Ning Caishen, maybe some people don't know, but to mention the popular "Wulin Wai Biao" in 2005, I am afraid that everyone knows that no one knows, which can be described as an indelible classic.
Ning Caishen is the screenwriter of this classic work, and is praised by netizens as a "genius screenwriter".
He and his wife Chen Jiao'e met by chance because of a party, and the two got married after a month of knowing each other, which is also love at first sight.
In "The Legend of Wulin", Chen Jiao'e also participated in the filming, but only a small supporting role.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="12" >01 prenuptial agreement</h1>
Ning Caishen once declared: He only wants love, not marriage.
At a party, Ning Caishen saw Chen Jiao'e for the first time and felt that this girl was vivid and cute, and after getting acquainted, she slowly became more in contact.
When Ning Caishen was hesitating to find some reason to send an invitation, he suddenly received a text message from Cheng Jiao'e, which was simple and direct: "Get out of the assembly and go out to eat crayfish." ”
The two hit it off, from knowing to holding hands in a cycle of only one afternoon, from acquaintance to marriage as long as a month, breaking the declaration that as long as love does not marry.
Ning Caishen spends most of his time writing at home, and does not like to go out or travel. After Cheng Jiao'e got married, she quit her job and became a full-time wife at home, accompanying her husband.
Ning Caishen once said satisfactorily: "Usually she is by my side, I only write, otherwise I can't write anything." Ning Caishen's parents were also very satisfied with this daughter-in-law.
Ning Caishen is a person with high emotional intelligence, and he has never thought about marriage before, so that people like him can stop the pace of freedom, enter marriage, and stay with a woman for life, Chen Jiao'e is also a powerful role, and can hold Ning Caishen's mind very accurately.
It is said that before getting married that year, Cheng Jiao'e said a simple word to Ning Caishen: "I want to marry you, but I am willing to divorce you at any time..."
Ning Caishen was stunned for a moment and asked, "Do you mean that as long as I file for divorce, you will never object?" ”
Chen Jiao'e nodded and said, "As long as you say leave, I will sign it immediately." However, while you are married to me, you are not allowed to do anything that is sorry for me. ”
The two signed a jointly drafted "Prenuptial Agreement", which clearly stipulated: "Both parties have the right to file for divorce at any time, and when one of them proposes a divorce, the other party shall not prevaricate or procrastinate for any reason, and shall cooperate with the other party to handle the divorce procedures within one month of the divorce application... Premarital property is allocated on the basis of the actual ownership determined in the annex, and property acquired after marriage is determined on the basis of the purchase invoice and the relevant title certificate in accordance with the principle of who buys and who owns..."
In order to reflect the impartiality, Cheng Jiao'e invited 3 friends they all knew as notaries, signed to ensure that the agreement was signed under the condition that both parties were conscious and voluntary, and the agreement had legal effect.
The real bottom in love is not that he loves you the most and only loves you, but that I can easily lose you.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="44" >02 Ning Caishen unilaterally broke the contract</h1>
Ning Caishen ended his single career, and Cheng Jiao'e was his legal wife.
Soon, Cheng Jiao'e found her own position and contracted the positions of Secretary, Nanny, agent and other positions of Ning Caishen.
When in the crew, the conditions were more difficult, often eating box lunches, Cheng Jiao'e bought a gas stove and cooking utensils, opened a small stove for Ning Caishen, and improved food.
In the creative career of Ning Caishen, Cheng Jiao'e has made indispensable contributions, although the contribution is not text, but daily care and discussion of paragraphs, that is also a contribution. Therefore, in the works after marriage, the credits in the TV series will write "Screenwriter: Ning Caishen, Cheng Jiao'e".
Ning Caishen once said, "Without a wife, there would be no Wulin Biography." ”
It turned out that many of the classic passages in "The Tale of Wulin" were discussed by Ning Caishen and Cheng Jiao'e, and many of the lines were from the impromptu jokes that Cheng Jiao'e usually said.
Cheng Jiao'e has a cheerful personality and loves mischief, while Ning Caishen's temperament is more old-fashioned, and Cheng Jiao'e can make Ning Caishen laugh out loud if she says something at home.
It is said that between husband and wife, similar is easy to run in, but complementary can go to the end, think about it as if this is the truth.
Complementary couples are like a pair of spinning gears, making up for each other's shortcomings. The two learn from each other's strengths, discover many different beauty, and together sweep away the difficulties on the road of love.
Later, after the two had savings, they bought a very large house and had their own home in Beijing, and the real estate certificate said "Cheng Jiao'e Chen Wanning".
On the 5th anniversary of marriage, Ning Caishen took out the "Prenuptial Agreement" and prepared to unilaterally break the contract and voluntarily give up the opportunity to regain his freedom later.
Unexpectedly, just when Ning Caishen wanted to put the agreement into the shredder, Cheng Jiao'e snatched the agreement book. She said she really wanted to repeal the agreement, but gave her a literal reason to convince herself.
Ning Caishen, who accompanied the text all day, seriously wrote a propositional essay on marriage, part of which is as follows:
"Harmonious families hardly talk about love. The most important elements of family stability are often so-called secular and traditional things such as conditional matching, empathy, and a strong sense of responsibility. Like my marriage with my wife, starting with a contract, being in a besieged city but having a permit to go out of the city at any time, we are not thinking about whether there is love, but how can we let ourselves touch each other, adapt to each other, let this kind of staying become a habit, and finally become who can not be separated from whom - say that we have no love? We will go further than men and women who marry for love. Isn't it to measure whether a marriage is perfect or not to see how long two people can live together in tacit understanding? In this sense, marrying a woman who is willing to divorce at any time without divorcing is love..."
What do you think? Analyzing sincerity, Cheng Jiao'e only scored a passing score of 60 points. She also suggested that Ning Caishen write an article every year on the wedding anniversary, which time he scored 100 points before he could throw the agreement into the shredder...
Will this day come? It may never come.
In fact, as long as both people have love for each other in their hearts, the agreement is in or out, it is just a dispensable piece of paper, and the maintenance of marriage depends not on the agreement, but on the state of marriage that is not abandoned!
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="84" >03 Love is inseparable</h1>
Ning CaiShen and Cheng Jiao'e were both focused on affection, and on the tenth anniversary of their encounter, Ning Caishen showed great love.
In addition, Ning Caishen also revealed that the trick of getting along with his wife is to "suppress each other": "Ten years ago, we made an agreement, whether we are rich or richer, whether they are still healthier, whether they are deviant or not, they must suppress each other and not abandon each other." ”
For the future, Ning Caishen frankly said: "Ten years later, we will change from a lover who does not see one day like three autumns apart to a relative who does not see three autumns every other day, and the previous appointment is still there." In the future, no matter what way our love is transformed, it will not be less than one point. Ms. Cheng, happy 10th anniversary!"
What is the most beautiful thing about love?
Romantic dating, sweet words, all are not, do not give up is what love should look like.
Not abandoning is the longest confession of love.
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