Can you conquer a middle-aged woman with sweet words?

Conquering a middle-aged woman is not so simple.

In the eyes of many men, women are love brains, no matter how old, as long as men say some good things, do some small things for her, women will believe it, I have to say that in the minds of some men, women can only be at the mercy of men in front of love, in fact, this is just a kind of prejudice against women.

I have to admit that when I was young, women would indeed believe it because of a man's words, because at that time, women's understanding of love stayed on the surface, thinking that the love that was spoken was true love, but with the growth of the grade, the experience became more and more abundant, and women's thinking and patterns would also be improved, and the cognition of love and the understanding of human nature would be more in-depth.

When people reach middle age, women are no longer girlish hearts, although they have experienced ups and downs, but the yearning for love has always been full of expectations.

When young, women will crave sweet words, vigorous love, and hope that men will pay for themselves to prove their love for her, and the more they pay, the better.

But people to middle age, women have a deeper understanding of love, she no longer needs to get from men, more need is a spiritual level of interaction, which is why many middle-aged men feel that their wives want more and more, in fact, not, just men are not willing to waste time and energy, just want to use the quickest way to get rid of women, and whether men are perfunctory, women can easily catch.

It is not that women want more and more, but that men are becoming more and more perfunctory, thinking that saying two good words can make women believe it.

Middle-aged women never want sweet words.

Sweet words are good, if there is no sincerity and temperature, they are just perfunctory, and perfunctory is the most hurtful.

There is no age limit to love, middle-aged women also have the qualifications to desire love, many times, it is not that middle-aged women want too much, but there are very few men who can impress middle-aged women.

In real life, you will find that many middle-aged men will attribute the reason why they can't meet true love to women, especially like to attack middle-aged women, most of them like to take the age of middle-aged women to talk about things, think that middle-aged women are too demanding.

In fact, the requirements of middle-aged women are not high, but men always want to use the lowest cost to obtain true love, sweet words are indeed beautiful, but they do not require any cost, and they will soon fail.

Although a woman longs for love, it does not mean that she can accept any superficial love and conquer middle-aged women, relying on sweet words.

01

respect

Any good relationship is inseparable from mutual respect, especially feelings, but in real life, it is the most easily ignored respect in feelings.

Women in the relationship once the heart is easy to lose and become passive, at this time, men will feel that they occupy the dominant power, more and more lack of minimum respect for women, always easily ignore the dignity of women.

When people reach middle age, women have long passed the age of listening to love, and they know that although sweet words are good, they are not credible, and some men say good things, but after they are really together, they will be left behind.

When people reach middle age, women know that only men who respect a woman will give true love to women, otherwise gaining means losing.

If a woman is not respected by a man, it means that she does not deserve the love of a man, and what a man gives is a charity to a woman.

When people reach middle age, women's understanding of love is no longer like when they were young, they do not need the love of men's handouts, what they need is respect.

Unfortunately, in real life, many men despise women because of their age, and think that saying some sweet words can make women die for themselves, in fact, such an idea is very naïve.

People to middle age, women still long for love, but women do not need not be respected love, women hate is not not to be loved, but not to be respected, eager to be respected, is a person's most basic emotional appeal, if even respect for women can not do, let alone conquer women.

Love without respect will only make women feel disgusted.

The reader shared her blind date story with me, she knew that her age was there, she was already a middle-aged woman, so she did not have any requirements for the other party, as long as she could talk, the three views were ok, but after meeting with the other party, she said that she would rather be lonely than marry this kind of man.

The man shows arrogance everywhere, not even the minimum respect for women, in this man's view, he can see this woman, it is the woman's luck, he said that the woman reached forty years old, no matter how good-looking, no matter how good the job is useless, he ignores and negates all the value of women with the age of women.

In the end, he was rejected by the woman, and the man became angry and asked the woman what qualifications he had to reject him, and the woman said that he did not know how to respect people. Unfortunately, men still don't know how to respect people in the end. Such a man is not worthy of the love of a woman at all.

02

Ambition

Life in the world, the future must be self-motivated, this can make themselves and their partners full of confidence in the future, unfortunately, many men do not understand, especially people to middle age, men will always slack, feel that they should rest, so easily relax themselves.

Men feel that it doesn't matter whether they are self-motivated, as long as they have a heart for women, they are already worthy of women, but they don't know that a man who is not self-motivated will make women lose confidence in the future.

When people reach middle age, women have experienced many tribulations and suffered a lot, and they know well what kind of impact a person will bring to life if they lose their self-motivation.

When young, women still have time to waste with men, but when people reach middle age, women are eager to race against the clock to seize the tail of time, and a man who is not self-motivated cannot enter the heart of a woman, and will only make middle-aged women look down on it.

We all know that a person must be self-motivated in life, and only then will they get better and better.

If you are easily defeated by life and discouraged at every turn, you will only get worse and worse.

When people reach middle age, women don't have to waste any more time with a man who is not self-motivated, because it is not worth it.

For a middle-aged woman, there are too many things in life that she is worth pursuing, and what she needs is a self-motivated life partner, not a man who will only consume her inside.

If a man wants to conquer a middle-aged woman, don't expect to consume her, otherwise it will only cause resentment from women.

Middle-aged women are more concerned about not sweet words, but whether you are self-motivated and whether you can let her see the future.

brief summary:

For a middle-aged woman, if a man expects to impress a woman with sweet words, it means that the man is either not planning to pay his heart, or his thinking is too naïve and does not understand women enough.

Sweet words are beautiful, but lack of sincerity, if men want to conquer middle-aged women, may wish to start from the above two points.

Only by respecting her can she open her heart to you, and you have the opportunity to enter her world to understand her.

Only by becoming a self-motivated person can we bring hope and security to those around you.

Love is two-way rushing, don't think that you can get the other party's unilateral payment with sweet words, the more you want to be lazy, the more you can't stand the test.

Middle-aged women, not young girls, sweet words can not impress her, only the man who really pays in these two points can conquer her, conquer middle-aged women, relying on sweet words.