Tao Hong's film and television works are not many, and when she served as a judge of the 27th Magnolia Award, many people questioned her lack of qualifications.
However, a closer look at Tao Hong's resume reveals that she has won the top 6 awards for mainland films and TV series, and is a well-deserved "film queen" and "queen".
Tao Hong was a synchronized swimmer when she was young, and she won the national championship many times, because she was pulled by the director to make a movie because of her beautiful appearance.
Later, Tao Hong broke through in the film and television industry, and when she filmed the hit drama "Eight Commandments of Pigs" in 1998, she had already won the crown of "Film Queen".
At the same time, Tao Hong fell in love with Xu Zheng, an actor in the same crew, and this unpromising relationship was cultivated into a positive result, but their married life was not as simple as imagined.
After Xu Zheng became a big director, he was repeatedly photographed by the media and ambiguous with strange women, but Tao Hong was not angry, but also stood up for her husband, claiming that the two were "open marriage".
Tao Hong's endurance is much better than other women, perhaps this is inseparable from her growing environment since childhood.
1. Synchronized swimmers
Tao Hong was born in Jiangsu in 1972 to a father who was an engineer and a full-time wife to a mother who was at home and devoted herself to taking care of her children.
Shortly after Tao Hong's birth, his father moved to Beijing with his family due to job transfers.
But consumption in Beijing was so high that her father's meager salary alone could not make ends meet, and the mother, seeing her children grow up, found a library to work.
The work in the library is relatively easy, the mother will not delay watching the children, and at the same time can earn some money, but the salary can not be paid much.
Watching her father's pressure become too much, her sideburns gradually turned white, and her mother couldn't bear it, and entrusted 5-year-old Tao Hong to her own sister to take care of her.
Tao Hong grew up with her aunt and began a life under the fence at the age of 5, which cultivated her independent and strong personality, and at the same time, she also longed for the warmth of the family.
Tao Hong had good grades when she went to school, she was very studious, and hoped to change her destiny through study.
The aunt and uncle treat Tao Hong as their own daughter, and they are happier to see her so good than anyone else. Tao Hong is slightly older, and the aunt hopes that she has some of her own strengths, so she wants to sign her up for a dance class.
Tao Hong's head is very bright, and she has learned dance well, the most important thing is that she has developed a hard-working spirit since she was a child, which other children do not have.
Soon, Tao Hong became the top student in the dance class, and the teacher suggested that she practice well and apply for dance school in the future. And Tao Hong also worked hard, spending all his leisure time practicing dance.
Tao Hong's efforts are heart-wrenching, she has had almost no childhood since she was a child, and she has been working hard.
Adults like such children the most, especially dance teachers, think that Tao Hong's resilience is precious, which is very important for practicing dance.
Therefore, the dance teacher invited Tao Hong's parents and suggested that she be taken to apply for the dance academy.
The aunt was very happy to hear the teacher's words, and Tao Hong's excellence made her very proud, so she followed the advice of the dance teacher and took Tao Hong to apply for the dance school.
Tao Hong was successfully admitted to dance school, but she was very strict with her discipline and did not forget to practice during the summer vacation waiting for the start of school.
One day, Tao Hong was practicing dance in the square, and saw an amiable woman with a group of little girls, which made Tao Hong very envious.
Tao Hong has worked hard for excellence since she was a child, she longs for friendship, but she has no time to maintain, and now she wants to go to dance school, which makes several friends who are already indifferent to her part ways.
Teenage children, of course, will be lonely and envious of other people's lives.
Coincidentally, the woman approached Tao Hong, first praised Tao Hong for dancing well, and then asked her "do you want to practice dancing on the water with her."
Tao Hong was very vigilant, and the woman smiled, handed her a business card, and told her that she could let her parents take her to the address on the business card to take a look.
Tao Hong silently put the business card in her pocket, and this encounter made her have no heart to practice dancing again, and she soon returned home.
In the evening, Tao Hong told her aunt about her magical encounter and gave her business card.
The aunt saw that the business card read "Beijing Synchronized Swimming Team Coach", her eyes lit up, and decided to take Tao Hong to find out.
The next day, the aunt came to the Beijing Gymnasium, inquired around and found the coach, the coach was taking the children to train, and she was very happy to see Xiao Taohong.
Through a simple conversation, I learned that the Beijing synchronized swimming team is short of people, and I saw that Xiao Taohong danced well, and her body proportions were coordinated, which was a good seedling for practicing synchronized swimming.
