If the person you love wakes up every day and doesn't remember you, and everything you do all over again, will you still insist on doing this thing over and over again?
What if the cycle of this thing is a lifetime?
Douban's more than 250,000 people love the movie "Fifty First Loves" to tell such a story.
Henry was a typical playboy who could quickly make women fall in love with him at first sight and quickly break away from their relationship.
Every time he falls in love, Henry creates a new person for himself.
The real Henry is a veterinarian at the Hawaii Aquarium.
Without the morning when he stumbled into a seaside café to eat, Henry's life would have been very happy.
On that sunny morning, Henry was about to have a good bite to eat when a girl not far away caught his attention.
As countless times in the past, Henry stepped forward and began to woo his sister. The girl's cute nature and little habit of loving life made Henry shudder. After the two separated, Henry was unusually obsessed.
However, nothing of a miracle happened to Henry. The girl, named Lucy, had a car accident a year ago, with a brain damaged and only a brief memory ability. She only kept the memories of her life until the day before the car accident, and no matter what happened after that, the memory cycle was only one day, and after twenty-four hours, the memory was zero.
Henry had his first taste of not being remembered.
Love stories are like swapping protagonists.
The girl's father and brother, in order to protect Lucy from harm, firmly refused Henry to enter Lucy's life.
Henry tries every means to get close to Lucy, creating a different encounter every day, although each ending is always after a brief ambiguity or heartbeat, and Lucy turns her head and forgets Henry. Henry still enjoyed it. After being beaten up by Lucy's father and brother, the two tell Henry how he lived to keep Lucy happy. They were doing the day before Lucy's car accident every day, celebrating the same birthday every day, putting the same day's newspaper in their mailboxes, watching the same day's TV show. In their view, a normal man and a girl with only one day's memory, this unrealistic relationship has no need to start at all.
Henry still insisted, using various methods to help Lucy remember.
Lucy and Henry's love affair is also getting faster and faster. Lucy, who has zero memories every day, is still attracted to Henry again and again, and after learning about her situation once, Lucy began to keep a diary, and wrote the bits and pieces of the two into the diary, so that the next day after becoming strangers, she can quickly get acquainted with each other.
At the same time as the sweetness, guilt and pain also haunt Lucy, after all, no one wants to be deeply loved by the torture of being forced to do all the repetition when they wake up. Until one day Lucy made up her mind to break up with Henry in person and tore up everything about Henry in her diary. The two are not romantic lovers, and Lucy asks Henry: How long are you going to endure this torture? Marrying a wife, having children, raising children, all these things that should be normal in the future life, you may not be able to experience because of me.
Desperate, Henry decided to leave the sunny Hawaiian land and go far away to study walruses to practice his dreams. But at sea, when Lucy's favorite song was played by chance, Henry suddenly realized that this love, which was like a short-lived dream in the eyes of everyone, had long been unable to pull out of his heart. And Lucy's subconscious has never forgotten herself, although she does not remember this familiar "stranger", she can still vaguely draw the portrait of the other party, remembering some things related to Henry.
Eventually, Henry still returned to Lucy's side.
At the end of the story, Lucy's brief memory symptoms still haven't recovered, and the two are married and have children. Lucy became the mother of the child, and every day when she woke up, her husband and child would repeat what their father and brother had done before, showing her images and reminding her of the forgotten days.
This film is a first love affair in the hearts of many people, and it is also known as one of the most suitable movies to watch with a lover. Detached from the special plot that is extremely difficult to encounter in real life, the core of the story is actually telling a truth: truly loving someone, even if it takes a lifetime, it will still be not enough. Slowly to understand this person, to understand this person, until you fall in love, you need to have a very broad mind.
In love, we often refer to the "right person.".
In the story, Henry is the right person for Lucy.
Lucy has a brief memory illness, but Henry sees more of the part he loves her. Combined is doomed to be unusual, Henry, after making up his mind, chooses to change his lifestyle, invests more patience and enthusiasm, and ends up living his life with the same happiness as an ordinary person.
The wrong people can't stay, and the right people can't drive away.
The wrong people can't stay because they are constantly evaluating the value for money that continues to stay.
The right people can't leave because they have been solving the difficulties encountered in moving forward.
The wrong person, although at a certain moment, in a certain situation and place allows, will stay by your side for a short time, and once a certain condition changes, leaving will become something that can happen at any time.
The right person, although at a certain moment, in a certain situation that is difficult in all aspects, will also try to leave you briefly, but he is always looking for a way to solve the difficulty, and once he has a reason, he still wants to come back to you.
In life, I am most afraid of putting conditions on the right people and making excuses for the wrong people.
Identify the wrong person, as long as you don't blind yourself and deceive yourself.
Cherish the right person, always believe, love the cause is worth it.
The right person loves you because you are, not for the value for money.
Do not doubt the wrong people, do not let the right people feel pain.
After listening to this story, have the courage to love yourself and fall in love with each other in the right posture!