There are countless kinds of suffering in life, and love and not having to be one of them. Many people are deeply involved in crush and unrequited love. The person in the crush had a hard time summoning up the courage to confess, but the other party refused. Do you think someone with a crush can leave and let go?
A failed confession never ends a crush. The beloved's every move still touches the heart of the crush. A confession is just to turn the crush into a bright and just single love, but it is to say the voice of the crush and tell the crush to be loved.
Mo Yuhua and Zhou Ziyi in the novel "Originally You Were Still Here", two people who were destined not to come together from the beginning. They had a brief intersection because of graduation, and a brief connection because of a car accident. However, the relationship between the two people is only that, and there is no way to go further.
Mo Yuhua and Zhou Ziyi are high school classmates, one of whom is not obscure and has a poor family. A sunny and handsome, good at pleasing girls, rich family. The two of them did not intersect, because Mo Yuhua's appearance was not outstanding enough to attract the attention of Zhou Ziyi, who loved beautiful women.
But this did not prevent Mo Yuhua from liking Zhou Ziyi. Mo Yuhua never hid his liking for Zhou Ziyi, but Zhou Ziyi's gaze never stayed on her. So he never found out that an ordinary-looking girl had a crush on him for so long.
On the eve of graduation, Mo Yuhua plucked up the courage to confess to Zhou Ziyi, Zhou Ziyi was completely frightened, his face changed, he did not know how to reply to Mo Yuhua, he had to choose to flee into the wilderness.
As for Zhou Ziyi's behavior, Mo Yuhua was not surprised, but she seemed to have expected Zhou Ziyi's reaction early on, and calmly accepted the reality of the failure of the confession.
Mo Yuhua has always been very sober, she knows that she is not the type that Zhou Ziyi likes, and knows that two people cannot be together. But she still made a move to confess voluntarily. She just didn't want to leave regrets for her youth, didn't want a crush without even a sound, didn't want the other party to not even know that she had liked him.
The rejection of the confession and the separation of graduation did not change Mo Yuhua's feelings for Zhou Ziyi. Zhou Ziyi was like it was engraved in Mo Yuhua's heart. He had a girlfriend, and she had no right to interfere. She was sad, but always cared about his every move.
At first glance at Mo Yuhua, I thought she was a sober woman in the world, free enough for love. Looking deeply at Mo Yuhua, she was nothing more than a poor love fugitive.
Academically, she worked hard to study, she was conscientious and responsible at work, she had seen a beautiful world of flowers and flowers, but her heart was not in the world, and her heart was in a man named Zhou Ziyi.
Even if they don't contact often, even if the man doesn't care about her at all, she still shows up to him when he is having difficulties and when he can.
Zhou Ziyi was in a car accident, and she took care of Zhou Ziyi without any clothes. Zhou Ziyi was grateful for her care, but their relationship never went any further.
As long as Zhou Ziyi was not married, Mo Yuhua was always by his side, and even in order to guard this man closely, she gave up the opportunity to study abroad.
In the end, it was difficult to go abroad, but also because I knew that it was impossible to go with Zhou Ziyi, because people married their beloved women.
Mo Yuhua went abroad alone with his wounds. She loves Zhou Ziyi, and Zhou Ziyi knows it very well, but this does not change anything, because Zhou Ziyi does not love her. Zhou Ziyi could accept Mo Yuhua's care with peace of mind and turn around to thank him with courtesy, because this person had never entered his heart, and he didn't care if his actions would hurt her.
Mo Yuhua, who was very smart about all this, knew that she should be dead to this man when Zhou Ziyi rejected her confession. But she just can't do it, always holding on to the luxury of thinking that as long as he is not married for a day, he still has hope, what is it to have a girlfriend, and he is not a wife, and sooner or later he may break up.
With impossible expectations, Mo Yuhua waited for Zhou Ziyi year after year. Year after year is his own years, and what has passed away is his fresh vitality. It wasn't until Zhou Ziyi married someone else that Mo Yuhua felt that it was impossible for her to go abroad and learn to heal her wounds. Zhou Ziyi's news, Mo Yuhua has always been very clear, knowing that he is married, divorced, remarried, and has children. Mo Yuhua had been paying attention. No one knows if one day Zhou Ziyi's emotions will regenerate, whether Mo Yuhua is willing to be his spare tire.
The authorities were obsessed with bystander Qing, and everyone knew that Zhou Ziyi and Mo Yuhua could never be together, and only Mo Yuhua could not let go of Zhou Ziyi.
How much for Mo Yuhua is not worth it, for a man to stomp his own good time. But how many people are willing to be Mo Yuhua.
In love, without asking for anything in return, obsessively waiting for a man to love himself, and giving up his life for that man.
Some people will say that this is love, love a person regardless of return. But such unrequited love is very bitter, knowing that it is impossible to wait is a fool, it is to hurt yourself again and again.
When loving others, women should learn to love themselves and put themselves first. Love a man, take the initiative to confess that there is no shame, the key is to know how to put it down after people refuse.
Feelings never make sense, no love is no love, no matter how much you pay for each other, people who don't love you will not fall in love with you after all. So there's no need to waste time on them.
When people refuse, they withdraw their feelings little by little. Such a woman is not unsentimental, but lives rationally and transparently.
The world is so big, this man does not love you, one day you will meet a man who loves you and you love, the key is to first let go of the man who cannot be together.
It hurts to let go of a man you love, but only by letting go of life can you continue to go on, and only by letting go will you allow new feelings to enter your life. Our whole life is first of all to make ourselves happy, and secondly to make others happy. Don't put the cart before the horse, do Mo Yuhua foolishly, and only yourself is touched in the end.