Meng Xue and Mo Yuhua are both supporting characters in the novel "Originally You Were Still Here", and both of them loved each other during adolescence. Just a very free choice to let go, a feeling that has been entangled in the unsuitable.
Meng Xue controls the initiative of emotion at all times, when he loves, he does not hide it, and when he gives up, he turns around. Unlike Mo Yuhua, she has been waiting, has been paying for Zhou Ziyi, and is guarding Zhou Ziyi's side like a substitute team member. She loves Cheng Zheng, but she is far away from Cheng Zheng, and she has her own life path to go.
Meng Xue was sober enough in love. She loves Cheng Zheng and doesn't know when. She was not willing to just be the shadow around Cheng Zheng, waiting for others to find out and love herself.
Meng Xue loved Cheng Zheng, so she took the initiative to approach Cheng Zheng and took the initiative to sit in front of Cheng Zheng, but Cheng Zheng did not want her to sit in front of her and drove her away.
This did not hinder Meng Xue's love for Cheng Zheng's heart, and the two went to and from school together and chatted together. Cheng Zheng was playing basketball and injured her anxiously.
However, one day, she found that Cheng Zheng of Qingmei Bamboo Horse actually liked Su Yunjin. Meng Xue did not sabotage like the female partners in ordinary books, and wanted to rob the male protagonist to his side. She despised doing so, she had her own pride.
At the graduation party, Cheng Zheng wanted to sing a song with Su Yunjin, and Su Yunjin lied that he could not sing, and it was Meng Xue who broke the siege for Cheng Zheng. He didn't love her, but she didn't want him to be too embarrassed, after all, he was the one he had loved.
Meng Xue and Cheng Zheng have known each other since childhood, the two parents have a good relationship, Meng Xue knows Cheng Zheng's temper very well, he is impatient and strong, but he gets along well with Meng Xue. Because Meng Xue let him do everything and accommodate him.
Cheng Zheng said that the girls were annoying and always ignored Meng Xue's love, and Meng Xue thought that they were too young, and Cheng Zheng never thought about this.
It wasn't until Su Yunjin appeared that Meng Xue knew it wasn't like that. Cheng Zheng didn't understand, he just didn't meet what he liked. Even though Cheng Zheng pretended to hate Su Yunjin, Meng Xue could still see what he was thinking. Because she knew him so well.
Meng Xue has known Cheng Zheng for eighteen years, but it is still better than the ten months that Su Yunjin and Cheng Zheng have known each other, and Cheng Zheng can't say anything good about Su Yunjin, but he just likes it, and the ten horses can't pull back. Meng Xue was not willing, but she had no way, and she did not want to be a vicious female partner who provoked dissension. Because she clearly knew how inappropriate Cheng Zheng and Su Yunjin were.
Their families do not match, Su Yunjin's family is not rich, her life Cheng Zheng can not imagine, Cheng Zheng has been smooth since childhood, and the family is a major obstacle for them. In addition, Cheng Zheng has a stubborn personality, and Su Yunjin is also a person with ideas, and she will not accommodate Cheng Zheng. The personalities of the two of them are simply not suitable for bumping into each other.
Meng Xue had seen through the obstacles they would encounter together early on, so she did not bother to create obstacles for them. She also didn't have time to break them up, because Su Yunjin didn't accept Cheng Zheng at all, and what she had to do was not to comfort Cheng Zheng, who was frustrated, but to heal her inner pain.
After graduating from high school, Meng Xue and Cheng Zheng have been in contact. Knowing that Cheng Zheng and Su Yunjin were together, she didn't care, because she knew that the things of feelings could not be forced, no love was no, and it was useless to have a man's shell without love.
She relegated herself to the position of a normal friend. When Cheng Zheng and Su Yunjin had a conflict and deliberately embraced themselves in front of Su Yunjin, Meng Xue had a momentary lapse of concentration, which was the scene she had imagined, and she did not expect it to be realized at this moment.
If the average woman had seized this opportunity to paste it earlier, taking advantage of the man's drunkenness to have a relationship with the man, raw rice and cook mature rice to sit the relationship between the two people.
But Meng Xue did not, Meng Xue asked Cheng Zheng with difficulty:
Cheng Zheng, do you know what you are doing? ”
She wouldn't let Cheng Zheng's ambiguous actions pass inexplicably, she needed an explanation. Cheng Zheng bent down and buried his head in Meng Xue's shoulder and said, "You don't like it? ”
Su Yunjin left in a negative mood, Cheng Zheng apologized to Meng Xue, and Meng Xue was about to give Cheng Zheng a slap on the backhand: "I want to tell you that I am a person, not a prop, even if I like you." You can not love me, but you can't use me like this, you know my feelings for you, but you use this as a chip for the relationship game between the two of you, you are so despicable! ”
Meng Xue will not be confused by the man's false appearance, even if she has loved this man, she will not allow him to trample on herself indiscriminately.
How could such a sober-minded girl not meet the man who really treated her and loved her?
Meng Xue's ending is better than Mo Yuhua's, she married love and had a happy marriage.
In love, Meng Xue takes the initiative to fight for herself, and at the same time, she can also see through whether the other party loves herself or not, and she can accept emotional failure. She knew that the feelings were barely coming. Therefore, even if Cheng Zheng was alone and did not stay with Su Yunjin, she would not feel that her opportunity had come, and took the opportunity to use her gentleness and thoughtfulness to soothe Cheng Zheng's hurt heart and see if the two of them could be together.
Meng Xue would not do this, trampling on his own emotions knowing that there were others in the other person's heart. She would rather let go of Cheng Zheng, and after letting go of Cheng Zheng, Cheng Zheng's sorrow and joy have nothing to do with her, and she does not do people who take advantage of the void. Because this void would not be the whole of Cheng Zheng, why should she let herself be hurt again.
Letting go of Cheng Zheng, Meng Xue healed his love wounds and opened his feelings at the right time.
How could such a transparent girl make herself unhappy?
Love and can't, anyone can meet. Some people have walked out of the road of happiness like Meng Xue, and some people have wasted themselves for people who don't love themselves like Mo Yuhua.
Some people are willing to play a supporting role in the emotions of others, and some people always remember that they are the protagonists of their own lives. They get hurt, but they don't do things that make themselves bargain.
Love and can't do anything, but it is a not very good emotional experience, and after it is passed, it is reborn. Some people are afraid of pain, unwilling to live, unwilling to admit their failures, and they live in love and suffering.
Some people are hard at their hearts to let themselves see through the truth of not being loved, and learn to love themselves and care about themselves in heartache again and again. What they usher in is the rebirth of emotions and the rebirth of themselves.
Love is just an emotion in life. Success or failure is normal. There's no need to spend time and energy on someone who doesn't love themselves, it's not worth it. Love yourself well, be the protagonist of your own emotions, and good love will naturally come.