Since the ancient beauty matched the talent, tao hong and Xu Zheng's marriage is also the same.
The marriage between the two has been 18 years, and Tao Hong, who is now 49 years old, is still beautiful and has no trace of the years. Xu Zheng's career has risen steadily, becoming a well-known director and winning many awards.
But along the way, the marriage between the two has not been peaceful.
Xu Zheng has captured the infidelity photos many times, Tao Hong was photographed behaving intimately with a group of women in a bar during her pregnancy, and then she was exposed to a female student on the street, and her relationship was not bad...
In the face of many rumors of her husband cheating, Tao Hong, instead of being angry, came forward to explain for her husband.
Tao Hong said: The two are open marriages, and loyalty is not a necessary option in the marriage relationship.
Some people say that Tao Hong seeks perfection for marriage, and some people say that this is where Tao Hong's wisdom lies.
In 1972, Tao Hong was born in Wuxi, Jiangsu Province, and when she was a child, Tao Hong looked ugly, and even her parents hated her.
After her birth, Xiao Taohong came to live in Beijing with her father, her father was an engineer, her mother was a library administrator, the income was not high, and the family did not live a wealthy life.
In order to relieve the pressure, Tao Hong's parents sent her to live with her aunt when she was 5 years old.
The eldest aunt lives in Shanghai, and both husband and wife are scientists, knowledgeable, and very attentive to Tao Hong's education.
During the year that she lived in her aunt's house, Tao Hong was taught by her aunt and uncle and learned a lot of knowledge.
At the age of elementary school, Tao Hong returned to Beijing to attend school, where she performed well and always had top grades.
The well-behaved and sensible Tao Hong made her parents proud, and in order to make Tao Hong develop in an all-round way, her parents sent her to the Children's Palace to learn dance.
Tao Hong practiced dance very seriously and diligently in the Children's Palace, and won the favor of the teacher.
A year later, the teacher suggested that Tao Hong's parents take her to the Beijing Dance Academy, and the parents readily agreed.
At this time, the synchronized swimming coach Soria took a fancy to Tao Hong and invited her to join the swimming team.
Solia is the coach of the first synchronized swimming team in China, and her vision is very unique, and even uses tuition-free conditions to attract Tao Hong to join the team.
Tao Hong is not disgusted with synchronized swimming, but she also does not want to give up learning dance for a year, so she applied for the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe.
In the end, Tao Hong successfully passed the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe with her outstanding performance, and at the same time, the Synchronized Swimming Team of the Beijing Sports Commission also sent Tao Hong an acceptance letter.
At this time, Tao Hong fell into a dilemma, Tao Hong likes to dance, but to learn to dance need to pay 24 yuan a month tuition, learning to swim does not require tuition.
In the end, Tao Hong chose to join the synchronized swimming team, when Tao Hong really thought that learning synchronized swimming was just "playing with water".
When she officially joined the synchronized swimming team, Tao Hong found that it was not as simple as she thought, and she needed to train in the water for six or seven hours every day, and soaking in the water for a long time made her hands and feet white.
Tao Hong's parents were heartbroken to see their daughter training so hard, so they applied to the coach to let their daughter quit the synchronized swimming team.
But the coach said that he was not willing to release people, in order to leave Tao Hong behind the synchronized swimming team, the coach visited Tao Hong's parents many times.
In order to dispel the concerns of Tao Hong's parents, the coach promised them that as long as Tao Hong trained seriously for ten years, he would have the opportunity to enter the national team, play for the country, and have the opportunity to enter the university.
What a proud thing to be able to enter the national team and win glory for the country, the second elder immediately agreed after listening to the coach's words.
I have to say that Tao Hong is extremely talented in swimming, and after exercise, her swimming skills are very outstanding.
10 years later, as promised by the coach, Tao Hong entered the national team and became the main member of the team, achieving great results.
In 1990, Tao Hong won the third place in the national competition as a single person, and in 1991, she won the 6th place in the 10th World Swimming Competition.
In the 7th National Games, Tao Hong led the team to win the championship of collective synchronized swimming.
In 1983, director Jiang Wen was working on his first film, Sunny Days.
At that time, Jiang Wen planned to find a person who could swim to play the role of Beipei, so he came to Tao Hong's swimming team.
Actors not only require good swimming skills, but also have high requirements for appearance.
At that time, there was a beautiful woman in Tao Hong's team, and Tao Hong, as the "boss" of the team, accompanied her to meet the director.
Surprisingly, director Jiang Wen took a fancy to Tao Hong, left her contact information, and invited her to participate in "Sunny Day".
In this way, Tao Hong entered the entertainment circle by mistake.
Later, "Sunny Day" was a big fire and became one of the classic works of director Jiang Wen.
