Life is easy to end, and the world is impermanent and bad. There are many unsatisfactory people in life, and those who can think through it will suddenly open the plug, and if they can't think straight, then who is he who buries Nong Zhi every day?
In the years of fancy years, I thought that he could have the courage of his father and the ability to do things in all directions, but he never expected that du Weisong, who had not yet revitalized the family business, chose to turn away hastily.
As the youngest son of the legendary "Shanghai Emperor" Du Yuesheng, Du Weisong, he has been fed and clothed since he was a child, and is particularly loved by his father Du Yuesheng. Why did Du Weisong, who was regarded as the "prince", finally embark on this desperate road?
If it is ridiculous to say that he committed suicide by swallowing medicine just because his wallet was stolen when he was getting a haircut, is this the truth?
(1) The world is hot and cold in the middle of the family road
Pressure, but not crushed; desperate, but painful. Times have changed, in that fickle era, Du Yuesheng and his family left Shanghai to move to Hong Kong, as the saying goes: "Money is something outside the body, life does not bring, death does not bring, why bother with this." ”
But when it comes to really letting go of the pursuit of money, even Du Yuesheng, who is in the political and business circles of Shanghai, the scenery at this time is not as good as in the old days.
The whole family relied on Du Yuesheng to barely make a living, and then, just after Du Yuesheng's death, the Du family's life was even more difficult, and it was conceivable that Du Weisong, who was dressed in gold and jade, was so overwhelmed and overwhelmed in the face of such a dilemma.
By chance, Du Weisong, who was not deeply involved in the world, had to go out to the barber shop to repair his hair, and he knew that TaoGuang obscured his wealth, so he hung the clothes containing his wallet at the door and went to get a haircut. What I never expected was that when Du Weisong finished the checkout, the wallet in his pocket actually disappeared.
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Impatient, he did not react to what had happened, and soon he was unceremoniously scolded by the boss, and then he was driven out like a flower child, and the store completely trampled Du Weisong's self-esteem on the ground.
Du Weisong couldn't stand this anger! Once upon a time, he still had a prince with a head and a face, but now he is in this state of embarrassment, which is very sad and sad. In such a situation, Du Weisong, who could not face this humiliation calmly, committed suicide after taking a large number of sleeping pills in one breath that night.
Deeply aware that the family road is in the middle of the road and the world is cold, he is doomed to escape the fate of being thrown into the lower class, becoming a useless waste paper, he does not want to live so embarrassingly, leaving is what Du Weisong thinks is the most decent departure.
In my humble opinion, even in today's society, it seems that Du Weisong's behavior can be understood, but understanding is not the same as agreeing. How cruel life is, the most important thing is how you think about it.
There are many people in the world who fall from heaven to hell in an instant, and some people choose to admit defeat, while others choose to transform. And there is no doubt that Du Weisong has only chosen the most irrational path among many choices, which is really a pity.
But later people gradually began to understand that it was not this "last straw" that crushed Du Weisong, but that the camel itself had chosen to give up, just found an excuse to "sneak away".
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(ii) The last straw that crushed the camel
How cruel the world is, how strong you have to be to arm yourself. The reason why Du Weisong was angry that his wallet had been stolen and took this experience so seriously and pushed his decision to leave could not be because he had not experienced enough.
The forest is big, there are all kinds of birds, and he is just a young bird waiting to be fed without the power of a chicken under the protection of his family, how can he survive in this turbulent era?
To say that Du Weisong is a person, compared with Du Yuesheng's strict discipline of other children, Du Weisong spent a pleasant and relaxed childhood, even if he was not motivated, Du Yuesheng chose to turn a blind eye, and his brother and sister were not spared from being punished by Du Yuesheng's stick.
The money left to Du Weisong is enough to support his lifelong expenditure, this kind of confidence has been conceived by Du Weisong since he was a child, and it is self-evident that Du Weisong at that time became a well-known disciple of Shanghai Beach, and it can also be seen that Du Yuesheng has the ultimate love for the son born to Mrs. Four Houses.
It is precisely in this way that it also lays a certain foundation for Du Weisong's cowardly character. Thirty years of Hedong, thirty years of Hexi, perhaps he never thought that he would one day fall here. At this time, the decline of the Du family and the shyness in the pocket were enough to crush the Du family's full confidence for decades.
The sudden change in family situation made it difficult for Du Weisong, who had not lacked money since childhood, to accept, and then he went to Taiwan with his mother, and he could not accept the change of the environment, nor could he accept that he now had to start working like ordinary people to make money.
Such a huge gap once caused Du Weisong to have a great sense of fear in his heart, and even the whole person began to become depressed, losing his color like a lost soul. It is a pity that Du Weisong did not live in a desperate situation and live out the dashing spirit that his father once had.
It is said that if there is a father, there must be a son, but this is not necessarily the case at first, after all, his father Du Yuesheng was originally a small shouted and beaten by everyone, and with his ability to do things, he became one of the leaders of the three major gangs in Shanghai.
Du Weisong's psychological state and the actual situation he was in from the beginning have undergone tremendous changes, after all, it is really rare to fall from heaven to hell in an instant, he cannot calmly face the gains and losses in life, cannot suddenly deal with the advances and retreats in life, and can also show understanding.
How many people can afford such a change? He had been hiding in the protective area that the Du family had built for him for a long time, and this protective cover had been deeply imprinted in his heart, and once it was revoked, he could not withstand any pressure from the outside world, not to mention that he was alone at this time.
The long-standing dissatisfaction eventually broke out. Haircuts can be stolen from wallets, and the store tells him that a rich boy has fallen to this point, and even he himself feels that he looks down on himself.
This experience was undoubtedly the last straw that overwhelmed him, and fate seemed to have made a big joke with him, suddenly taking away everything he had, and Du Weisong could never get out of this established fact. Some reason, can not think of it, can not go, at this point, he also chose to commit suicide to carry out the last outbreak of the heart.
(3) Thinking through is heaven, and thinking through is hell
Du Weisong, who was heartbroken, swallowed medicine in one breath to commit suicide, and by the time the fourth wife, Yao Yulan, found out, she had already been unable to rescue her. In this way, the young Du Weisong ended his life in this way. It is really regrettable that Du Weisong, who can't think straight, left like this, as Du Yuesheng's most beloved young son, he finally chose to escape, which was actually a matter of mentality, and Du Yuesheng's careful cultivation was wasted.
Man, in a word, you have to force yourself to be excellent. If Du Yuesheng had chosen to use this to motivate himself to work hard at that time, and then change the status quo of the Du family, wouldn't he have been able to achieve a good story? Only when you become excellent will everything become clear. The level of the heart quotient also determines the bitterness of life. What crushed Du Yuesheng was not the pressure, but the way he understood the pressure.
Where there are so many satisfactory hearts in life, breaking from the outside is pressure; breaking from the inside is growth.