<b>1, the female eldest does not stay in the middle, stay and stay to stay into a vendetta</b>
This sentence actually says that in the countryside, when the daughter reaches the marriageable age and also encounters the right object of her choice, the parents should not obstruct in every way, cannot delay for a long time, and must ask the daughter to obey her own arrangements, if the parents obstruct, or consider letting the daughter earn a few more years of money for herself, so that the daughter misses the opportunity, after a long time, the daughter will resent the parents, thus having a deep contradiction with the parents.
Many family parents are more strict with their daughters, have arrangements for her entire life, and choose their own satisfactory marriage partners for her, but ignore their daughter's wishes and feelings, resulting in a deep misunderstanding in their daughter's heart.
Now society advocates free love, many children have found their own objects at a certain age, but the parents of this object are not necessarily satisfied, and if they are not satisfied, their parents will obstruct, and some will delay the happiness of their daughters.
Staying and staying to stay into revenge, this sentence makes many parents feel sad and sad, all the love and dedication, everything they do is obviously for the good of their children, they do not understand and resent themselves.
<b>2, rather by the in-laws' family to fight, not by the mother's family</b>
There is a saying in the countryside that it is better to be angry with the in-laws than to be breathed by the mother-in-law. It is said that a woman gets married, she becomes a person of the in-laws' family, and it is not uncommon to be noisy and noisy in ordinary life, but most of them are noisy and forget, and rarely really remember it in their hearts. But the same quarrel occurs in the mother's family The ending is different, it is easy to break the relationship because of a quarrel, it is difficult to reunite, the woman who marries out would rather be angry in the in-laws' family than be a little angry with the mother-in-law's family, it seems to say the voice of the married woman, but this is a saying that many parents listen to are very sad, but the people in the village all recognize this sentence.
<b>These two old sayings make many parents feel sorry for them. Parents should know that all love has boundaries, and parents' love is no exception, learn to let go at the right time, and know how to quit. </b>
<b>It is also told that as a daughter, we should understand our parents more, even if parents have a lot of opinions for the good of their children, their children should have a grateful heart. </b>