Tao Hong also became popular with the role of "Yu Beipei", and since then, many acting opportunities have poured into him.
But just when Tao Hong was red, she did not choose to continue acting, nor did she stay as the coach of the swimming team, but applied for the Central Academy of Drama.
The reason why Tao Hong made this move, in addition to being guided by director Jiang Wen, is also to realize the university dream in her heart.
Along with Tao Hong, Jiang Wenti also pointed out Xia Yu, who applied for the Chinese opera, while Tao Hong applied for the three major schools of shang opera, Chinese opera and north film.
Unexpectedly, Tao Hong took the exams of these three schools, and finally passed all the exams, and got the notices of the three schools at the same time.
In the end, Tao Hong followed the advice of director Jiang Wen and chose to enter the Central Academy of Drama.
Since then, Tao Hong has finally realized her college dream and spent four happy years here.
During her college years, Tao Hong met Duan Yihong and formed the strongest friendship.
Duan Yihong was born in Yili, Xinjiang, his family was not rich, and he took the exam three times before he was successfully admitted to the Central Academy of Drama.
Duan Yihong and Tao Hong enrolled in the same year and were assigned to the same class, and the two met.
Duan Yihong's original name was "Duan Long", which sounded very loud and made people mistakenly think that he was a mighty and majestic man.
It wasn't until he stepped into the classroom that everyone found that Duan Long was thin and small, which did not match the name.
Due to his family's poverty, Duan Yihong could not afford to fly and traveled for six days and five nights to come to school.
Duan Yihong, who came from the village, seemed out of place among a group of city children, which made him feel a strong sense of inferiority.
Duan Yihong's Mandarin is not standard, always with a Xinjiang accent, Tao Hong often laughs and learns to speak with him, so Duan Yihong often talks to him.
Although Tao Hong often laughed at Duan Yihong, his warm-heartedness also took good care of him.
Every New Year's Festival, his classmates would go home to celebrate, and Duan Yihong's home was too far away, coupled with the high cost of travel, he often could not go back, and could only go to school alone.
Whenever this happens, Tao Hong will invite Duan Yihong to her home for dinner, so that Duan Yihong, who is in a foreign country, can feel the warmth of home.
Tao Hong's care for Duan Yihong made him gradually become cheerful, and Duan Yihong was grateful to Tao Hong and slowly developed feelings.
But before Duan Yihong could summon up the courage to confess, he was cut off by Xu Zheng.
In 1998, Tao Hong graduated from the Central Academy of Drama and was assigned to work at the Central Experimental Drama Theatre.
At that time, Xu Zheng had already achieved something in the show business circle, won the "Best Actor" award, and many movies invited him to star.
In the same year, filming of "Spring Brilliant Pig Eight Commandments" began, and Tao Hong was invited to play the role of "Little Dragon Girl".
The crew approached Xu Zheng and hoped that he could play the role of Pig Eight Commandments.
Xu Zheng was still a little reluctant when he first learned the news, but in order to break through himself, Xu Zheng still took over the play.
During the shooting, Tao Hong and Xu Zheng met and slowly developed emotions.
Before meeting Xu Zheng, Tao Hong was also worried that the actor of the Pig Eight Commandments was a middle-aged greasy man who was blessed with happiness, and only put his heart at ease after seeing the white and pure Xu Zheng, leaving a good first impression.
After that, the two slowly understood each other in getting along, and their feelings became deeper.
In order to play the Eight Precepts of the Pig, Xu Zheng needed to stick a lot of glue to his face, which was very inconvenient when eating, so Tao Hong specially bought egg fried rice and fed him with a spoon bite by bite.
Xu Zheng was impressed by Tao Hong's gentleness and soon formally established a romantic relationship.
In order to plan a romantic marriage proposal, Xu Zheng made a careful plan.
He planned to take Tao Hong to dinner first, and then go shopping together, wait until noon, and then propose to Tao Hong.
After listening to Xu Zheng's plan, the friend shook his head and told him that the noon gate was an ancient place to kill heads and was not suitable for marriage proposals.
But Xu Zheng had already made an appointment with Tao Hong, and could only act according to the plan first, and then respond to the situation at the end.
But on the day of the marriage proposal, Xu Zheng was so nervous that he was overwhelmed, and unconsciously walked to the noon gate and proposed marriage here.
Xu Zheng took out the ring, knelt on one knee, and said to Tao Hong affectionately: "Marry me." ”
Before Tao Hong could answer, a great master who was guarding the noon gate came over and drove the two out.
Although the marriage proposal process was not smooth, Tao Hong did not care and immediately agreed to Xu Zheng's marriage proposal.
It didn't take long for the two to enter the wedding hall.
