The Buddha said that there is no unprovoked encounter.
Everyone who appears in your life has a reason.
The person who loves you gives you warmth and strength.
The people who hurt you give you experience and strength.
In fact, no matter what kind of fate, their mission is to cross you.
The writer Anthony once said:
In life, there is always the warmth of unexpected encounters, and the endless hope.
There are always encounters, across the vast sea of people, with gentleness.
There are always some fates, through the years of cold and warm, do not abandon the company.
At the low point, reach out to you, give encouragement and comfort.
In the dark, accompany you through loneliness, warm and support each other.
Such a person deserves our hearts to be grateful and cherish it with our whole life.
Heard a story:
One night, a Zen master practicing in the mountains came across thieves when he returned to his hut after taking advantage of the bright moonlight.
Afraid of alarming the thief, he stood at the door waiting for him.
The thief could not find anything of value and went out to meet the Zen master when he was about to return.
Just when the thief was alarmed, the Zen master said:
"You come to visit me on a long mountain road, and you can't let you go back empty-handed!"
With that, the Zen master took off his coat.
"It's cold at night, so take this dress with you."
The Zen master draped his clothes on the thief, and the thief was overwhelmed and slipped away with his head bowed.
The Zen master looked at the thief's back and said with emotion:
"Poor man, I wish I could send you a round of bright moon!"
The next day, as the warm sunlight poured over the hut, the Zen master pushed open the door and saw that the coat that had been draped over the thief the night before was neatly stacked in the doorway.
The Zen master was very pleased and murmured:
"I finally sent him a round of bright moon..."
Warmth flows.
Kindness to people is a kind of reincarnation, and those who love to go out love to return, and those who are blessed to return are blessed.
Writer Xue Xiaochan said:
The further you go, the more you find that to be with warm people, she gives you energy, gives you time, and makes you feel grand in this world.
Those who are good to us give us the courage to face the ups and downs of life, and let us understand compassion and kindness.
People are mutual, and happiness is exchanged for sincerity.
Only when a person has been treated gently can he know how to treat others gently.
Lin Xi said:
We are all passers-by on a snowy night, and because of the friction of the encounter, the snowflakes on each other's shoulders melted.
When kindness meets kindness, you will also believe that for the rest of your life, you must become a kind person.
Grateful for the people in life who are good to us, they use sincerity and kindness to cross us to become a warm person, so that our hearts are full of sunshine.
Throughout this life, people are cultivating consciously or unconsciously.
On the road to growth, no one can have a smooth sailing. If someone helps you, someone must hurt you in order to balance.
In fact, the person who hurt you appeared and came to cross you.
Saying goes:
The lotus blossoms in the mud, and the talent comes out of the poor home.
Every tear will be accompanied by awakening. Every pain is a pillar of growth.
The storms of life's road are not to make you retreat, but to let you learn to hold your own umbrella.
The deception after trust is not to make you feel cold, but to let you see the world clearly.
We all know Xu Zhimo, a talented man of the Republic of China, who left many popular poems in his lifetime.
Among them, there are many love poems, some written to Lin Huiyin, some written to Lu Xiaoman, but none of them are written to the original wife Zhang Youyi.
This amorous and romantic man was unusually cold in his marriage to Zhang Youyi.
Zhang Youyi was born into a famous family, came from a well-to-do family, and also went to a women's college to receive education from an early age. However, because he accepted an arranged marriage, he married Xu Zhimo at the age of 15, and he was looked down upon by Xu Zhimo, who advocated new ideas at that time.
Xu Zhimo shouted "countryman" at the first sight of Zhang Youyi's photo, and compared the marriage between the two to "small feet and suits".
When Zhang Youyi was pregnant with her second child, Xu Zhimo was frantically pursuing Lin Huiyin.
When he learned that he would become a father again, his first reaction was to "hurry up and kill it."
In the face of Xu Zhimo's ruthlessness, Zhang Youyi said only non-committally:
"I've heard that someone died because of a beating..."
Xu Zhimo scoffed:
"And because they died by the train, don't people take the train?"
Later, the two divorced, becoming the first person to divorce in the new style of the Republic of China.
After being abandoned by Xu Zhimo, Zhang Youyi silently gave birth to her youngest son in a foreign country, and then followed her second brother to Germany to study early childhood education and learned fluent German.
A few years later, Zhang Youyi returned to China and partnered with others to open the Yunsheng Clothing Company.
This woman, who was laughed at by Xu Zhimo as a "countryman", finally ran a clothing company and led the fashion trend throughout China.
Due to her excellent business ability, Zhang Youyi not only did a good job at Yunsheng Garment Company, but she also served as the vice president of Shanghai Women's Commercial Savings Bank.
It was Xu Zhimo's ruthlessness that made Zhang Youyi understand the unreliability of marriage. With her own efforts, she performed the Republic of China version of "The First Half of My Life" with great enthusiasm.
From being abandoned, to the wind and water, it is excellent and powerful that brings Zhang Youyi luck.
The most thorough harm is exchanged for the most powerful growth.
The writer Roman Rowland once said:
Life is like a rushing current, there is no reef, can not stir up beautiful waves.
Those who can't defeat you will only make you stronger. Those who have hurt you, they are here to enrich your experience and complete your life.
I like what Charles Byard said:
When the sky is dark enough, the stars will shine brightly.
When people are always in pain, they are strong; when they survive, they mature; when they are stupid, they know how to cherish and give up at the right time.
Thank those who deceive you, for he has enhanced your wisdom. Thank you to those who despise you, because he inspires your fighting spirit. Thank you to those who slandered you, because he strengthened your personality.
The process of sculpting oneself through experience must be accompanied by pain and hardship.
But that hammer and chisel of self-tapping can eventually make us harvest a better self.
In this world, no one will be good to you for no reason, and no one will hurt you for no reason.
All the experiences in life are the meaning of your progress.
Zeng Guofan said:
But a gentleman does his personnel, regardless of the Mandate of Heaven, and the Mandate of Heaven is in the personnel.
What kind of mentality you treat things with, what kind of person you will become.
What really determines the height of our lives is how to face the experiences in life.
In the face of those who are good to us, know how to give back and be grateful, and one day your "giving" will become a "gain" to give back to you.
In the face of those who hurt us, do not resent and justify, quiet strength is the best revenge.
May the goodness you receive warm your fingertips, and may the bitter water you swallow up one day turn into a blessing.