Why you have to make a lot of noise when you get divorced is known to everyone

When getting married, enter the palace of marriage with the blessings of the relatives of both parties. Having a child shortly after marriage, it should have been a happy and harmonious family, so why did it have to go to the step of divorce?

As the saying goes: it is difficult for a clean official to break the housework! We are all ordinary people, and it is impossible to live with other couples twenty-four hours a day, and we can only hear from their mouths about the reasons for divorce. The woman said: At the beginning, I was really blind, and I blamed myself for being stupid and simple, listening to the coaxing of the man and his family, the good words said a basket, the man's relatives and friends said, this man is very reliable, very diligent, can earn hundreds of yuan a day, is introverted, not good at words, only to drag to such an old age without marriage. If you marry, life will definitely be very good, two people have another child, the family will be particularly happy. The woman with a beautiful vision flash marriage married to her husband, after marriage only to find that the husband and the matchmaker and relatives and friends introduced the introduction is not at all the same, a day to eat lazy to do, 12 months a year, can not do 2 months of work, stay at home all day and night do nothing, quarrel countless times, occasionally go out to work for a few days and have to rest for a few months, the family is too poor to open the pot do not care. When the woman is pregnant, she wants to eat something good and has no money to buy, and after the birth of the child, she wants to buy milk powder, and there is no money for diapers, which is the private money saved by the woman's own previous part-time work. Soon after the man gave the bride price to the woman, he was coaxed by the man's relatives and friends to go to the marriage. The woman feels that a lifetime is very long, and the remaining decades of living with such a man is simply better than death, no responsibility, can not take on the responsibility of supporting the family, a big man still has to nibble on the old, the old man is also old, how long can he nibble? It is better to be single by yourself, and it is easier to live without seeing the heart. Moreover, the child who grew up in front of such a father must have been abolished, so the woman resolutely filed for divorce and demanded that the child's maintenance be paid to herself. The man's family did not agree, and the woman was very angry and said these parents on the Internet.

We are a small county, the place is not large, the population is dense, many people are looking at their mobile phones when they are fine, and this matter is almost full of wind and rain, and everyone knows it. Below the comments section, a lot of people are commenting. People who don't know think that this kind of thing is not good on the Internet, the most hurt is still the child, and the matter between the husband and wife can not be said clearly, to the step of divorce is certainly not the reason for one party, both sides are for a reason. There are acquaintances or relatives and friends on the man's side are in the comment area to help the man speak, saying that the woman is not a fuel-saving lamp, before working outside is to deceive men's money to have so many savings, if not her own bad reputation, with her own beautiful appearance how can she marry the man's family, obviously enough to find an honest person to take over. Before marriage, I thought that the man's family had money, and after marriage, I found that the bride price of the man's family was borrowed, but because of the man's relatives and friends, in our small place, they were all big bosses who were mixed up, thinking that they could also turn over the opportunity, and wanted to have a child to continue to cheat money. I didn't expect that ruyi's abacus failed, men don't pay attention, relatives and friends have their own families, no matter how rich they are, even if they want to help, they can't help them regardless of their own small families, so women just regret it and get divorced. She is purely a woman who wants to change her fate by marriage, and if the purpose is not achieved, she will divorce, is it not a fraudulent marriage?

The woman's husband has not made any remarks on the Internet, and has always been the woman and her husband's relatives on the Internet, fighting a war of words, talking and going, scolding and scolding, and using all kinds of tricks. Most people are doing melon eating masses, only a few people come out to say fair things, some people help the man to speak, saying that this woman's husband is a person in the same village as them, no woman said so unbearable, people are honest and true, do things and do things, how much money can be made in a year is unknown, think that this woman looks so beautiful to marry an honest man must have a purpose, otherwise why not directly choose to marry the rich second generation or better conditions? Prove that this husband has a place where she wants to get benefits, and now she says that she can't look down on her husband, and no one took a knife to her neck when she was married. After marriage, he didn't get what he wanted and threw all the dirty water on the man. Some people help the woman speak, expressing their belief in what the woman says, no woman will take her youth for a few years and give birth to a child to covet the dowry money of the man's family, and the dowry money is not much, is it not lifting a stone to drop her own feet?

Of course, most people are kind, regardless of the outcome of the couple, it is recommended that she not make these negative emotions and things about her husband public, it is not good for the growth of small children, and the Internet has a memory. The woman said that she also knows that these things of her divorce are not good to take to the Internet, not only to attract jokes, but also to the growth of the child, but the man's family has many relatives and friends, some are still very good, and her mother's family has no one, the parents are honest farmers, can not help her half a point, if she does not find a place to vent, sooner or later will hold out the disease, she did not expect to cause such a big response, but she is not afraid, she is not afraid, she is not afraid of anyone to come to her to confront, people are doing the day to see, Listening to the words of the man's relatives and friends slandering her, she was angry.

Alas, it is really not easy to run a good family, and do it and cherish it!