On March 2, Yu Chengqing and his ex-wife Yi Nengjing's son, Harry Yu Hanrui, posted a dynamic on the online social platform, which was a group of selfies of her own women's clothes smoking, which caused a hot discussion for a while. Although some netizens support his flamboyant personality, most netizens expressed their difficulty in accepting this and responded in their hearts.
Speaking of the love story of Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing, it should be well known in the entertainment industry, and the song "Spring Mud" is a witness to the love between the two. The two of them, known as the golden children of the entertainment industry, registered their marriage in the United States in 2000. Although the two divorced in 2009, they did not turn against each other.
Although the custody of the son Yu Hanrui, born to the two in 2002, was awarded to Yu Chengqing, it was raised by two people.
Born in 2002, Harry Yuhanrui is now an adult, perhaps because he has been studying abroad for many years, Harry is not as shy and conservative as a traditional Chinese boy, but a flamboyant personality, and the women's clothing dynamic released on March 2 is not his first time.
According to Harry himself, the makeup and costumes in the photos were matched and adapted by himself. A closer look at Harry's makeup is indeed delicate and feminine, especially charming, making people feel a different soft male charm. And Harry was admitted to the most difficult design school in the UK by his own efforts, and has been studying in it, and the thinking of people engaged in design is different!
Although Harry's thick makeup is very eye-catching, he is still a boy who has just come of age, most Chinese netizens are still a bit difficult to accept, and even some netizens reflect a tingle in their hearts after watching it, thinking that he is too open and too feminine.
In fact, not only netizens can't accept it, Harry's grandmother, that is, Yu Chengqing's mother Zhang Zhengfen, as a conservative elderly person in the last century, is very opposed to his grandson wearing heavy makeup and women's clothing, and once strictly forbade Harry to do this kind of thing.
Because in addition to fashionable women's makeup and women's clothing, Harry once posted photos of kissing friends on his social accounts, including men and women, black and white Asians. Maybe it was grandma's words that were too strict, or maybe Harry was afraid of grandma's sadness because he considered his grandmother's feelings, and he set up a private account after grandma's opposition statement, and only users who followed him could see his dynamics and photos.
But after only a while, Harry couldn't bear it anymore, and he changed his account to an open account, while updating his makeup and women's photos on social platforms.
Many netizens believe that Harry grew up in the original family because he could not get complete father or mother love, resulting in some distortions and even defects in personality growth, so he used this extreme way to attract the attention of his parents.
In fact, the speculation of netizens is not unreasonable, after all, in the process of adolescent growth, the influence of parents on the formation of children's personality is quite large, and Harry also released some dynamics about parental divorce before this women's photo. Yu Hanrui has witnessed his parents' divorce since he was 7 years old, and has been living with his father Yu Chengqing ever since.
As we all know, Haring is usually busy with work, and he is a big man, naturally he does not feel the subtle changes in his son's psychology, it can be said that Harry's growth environment is the lack of female guidance roles, the lack of maternal love, so he will subconsciously imitate this female feature that he has not been exposed to.
Moreover, Yu Chengqing and Yi Nengjing had their own new marriages in 2015 and 2016 respectively, and they also had their own newborn daughters, each forming a new family.
In this case, Harry also officially announced that his special orientation was out. However, harry wanted to arouse the suspicion of his parents in this way, but harry's mother, Yi Nengjing, personally denied it.
Because Yi Nengjing herself once asked Harry when he was 12 years old: "Do you think your mother can find another boyfriend to live?" Little Harry replied, "You can all choose your own future life without being tied up because of me." Yi Nengjing listened to his son's words and burst into tears, and it can be said that Harry was quite mature when he was 12 years old.
As for the special orientation of her son, Yi Nengjing also talked to Harry face to face, confirmed that this was indeed what her son really liked, she also said that she did not support it very much, what was more important than his happiness, and also personally taught Harry to dance, and the two danced together.
The mother's attitude is clear, everyone has set their sights on Yu Chengqing as a father, perhaps conservative in thought, perhaps afraid that his mother will be difficult to accept, Haring has not once made a positive response to his son's women's clothing.
However, Yu Chengqing once said on the show that he had always wanted to take Harry around to travel, and Harry began to ignore him a little, and Yu Chengqing, who was more than half a hundred years old, looked a little lonely, like an old father who had been snubbed. In addition, Yu Chengqing also posted a photo of himself and his son on the Internet, proving that his relationship with his son was very good. But in fact, their son is more sticky to his mother Yi Nengjing!
Perhaps, there are some things that Yu Chengqing is not easy to open, and he is not as open as Yi Nengjing, but what he tacitly supports his son may be the support and love he expresses for what his son has done.