Female eldest does not stay, which means that the daughter must marry out in time when she is an adult, and it is not appropriate to stay at home for a long time, nor can she stay.
Parents are sometimes used by elders to criticize their daughters for turning to outsiders. If the lady has a good rest, she will rest well, so why should she pursue it so hard in the meantime?
There are a lot of women who feel like they're too young to leave their parents so soon, and is it a joke to stay at home at thirty?
Now Xiaobian feels that if single women only care about what others think of you, you will lose yourself, and the real purpose of life is the realization of self, to be your true self.
Over time, you will feel very depressed, or life will be boring.
So be your true self. Be courageous.
In one, don't become dependent on your family and anyone, they only really love you if you are independent.
Thirty years old is indeed still young. Nothing to joke about.
hehe.
Your happiness is in freedom.
Caring too much about other people's opinions will "build" a house for themselves and limit themselves.
The freedom to create your own happiness and happiness is the real you.
First of all, does a girl have to marry?
Ask yourself inside, the answer is obvious, everyone doesn't belong to anyone.
Everyone does not belong to parents, does not belong to the spouse, does not belong to the polity, does not belong to society, everyone is an independent individual, because the true qualities of each person are freedom (freedom, love, truth, happiness, these are actually the same thing) No matter where you are "married", you cannot be yourself, if you marry out to live for others then you are wrong, people should first live for themselves.
How can a person who does not love himself love others, and how can a person who does not see himself as valuable see that others are valuable. Of course, don't care that others are right to say that it is right, because if you care a lot about what others think of you, then you are the person created by others, not the real yourself. And it will make it difficult for you to do things, because no matter what you do, there are people who disagree with you.
A lot of people love to go with the flow. But wonder why I'm always unhappy. hehe.
Everyone knows the answer to the question, but never listens to their true feelings, and sometimes listens to it, but suspects that it is wrong because it is different from what everyone says. But I'll tell you.
A person cannot be wrong if he really listens to his true feelings in his heart.