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"The most poisonous woman's heart!"
The man threw down this sentence and slammed the door away, leaving Wen Wen sitting in the same place without fighting, originally it was the man who prostituted and led to the marriage to come to an end, it took a month to accept the divorce, I thought that it was "the big road to the sky, each side", who wanted to be suspicious in the division of property, the man refused to compensate, nor was he willing to pay alimony, but also competed for the custody of the son, today finally a big fight, the man ended with the "most poisonous woman's heart", let Wen Wen be angry and funny, and want to know what it means to use it?
"Wasp tail on the battlefield, the most poisonous woman's heart", this saying is widely spread in the folk, many people will use it to describe the woman's viciousness, but if you know the source, I am afraid that I dare not use it easily, just because the real story is very reversed, it is worth watching.
Origin of "The Most Poisonous Woman's Heart":
Everyone only knows that this sentence is the experience of ancient people, but they do not know that it has two sources:
(1) The tigress case of "The Surprise of the Second Moment Shooting"
The source is a well-recognized source of poetry, and the content is more consistent, but in general, it is a tragic story of a deeply affectionate woman who encounters a ruthless man.
The story also begins in the nineteenth year of Shaoxing, when a certain official Yan shouted for concubines because his wife Fang shi could not have children, and Fang shi could not accept it, and after repeatedly opposing it was invalid, he passively accepted her husband's concubine. But I thought that the concubine was just a fertility tool, but I didn't expect that the husband moved the truth, and the old husband and the young concubine were like glue hanging in front of the Fang family, which made the Fang family very painful, so he said that if the official went on like this, she would move to the next yard to live, and never see each other again.
As soon as the official heard that he was happy, he immediately agreed, and cleaned the next door overnight, so that Fang Shi could live in it. This angered the Fang clan, remembering that the husband and wife had been together for more than forty years, and they were even inferior to a concubine, so they transformed into a tiger and ate the concubine.
From the current point of view, this is nothing more than the fault of men, saying that they only have children and repent, and they also disguise themselves as house arrest and send wives, how to see that men are vicious and spend their hearts, how can they become the "most poisonous woman's heart"? Naturally because women have no culture, history books and biographies are written by men, naturally how to write how to write, even incarnate as a tiger can be made up, and then make up a sentence "the most poisonous woman's heart" of course is normal.
However, from the perspective of a bystander, Fang's behavior is also at fault, how innocent the concubine is, and she did not marry in voluntarily (after all, the official is more than sixty years old), if you are really angry, you should eat the culprit!
(2) Jiang Ziya of "Fengshen Yanyi"
In the "Fengshen Yanyi", this sentence comes from Jiang Ziya's wife divorce article, originally Jiang Ziya saw that the king of Qiu was cruel and wanted to throw himself into the Lord, so he wanted to take his wife Ma Shi to find another way out, but Ma Shi was a Chaoge woman, and she did not want to leave her homeland in life and death, indicating that "the concubine was originally a Chaoge woman, where to leave the country? So he rejected Jiang Ziya, preferring him to write a letter of resignation to himself rather than leave with Jiang Ziya.
From this point of view, how can this divorce incident, which was originally caused by the different aspirations of husband and wife, be described as "the most poisonous woman's heart"? The real answer is funny - but because Ma Shi's attitude was alienated when he took the Hugh Book, this made Jiang Ziya, who was very emotional, very hurt, and felt how Ma Shi could be so indifferent, so he wrote "Green bamboo snake mouth, wasp tail needle." Both are both, the most poisonous woman's heart", a poem, lamenting Ma's snub and ruthlessness.
From the perspective of modern people, it is nothing more than a glass-hearted love brain, crying and crying to accuse your wife of not loving me; a stubborn mother and daughter who loves the family, for the sake of the old family do not want men, when divorced, the suspects are long-winded. The two have such a conflict, the unfortunate one is the woman of this thousand years, from time to time to be criticized by men with this word, think about it is really wronged.
Now that I think about Wenwen's encounter, it is obvious that the man betrayed him, because Wenwen, who refused to forgive and bear the insult of "not considering for children", is so innocent, and the real "poisonous" is obviously the one who cheated.
In summary, what do you think of this sentence? Don't say it!
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