The life after the marriage of the two is still very sweet, Tao Hong laughed and said that Xu Zheng is a typical Shanghai man, never with her to worry about who does the housework at home, always want to clean up the family.
In order to take better care of the family, Tao Hong chose to slowly fade out of the entertainment circle and seriously started Xu Zheng's xiannei help.
Xu Zheng took on the heavy responsibility of making money to support his family and continued to run in the show business circle.
Xu Zheng's acting skills are superb, his career has soared, and he has been loved and supported by many fans.
As his fame grew, Xu Zheng's lace news also increased.
In 2008, Tao Hong was pregnant and raised at home, and some media filmed Xu Zheng fooling around with a group of women in a bar.
One day in 2012, some media photographed Xu Zheng holding a woman dressed in white on the street, the two moved intimately, and the relationship seemed not simple.
Some people even broke the news that the two spent eight hours in the hotel together, reading the script.
Later, some netizens dug out that just the day before the photo was revealed, Tao Hong had just led her daughter out of Beijing.
At this time, it caused an uproar in public opinion, and netizens condemned Xu Zheng one after another, saying that as soon as Tao Hong left, he could not bear the loneliness and "stole fish" outside.
As things got more and more noisy, Xu Zheng posted a statement online, saying that the woman in white in the photo was just his own student, and the two ate together, then went to sing, and finally sent her home.
The reporter also found the woman in the photo and questioned her.
The woman was very angry after hearing the reporter's question, and righteously said that she was only a student, not a primary three.
For the above explanation, netizens do not buy affection.
However, Tao Hong did not care about this matter and publicly stated that he had a good relationship with Xu Zheng.
Tao Hong's unconcerned attitude made netizens not good to say more, and the incident slowly calmed down.
In 2014, Tao Hong was asked about Xu Zheng's derailment in an interview, and Tao Hong said very atmospherically: "Physical things, that is not a thing." ”
Tao Hong also said that in a marriage relationship, formal loyalty and inner loyalty are not the same thing, and fidelity in a relationship is not important.
Maybe it's called an open marriage, where two people play their own and don't bother each other.
In 2015, Xu Zheng was photographed by the media "looking for fun" in a clubhouse, looking for a hot girl to accompany, and even danced with the hot girl on the dance floor, the action was intimate.
In other words, in the face of the rumors that followed, he could not bear it, but Tao Hong was not angry at all.
He even said: It is not necessarily a bad thing that someone throws himself at him, which just shows that I have a good eye.
Tao Hong's life is not only Xu Zheng, in addition to focusing on the family, he will also do some things he likes.
In "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", Tao Hong once said: "The prevalence of girl culture is not a good thing, which can only indicate the naivety and immaturity of men." ”
It can be seen that Tao Hong has a clear understanding of herself and will not change herself in order to please others.
Tao Hong is a qualified wife, and when Xu Zheng fell into the whirlpool of public opinion again and again, she was not angry, but came forward to help her husband introduce.
Tao Hong is also a competent mother, and when she participated in the interview program, she talked about her interesting daily life with her daughter Xu Xiaobao.
Regarding what netizens said, Tao Hong made great sacrifices for her family, and Tao Hong did not agree.
She said that she did not sacrifice, it is a very happy thing to see her daughter grow, if she meets the right role, she will also consider acting, she likes acting.
Tao Hong can temporarily give up her career for the sake of her family, but she can also have excellent performances when she wants to act.
In "Little Joy", Tao Hong played an anxious mother, which was loved by many viewers.
Many viewers said: "It's like seeing my mother." ”
In the program "The Birth of an Actor", Tao Hong dashi acted, playing the shyness of the young girl Wanrong just right, and the acting skills hung many contemporary traffic stars.
Tao Hong did not make too much preparation for this short show and still has such a wonderful performance, which shows that her acting skills are not bad.
During the time when she faded out of the entertainment industry, she did not give up acting, as long as she was given a stage, she could be the sparkling self again.
In this marriage relationship, Tao Hong, as a xiannei helper, is not dependent on Xu Zheng to live, and without Xu Zheng, she can still shine.
And Xu Zheng is more and more inseparable from Tao Hong, Xu Zheng can have today's achievements, and Tao Hong's help is inseparable.
Tao Hong often helped Xu Zheng substitute class, and even Huang Bo once praised her as a smart person and very personal.
Today, Tao Hong is 49 years old, and he still maintains his attitude towards married life, understands and respects Xu Zheng with xu zheng, and lives a stable life.
As Xu Zheng strides forward, she also maintains her independence.
She always maintains an innocent attitude towards life, does not demand for career and love, everything goes naturally, just seek happiness, maybe this is where her wisdom lies.