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Recently, I was watching a TV series starring Liu Tao, "The Sea of Stars", which I thought was a very bloody plot, but I fell into the pit.
Jane Ai played by Liu Tao has too many beautiful qualities in her, and I even think that Jane Ai is the best hostess of domestic dramas in recent years: she is very kind, but there is a little sharpness in kindness, she is not a little sheep that is bullied by others; she is very strong, after breaking through the matter of her mother's cheating, her parents died unexpectedly, life is so difficult, she never complains; she is very tenacious, no matter what kind of cards god gives her, she will try to play her well; she does not love her brain, love is not so important to her, she just wants to break out of a world on her own.
In the past, most of the heroines of domestic dramas were stupid white sweet, doing some stupid things all day long, but there was also a heroine aura, and there would be a domineering president-style Prince Charming to help her. The difference between Jane Eyre is that she is IQ Online, and I appreciate her sincerity, her self-motivation, and her courage to fight.
Liang Bing is a copywriter of Jane Eyre's company, a role that contrasts sharply with Jane Eyre.
Don't look at Liang Bing is quite strong in business, but being a person is not good, and Liang Bing is easily affected by feelings, is not the boyfriend breaking up with himself, as for even the work can not be done? The boyfriend called on Liang Bing to come and go, and Liang Bing was completely pulled by it. I look down on Liang Bing's type of woman, she can't become a big thing, too easy to be seduced by men and love, more likely to meet scumbags and encounter emotional injuries.
Through the comparison between Jane Eyre and Liang Bing, I would like to remind the young girls that:
You have to know that for you, the most important thing is continuous emotional stability, benign financial situation, controllable pace of life, rational concept of life, and not someone, love or not love you.
It doesn't matter if men love you or not, don't take people who don't love you too much.
How do wise women treat men? When he doesn't contact you, you're sick when he's sick. If you are not contacted for a week, you will be hospitalized when he is hospitalized. If you don't contact you for a month, you'll be gone when he's gone. Women, you have to know that it is useless for you to talk so much about stupid love, but it is a waste of your time, your energy, a waste of your body.
Look how stupid Liang Bing is, for a man who does not love himself said to break up and impulsively cut his wrist to commit suicide, fortunately, he was found by Jane Ai and saved in time. Liang Bing talked to her boyfriend for eight years, and you can imagine how much time and energy she wasted in these eight years. When Liang Bing was busy talking about love and couldn't take care of his work, Jane Ai was trying to learn to make herself grow. Over time, Liang Bing, who had already run forward, could not catch up.
If any boss encounters an employee like Liang Bing, it is considered to be unlucky.
How I wish the young girl would realize this, whether a man loves you or not is really not so important, the following four points are the most important.
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One of Jane's big strengths is that she has constant emotional stability, and it's hard to see that she has too many mood swings. When I was a child, I saw the tragic scene of my parents' death, and Jane Ai was only fixed there, silently weeping. It's not that she's not sad, but what's the point of you showing too much sadness? The key is how you want to survive next.
When her parents died, Jane Eyre did not weep;
Sold to the countryside by her patriarchal aunt, she still did not complain and cry, but tried to find a way to escape. Jane Eyre was still a bit "spicy", she ran back to her aunt and asked her why she sold herself to the countryside, and then directly hit her aunt in the head with a wine bottle. "Spicy" is also a way to protect yourself from harm at some point.
No matter how much difficulty she encounters, Jane Eyre is emotionally stable.
On the other hand, Liang Bing, she is prone to mood swings, her boyfriend broke up with her temper, and she made a stinky face to outsiders, as if everyone had provoked her. Regardless of the disregard, he took the phone and got angry in the office, and then cut his wrists and committed suicide. The boyfriend said a soft word to her, and she was very happy, and then reunited with him. A girl like Liang Bing is very cheap, she will always be hung by men, and it is easy to meet scumbags.
If a woman wants to do something big, she must be shocked, not crying.
Remember, be emotionally stable.
Women must have some money in their hands so that you will not be committed to others.
In fact, girls will be more susceptible to seduction, beautiful clothes, shoes, bags and cosmetics. Especially today's girls, it is easier to be attracted and confused by material things. But girls should remember one thing, don't be a "moonlight family", let alone overdraft your wealth, one day if you have an economic crisis, you can easily go the wrong way. Maintain a good financial position and be careful about every amount of money you make.
I am a very insecure person, although I am very poor, but I will arrange my every expense. If I had money, I would buy it, and if I didn't have money to buy it, I wouldn't force it, and in short, I wouldn't let myself run out of money to spend. When I went to college, some girls spent 2,000 a month on living expenses and had to borrow others, but I, 1500 yuan a semester, can be. The same is true after work, I like to save money, and having money in my hand can give me a lot of security.
I never commit myself to money, I don't covet things I can't afford, and I don't value so-called brands. Aren't those luxuries all made up by people, in fact, it's not a big deal. If you wear a belt, it will not show how expensive you are, there is no need for this.
You have to control the rhythm of your life, study, work, work and socialize, and you have to be able to control yourself, not be chaotic all the time. Why some people can succeed and some people can achieve nothing, they are almost in control of their own rhythm of life.
Arrange your life reasonably, have a benign lifestyle, and have a healthy pace of life.
You look at Jane Eyre, and the rhythm of her life is very stable: work, study, work, earn money, promotion.
So in the end, Jane Eyre can succeed, and girls like Liang Bing still stay in place.
Jane Ai did not go to college because of her aunt's relationship, her goal is very clear, she must get a diploma in self-examination, and then she will help people look at the store in the bookstore while reviewing her homework. Later, her life was disrupted by her aunt, and she secretly ran to Guangzhou by herself, starting as a helper in a noodle shop, and later becoming a tea girl of a foreign trade company, but she wanted to be a merchandiser, and then a salesman.
Jane Eyre's ambitions are getting bigger and bigger, and she is constantly learning and growing.
Jane Ai's rational concept of life is to break out of the world by herself, she also faces many temptations, but she has not lost the truth in her heart, which is the rare and valuable place of Jane Eyre. Let yourself have a rational concept of life, do not compare with others, strengthen your belief, you are more likely to succeed.
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I originally thought that "The Sea of Stars" was very bloody, but after watching several episodes, it was really top-notch, Liu Tao's acting skills were really good, although there was no girlishness, but because of the sense of acting, it could make you ignore her age. I have been deeply attracted to Jane Eyre, played by Liu Tao, and now look forward to the update every day.
Jane loves such a girl, is there in reality?
I think there must be, in that era, if you had these qualities, you could definitely succeed, and in the nineties, as long as you dared to fight and dare to break through, you could still break out of the world. In this era, academic qualifications are the lowest threshold, but in that era, as long as you have the ability, willingness to work hard, and be self-motivated, you can succeed.
Young girls, more like Jane love to learn, rather than become a woman like Liang Bing.
Only by making yourself stronger can you compete with the world, and you have to become a better version of yourself.
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★ Author: Yibao; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.