The coach also told the aunt that Tao Hong was responsible for training with her, and there was no need to pay tuition, and there was a stipend every month, as long as she trained hard, she would be able to become a professional athlete in the future, and the future was bright.
Back at home, the aunt asked Tao Hong's opinion on whether to continue to learn dance or give up dancing to learn to swim, and told Tao Hong that no matter what she wanted to learn, the aunt fully supported her.
Tao Hong, who had always had an opinion, suddenly had no idea, and she did not want to give up dancing, but the happy smiling faces of the children lingered in her heart.
After a sleepless night, Tao Hong tossed and turned, thinking of what the woman said during the day, learning to swim can not only free tuition, but also earn some money. So, the next day, she got up and told her aunt that she had decided that she was going to practice synchronized swimming.
Unexpectedly, not long after this decision was made, Tao Hong regretted it, and her heart ached at the thought of her efforts for the dance.
After hearing this, the aunt expressed her full support, Tao Hongqiang squeezed out a smile, and the aunt asked her if she would like to clean up as soon as possible or stay at home for a few days.
Tao Hong said as soon as possible, the aunt is a little reluctant to say that it is not a little later than two days, these two days are hot, the training will be harder.
Tao Hong smiled and nodded, and the aunt said goodbye to her and went to work, and as soon as she left, Tao Hong's tears flowed down.
When the aunt returned home, Tao Hong had already packed her luggage, and she told the aunt that she was looking forward to learning to swim and hoped to pass as soon as possible, in fact, she did not want to make herself regret it.
The next night, the aunt prepared a very rich dinner for her, telling her to take care of herself, even if there was anything to tell the family.
Tao Hong began to be a little reluctant to be aunt, but over the years she was used to understanding things, nodded and said yes.
The next day, Tao Hong was sent to the Beijing Synchronized Swimming Team, when she was only 11 years old.
Second, because of the beauty of the actress
The swimming team training is much more tiring than the dance, soaking in the water for seven or eight hours a day, the dance is on the flat ground, this is in the water.
Although tired, little girls were often sent in every three to five minutes, and on the third day of her arrival, a girl with a double ponytail was sent in.
The girl and Tao Hong bunk bunk, the next day the girl came, because the training was too hard, secretly covered with a quilt at night to cry.
Tao Hong comforted the girl, the girl said she missed her mother, Tao Hong gently tapped her shoulder to comfort her to sleep.
Tao Hong watched her fall asleep and return to her bed, tears could not stop flowing out, there was no reason and no sound, just simply wanted to cry.
No matter how hard the days of training had to continue, Tao Hong was very tenacious, without the pain she could not eat, she quickly adapted to the rhythm, and became the top student of the swimming team in a few months.
Soon, Tao Hong was able to participate in the competition with the swimming team, and she won many trophies for the team and won many championships with the team.
Four years passed in a flash, and Tao Hong was also transferred from the city team to the national team, shouldering the mission of winning glory for the country.
Tao Hong lived up to her mission, and in the early 1990s, when China did not have a place in the Olympic Games, it achieved good results to follow the synchronized swimming team.
When Tao Hong was 21 years old, Jiang Wen was preparing to make his first film, "Sunny Days".
There is a character named Yu Beibei in the movie, who looks young and beautiful, and swims very well.
In order to find an actress who can play this role, Jiang Wen specially came to the national team, hoping to have a beautiful little girl to help this help, and everything is easy to say.
In this way, Tao Hong entered Jiang Wen's magic eye and got the role of "Yu Beibei".
Tao Hong has never acted, but she has performed well in movies, Jiang Wen praised her as a good material for being an actor, and took Gong Li as an example to her, suggesting that she go to university for further study.
As a result, Tao Hong applied for the three highest schools in the country to study performance, and as a result, all three universities threw olive branches to her.
The actor in the chinese drama and the director in the north film, so Tao Hong chose the chinese drama.
In 1997, Tao Hong was in her third year, and she was very lucky to receive the movie "Black Eyes", and Tao Hong became famous with this movie in one fell swoop, winning the international film queen and the domestic Golden Rooster and Huabiao double film queen.
After graduation, Tao Hong was assigned to the drama theater, and this year she received her first TV series in her life, and she also met Xu Zheng, an actor who accompanied her all her life.
III. Tao Hong and Xu Zheng's "Open Marriage"
When Tao Hong received the script, she learned that she wanted to play a couple with Pig Eight Commandments, and she couldn't understand it. The impression of the eight precepts of the pig, fat head and big ears, obscene to the extreme, but when he saw Xu Zheng, Tao Hong was still quite happy.
