The first love of youth, the vigorous love, the wordless crush, every woman may not experience love only once in her life, and all those sour, sweet and bitter feelings and incoherent infatuations at the beginning are not written in love letters, how much can be retained in memory?
Love letters, for modern people, may only be seen in movies: in "Fancy Years", the writer uses old letterhead paper and a smooth old-fashioned pen to write love letters for the beloved woman, telling the hidden love in his heart; In "Letter in a Bottle", the infatuated man writes love letters for his deceased lover; In "Love Letters", the girl writes love letters for her boyfriend in heaven...
Just as marriage needs a ring as a keepsake, how can true love be less entangled with love letters?
But countless men and women today rack their brains for what gifts to give to their loved ones, often fail to recall the simplest and most traditional way of expressing them. The ancients had hoped that the hongyan would pass on the book and the blue bird because of the night distance, the long mountain, the wide water, and the difficulty of trusting the golden book, how could their anticipatory mood and warm love at that time be expressed in words? There is also the modern Chinese literary scene.
Lu Xun and Xu Guangping, Ba Jin and Xiao Shan's "Two Places Book" is either fanatical and straightforward, or entangled, or sincere and simple, or humorous. This envelope of love letters conveys the immutable and sincere feelings between lovers.
Today's means of communication are extremely developed, a phone call, a text message, an e-mail can let the acacia convey, writing love letters is there some simplicity and complexity? The following example may make us understand.
Qiang and Yu's marriage has unconsciously entered its sixth year. At that time, their marriage was not optimistic, but the two people overcame all difficulties to combine, lived a poor but happy life after marriage, and struggled together. Now Qiang is already the assistant general manager of a joint venture company, and his career is also a small achievement; Yu, on the other hand, runs a clothing store and is thriving. The dwelling rented at the time of marriage has now been replaced by a spacious duplex apartment. Life is much more comfortable than before, but I don't know when it began, Yu felt that the feelings between them had weakened, the opportunities for the two people to sit together for a meal or chat were getting less and less, and more importantly, they had not had children because of their careers for 6 years. The emotional intersection between the two is becoming less and less, and Qiang believes that separation may allow the two to be liberated and find their own happiness, so he proposes a divorce to Yu. Yu Qiang, who wanted to be strong, endured the pain and calmly accepted. The night before the divorce, qiang pulled out the marriage certificate while sorting things out, and found several letters that had been opened underneath--it was Yu's love letter to him. Looking at the love letters, those youthful memories, budding feelings, sweet words, like a tide, surged into the strong heart..... In the end, Qiang and Jade were reconciled, and Qiang became more cherished and loved the family even more; Yuya no longer just spends most of her time in her career, she decides to have a child for Qiang. A year later, their love crystallization was born.
When in love, a woman's love letter will touch a man's heart; When a marriage is in crisis, love letters can also save it from fire and water.
Nowadays, people are accustomed to using materials to express and convey feelings, but only spiritual things can really touch people's hearts. Men and women living in modern cities actually need more emotional outpouring and spiritual communication, which is irreplaceable by roses and chocolates, and a handwritten love letter can evoke the deepest tenderness in people's hearts.
Love to know the weight, hate to know the thick, the reserved heart into a rose-like language, written into your love letter; When you step into the castle of marriage, carefully write a love letter, write your fiery love and lifelong commitment into your love letter, and keep it well; When the passion of love is gradually diluted by the years, turn up the love letters of the past, the heart and promise in the letter will tell you that love is still the same.
If you don't have a lover, then write a love letter for yourself, just like Faye Wong sang in "The Book of Laughter and Forgetness": "Write a love letter to myself, moved to cry for a long time without crying, it is a great happiness; Take this gift, this love letter, and bless yourself..."