed the door that is really no way. Shi Er also said when will it be time to "touch the wife's hand, like the left hand touching the right hand, and there is no feeling at all"?

Long and long life, that itch does not feel, the marriage boat said that it turned over without experience, it is really sad to think about, and the life without experience is not perfect.