Xu Zheng is witty and humorous, looks good, and has acted in many works and won the Magnolia Award, leaving a good impression on Tao Hong.
On the other hand, Xu Zheng saw such a beautiful actress for the first time, Tao Hong was very gentle and smiled, especially the rare desperation of acting.
Xu Zheng secretly had feelings for her, and gradually developed some feelings in the process of acting, tao Hong did not reject this feeling, and the two quickly came together.
Xu Zheng's "Eight Commandments of pigs" was a hit, and he quickly became popular in China, until Xu Zheng became a director for the first time in 2003, and this year he also formally proposed to Tao Hong.
Xu Zheng chose the place of marriage proposal in a very special place, the main entrance of the Forbidden City in Beijing, which he felt was a romantic place and very solemn.
The marriage proposal did not go smoothly according to Xu Zheng's vision, and his whole person was not good due to nervousness that day, and he was even more stumbling when he took out the ring.
Especially when Tao Hong saw the ring, he was not only not moved, but also laughed at him for not having culture, saying that this was the place where torture was used.
Xu Zheng was very embarrassed, but when Tao Hong said that I was willing, Xu Zheng felt like a cup of vinegar poured into his chest, it was the kind of apple cider vinegar, the acid was just right, and the sour tears almost stayed.
Soon, the two got married, that day the high friends were full of people, very lively, Tao Hong did not like to be lonely, so many people she felt very happy.
Since marrying Xu Zheng, Tao Hong has felt that she has never felt happy before, she is used to the life under the fence, and she never thought that one day she could have a home of her own.
She cherishes this relationship, and at the same time is very insecure, for this relationship she will not hesitate to push off her work, rest assured at home to guard her husband, enjoy the warmth of home that has never been.
08 is a day of national celebration, this year Tao Hong also gave birth to a girlfriend for Xu Zheng, this family is more complete, Tao Hong has a sense of security.
It was just a sudden thing that shattered all her happiness, and her husband Xu Zheng, who said that she loved herself, was actually photographed by the media fooling around with other women when she was pregnant.
Tao Hong lost her mind for a moment, and when Xu Zheng returned home, she was very scared and trembled in the face of this man.
Xu Zheng knelt down to confess to her, saying that he really loved her and begged her not to leave himself, even if it was for his daughter, as long as he did not leave him, he would never do it again in the future.
Tao Hong forgave him, she had just received the warmth of her family and did not want to lose it so soon.
Four years later, Xu Zheng did not fulfill his promise and was once again photographed by the media sleeping in a hotel with a strange woman. Xu Zheng was pushed to the cusp of the storm, and despite repeated clarifications, the image was irretrievable.
For an actor, image damage means that his career will stagnate, or even plummet, but Tao Hong stood up at this time to show his attitude.
Tao Hong said that "physical things are not called things", as to why Tao Hong's attitude has changed so quickly in a few years, only the husband and wife know, others do not know.
In 2019, Xu Zhian cheated, but his wife Zheng Xiuwen chose to forgive, and many netizens explained the reason: "Xu Zhian and Zheng Xiuwen have been together for more than ten years, and the two have long been transformed into affection by love. ”
Maybe Xu Zheng and Tao Hong are this way of getting along, in Tao Hong's heart, Xu Zheng has long been regarded as a family, she is not willing to lose her family, and there is no way to change this situation, so she can only paralyze herself.
She declared to the outside world that the two were "open marriages" and that women should be independent and not live on men.
Many people praised her for being smart, but her cleverness was forced, and she and Xu Zheng had a dead end, but they lost their families and their only relatives, which was far less cost-effective than each other's achievements.
Xu Zheng is already the premier director and actor in China, she is also a Grand Slam "film queen" and "after the view", externally and internally they are a loving couple.
Therefore, Xu Zheng was happy and happy outside, and Tao Hong ate at home to pray the Buddha, and the taste was like a person drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge.
Tao Hong has come all the way, many people praise her excellence, praise her intelligence, praise her aura, but few people see her grievances and seek perfection, see her heartache.
In Tao Hong's body, many people have seen the hidden forbearance of Chinese women, which has been handed down for thousands of years.
Many Chinese women have suffered domestic violence, betrayal and all kinds of unfair treatment and choose to seek perfection, but can this kind of compromise and perfection really be exchanged for happiness?
Presumably, most of the exchange is just to have no fear and intensify. Because from the very beginning, this kind of forbearance was wrong.
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